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My hair is really long and wavy, and my face shape is round. Will my hair make my face seem longer (which is what I want) or is there another style that can do that?

You hair sounds good the way it is. If you really want a change though try get side bangs or straightening your hair. With straightened hair, your face will seem longer. Hope my advice helps! ~Jenn

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There's this guy at school who I really like a lot. I met him about a month ago, and the only problem is that he's really quiet. I've started to talk to him, and we're kind of friends, but he's pretty much a loner. The only people he will talk to is me (for no reason I can figure out) and his older sister, who actually wants us to go out. The only problem is he's really shy, so I don't know if he likes me or not. And I'm not exactly that close to his sister... so I don't want to ask her. I'm wondering if I should tell him now, or wait a little longer, because I haven't known him very long... and when should I tell him if I have to wait?

I think you should try to get to know him a little bit better. He probably does like you if you are one of the few people he talks to. Wait and see what happens! Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens! ~Jenn

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well theres this guy at my school and ive always really liked him. but hes one of these guys that everybody likes and is really popular so people just think hes out of their legue and so forget about him. well that what i thought anway but now ive found out that he likes me. he asked someone for my msn address and so ive been talking to him a lot. then he asked me for my number so we have been txting each other a lot. and the thing he has been saying are seriously flirty! and sayin what we could do when we are together. but heres the thing he hasnt asked me out or anything so we arent actually an item or anything. and my mate has asked him if hes goin to ask me out but he just said not yet because he wanted to get to know me but now im thinking does he just want to be friends? does he really like me? please help me! i rate high if its good!

I think he does want to go out with you but just needs a little more time. Trying asking him if he wants to go to dinner or something. That way he can get to know you even better. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out!

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Hi ima 16 year old female not that it matters but i wanted to know something... i tan alot in the summer but never put any product on me.. and i wanted to know good products to help me tan faster and dark.. i have a dark complexion and im not worried about burning cause ive never burned... so if you have any suggestions and comments about what the product tell me... and tell me about how much it is and where to get it... thanks buches ill rate high

Try going a local salon and asking them about it. Different bronsers would work for you. Also try using brand names like California Tan or Neutragena. Both companys have good products. Hope my advice helps!

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ok i get this report about how i do in school each week. and when i 1st started getting it my dad said that if i get ONE bad thing on it than i am grounded for the whole weekend...no phone. no computer. no friends. no tv. no music. and then something bad was on it and i really dont wanna b grounded this weekend so i told him i forgot it somewhere and that i cant find it so he told me that he wanted to see it on monday and i was free this weekend but he said that if i forget it on monday or if its bad than i get grounded for 2 weeks...and in the next two weeks ill be going to 6 flags and the kiss concert so i dont know what to do because i dont know if he would take those 2 things away from me because he payed for them both..what should i do? be free for this weekend and have a good time like a plannned?? or risk being grounded for 2 weeks..but then again he might forget..please answer! soooon! ill rate.

Just take advantage of your free weekend and then on Monday, if he says anything about it, just talk to him about it. Tell him that you are going to study more and stuff like that. Tell him that you are trying to do good. Also say that you will do better on the next one. That should get him to be okay with the slip. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!

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my history teacher and i dont get on. i was quite a disruptive student in year 8 and 9. he used to teach geography which i cudnt do. he now teaches history. he always picks on me. if the class is noisy hel immediatly blame me. he sends me out for the slightest thing. like for saying im lost or i dont understand.its really getting me down. we just had a project to do and i tryed really hard and i only just got over half marks..what shall i do? cos the haed usually goes on the teachers side more than the students.

Try to talk to you teacher first and ask him why he treats you like that. If he continues to treat you bad, talk to the prinicipal or a trusted adult friend and see if they can help. Hope my advice helps!

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Me and my boyfriend kissed for the first time a while back, and now he keeps wanting to do it every day. I'm afraid if we keep kissing every day, we'll soon grow bored of it and move of to sex. I don't want to take things too fast. So what should I do?

Just tell him that you think he is moving to fast. He might not realize that you feel that way. If he still tries to move to fast, then he isnt the right guy for you. But try and talk to him and get his opinion. Hope my advice helps!

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13/f
I used to wish my bf would take our relationship more seriously. I wished he weren't so prude. Well, I finally worked up the courage to kiss him one day. But now he's so different. After we kissed he said it wasn't as awkward and now all he wants to do is talk romantic, hold me, kiss me, etc. I miss the times when we were more like friends. I feel like we're going too fast (since we're only 13). I don't know what to do and if I talk to him, he might get mad or something. Got any advice for me please?
MH

Hey! I think you should just try and talk to him. He sounds like someone who really cares. He loves you enough to try and make you feel happy. Just tell him how you feel! Hope my advice helps!

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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!!

The difference between the two stories is that the one was raped by a complete stranger and the other was by someone she knew. Even though it is technically killing a baby, difference situations are allowed. Both girls were raped unwillingly and hadn't planned to have a kid. But tell your friends that abortion is wrong and that there are other choices! Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn

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my very best friend in the world walked in on my and this boy a few days ago and we weren't doin n e thing bad just kissing and having fun. and well now she wont talk to me. i tried to talk to her and tell her that i was sorry and try to explain it to her but she wont even look at me and then she calls me a sl*t so i really need help how can i explain to her that its really not that big of a deal and that im sorry? and the weird thing is she never really cared about me and my other bfs and stuff that we did. so please help me soon

Most likely she is just jealous. Try giving her time to get used to the idea. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn

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Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class?

