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ok well I am kind of mad. I think my mom's b/f is just using her, And I am to scard to tell my mom. But when I do wont to tell my mom he is there. He is always over and he eats all of our food. But he never cleans up. My mom has not been dateing for a while because my dad went to jail. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP
I dont like my moms B/F eather because my parents just got devorsed. and its been to years since they both dated now both my mom and dad are dating i think you should talk to a school theripist or what ever there called and you best friend before you go to bed tonight tell her mom i think _____ is just useing you and if you love me you will listen because i love you and i dont wont you to get hurt. Hope I helped.
My friend cuts herself. And it really scares me she talks about killing herself sometimes. Like she thinks no one would miss her. Sometimes I wanna kill myself too but I realize how many people would miss me. But she doesn't seem to realize that. She doesn't cut herself often like she only did once but I am just scared it might become a habit. What should I do? And its not that serious enough to tell anybody yet and she would get really mad if I told anyone. I don't plan on doing anything until it gets worse like i see marks on her arms. What should I do to keep her happy and keep her not thinking about killing herself? I'm so scared right now please help me! I rate High and leave comments too!
Find out what she loves to do and on a weekend take her there or give her somthing like whatever she likes im sure she'll take her mind off of it. I know probley something happend in her life a bad thing and maybe she just needs to talk to someone.
Ok well I played with my little sis today becuase she asked me to and reluctantly I was like ok. So I did and after a while I didn't wanna play anymore and so I told her and left and she got really mad. I told her I'd play tomorrow but she just gets mad and throws stuff and it happens everytime something like that happens. We always argue and I hate it becuase I'm always to one that gets blamed- which isn't always right. What should I do? Help fast. Thanks and I rate.
Tell your sister that you can make a scedual *not spelled right* tell her like for example ok this week i will play with you on mon. wed and fri. and from 2-3 or watever and then if you cant make up another day or somthing and try to bond with her more im sure when you leave cuz ur older you guys are ganna miss each other to death. and talk to your mom about it if she doesnt listen talk to a friend invit her over to. see what happens.
there is this guy who likes me ALOT, and i can tell he does whenever we're together, but then whenever we get around other people (only gurls) he kind starts flirting with them too. he doesnt flirt with them as much as he does with me at all, but still its the fact that he does flirt that makes me not like him as much.. is he just tryin to use me? or is he tryin to be nice to other people and just doesnt realize he's flirting?
I think you need to ask him if he likes you. Or get one of his friends to ask. And maybe he doesnt know when hes flirting. Talking to him is the best answer and maybe you should flirt back to him so he can get a signal that you sorta like him to. hope it helped.
I have a twin brother and we are really close he's not spent much time with me lately and im scared i love him to death and if anything happend to him i would never forgive my self even if it wasnt my fault. He has thes friends lets call them bob and joe and they curse alot and thats not like my brother. I'm just worried. Somone pleez help me.
twin delama
Well i think its best to talk to your mom about it tell her whats up. And talk to your brother tell him that bob and joe are bad kids. Im sure he'll listen to you if he loves you as I'm sure he does.
What do i do when your talking to your friend online and shes kool then shes tells you this."okay, well jason is 16, and i dont like him. and he always forces me to fuck with him, when i dont want to. so im basically being raped everyday beacause we have sex everyday but sometimes i do want to, but if i dont he will get mad and start to hit me to force me i dont know wat to do, he is in the kitchen right now so i wanted to hurry up and tell u befor he came back because he is stayig over here for a few days." Then i say the best thing is the cops.Then she says "Jason told me if i called the police on him hed kill me" She asked me for help now im asking you .... Please help me
I dont like answering these questions but i will for u. I think you should call the cops tell them the situation about he will kill her if she does and they can work something out tell her parents or your parent about it and maybe they can help thats the best i can think of sorry.
okay. i like this guy alot. We flirt alot, and he gave me his sn once. Well, he has a gf. he gets on every few weeks *almost every girl in school likes him* but he still flirts with me. But, i'm afraid to IM him i get nerve and afriad to emmbarrasse myself! should i? i mean he gave me his sn! and how to I NOT get nerve before i talk to him?!?!?!
well take a deep breath. And start of with like a hey and if he doesnt answer or signes of do it again and when he does answer start a small convo. like sup and how r ya and school stinks or wat ever. what i like to do is when i finish talking with him i copy and past it on a letter and send it to my self and read are convo. and see what i did wrong and try to fix it. and when he breaks up with this gf. you can be the friend who helped him im sure he'll be sad after the break up so maybe you can hook up with him.
I really wanna make cookies but i have NO EGGS!! does anyone know a substitution besides going out to the store and getting some??
get it from your naighbor or just make it without the eggs i did that once it tasted good!! mmmmmmmmmmm.
okay i've been telling this guy i like him and he's been showing interest! one of my good friend's says he likes me because well she talked to him! and everyone in my class is telling me that he likes me! we are talking more and i aam getting to know him better! any ideas for him and i to move forward and maybe move into a relationship?! people say i flirt like crazy and especially him! what else can i do?!
Let him ask you out if they say he likes you get his AIM or somthing talk to him and be his friend im sure he'll ask you out. good luck!
Im still hooked up on my ex, and he has a new gf. I just found out that his new gf doesnt really like him. He asked me if i was mad that he had a new gf but im not. Im just mad that she doesont like him and he likes her. I just dont want him to get hurt. Should i tell him that she doesnt like him or just stay out of it? I think i should stay out of it, but i really dont want him to get hurt. as much as i love him, i couldnt bear to see him so hurt if they broke up. i think it would be good though since she doesnt like him. any advice?
Well if he doesnt like her and break up with him u have the chance to make him