Even though it might sound unfair, they do have the authority to do it. Hope my advice helps! ♥ jenn

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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer*

I think you should give him a second cance, but be careful. If he made comments once, then there is a chance that he might do it again. Hope my advice hlps! ♥ jenn

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Does anybody know how i could remember my homework??? Because i always forget and i think i lost my agenda. And they wont give us new ones ??? Any advice would be great ( i rate high)

Just go to a local store and buy a cheap planner or notebook. Then write down your homework in it and you won't forget. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn

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OKAY, someone made a s/n almost exactly like mine and is telling me that im gonna get my ass kicked ass school but they wont tell me who they are and is putting up stupid away messages such as: "having sex for money"

and tellling me that my boyfriend is cheating on me and stuff. and she says that i've been mean to her in school. but i have no idea who it could be because im not really a mean person.. what to do?! lol

Try either blocking her or reporting her to whichever internet you have. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn

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Hey. I'm a cashier at a store thats like Linens and Things. Its my first job (i'm sixteen) and I've realized that its not the kind of job I want. I don't like the fact that its a big place and its busy allll the time. I enjoy interacting with my co workers. At my place, I feel like I can't do that. We're all busy helping out the customers, which is good... but I feel like I don't know the people I work with well. What are some good places to work at, where you're working...but you still have opportunities to get to know your co-workers? Preferably not a fast food restaraunt, a grocery store, or big places. I want something small and fun. I was thinking about working at a tanning salon?? Does anyone have any good ideas?

I think working at a tanning salon would be great. If you really want to work there, then go for it. If not go to a local mall or something and trying looking into a job at Jcpennys or Sears or someplace like that. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn

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I'm a thirteen year old female. Recently Iv'e started eating super healthy. When I'm at home eating the food there, or eating foods with nutrition information I'm fine, but whenever I eat at someone else's house or eat out and the food served looks fattening or sugary I panic. I don't know whats in it and so on. Sometimes I make up excuses for not eating things. My friends jokingly said I was anorexic before. That didn't bother me. However, now they have started to say it seriously and my own mum said I was eating in an anorexic way. I know people suffering from anorexia have poor self image, but I think I am at a perfect weight. Please tell me if I am anorexic or not. Honestly.

It doesnt sound like you are anorexic. But just to be sure look at some of the signs of anorexia. If you have been loosing a lot of weight in a short period of time, and if you are are really hungry but dont eat, there is a chance that you are getting anorexic. Just keep eating healthy and you'll be fine. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn

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I have a simple question that I can't find the answer to. In the middle school I go to they have a P.E. class. In P.E. class we do jumping-jacks. What do jumping-jacks help you build? Your arms, legs, stomach, or something?

Jumping jacks work mainly on your legs. They mainly just keep you fit. However jumping jacks dont really help build any muscles anywhere on your body. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn

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Heyy okk me and mii bf have been goin goingg outt for 5 years I wannt 2 haveee sex wit him but doesnt want 2 but i want 2 whhat should i doooooo???

I think you should have a talk with him. I think you need to respect him too. Dont rush him. But if you really want to have sex with him, just tell him about how you feel. Good luck! Hope my advice helps! ♥

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Hi. Ok, there's this guy, let's call him Ryan. Ok, I'm like, in love with him, but he lives very far away and doesn't know me. I have sent him many an email explaining that he's hott and such, but he never responds. Does he hate me? I feel so unloved, and I'm considering suicide. Please help.

Well first of all, don't think of suicide!!!! I'm sure he doesnt hate you but the distance might be a problem. Try writing him a handwritten letter of something and sending it to him. He might be so flattered that he will write back! And dont let anyone discourage you! And dont think of suicide! Feel free to IM me or email me! Good luck with your problem. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenn

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Okay, well there is this really really cute dog that i guess lives in our neighborhood...but apparently his owners dont care about him..i mean the dog is ALWAYS walking the streets..my dad has even seen him on the highway...well today the dog was in my yard so i went out to pet it...and well that was a mistake cuz now im in love with it..(im a REAL animal person!) and i want to keep it...but I have a few problems...
1. My mom will say no immediately and she'll say im not responsible enough (im 14) and that i dont take care of my 1st dog(which is a lie cuz its not MY dog its OUR dog)and she'll mention that i cant keep my room clean (which IS kinda true)
2. The dog has a coller on it..but i really dont think its owners want it because its always roaming around...
I want the dog soo bad because id hate to see it in the middle of the road somewhere...its so cute...but i cant convince my mom to atleast give me a chance to prove her wrong...can ANYONE help me with convincing my mom and the fact that the dog has a coller??

Try starting by cleaning your room and doing other little jobs around your house. And maybe try babysitting or stuff like that. That will show her that you are responsible. As far as the collar goes, double check to make sure that it is okay for you to take the dog. YOu could get into trouble with the owners if you arent careful. But all you have to do is just prove to your mom that you are responsable and the rest is easy. Good luck with the dog! Let me know what happens! Hope my advice helps!

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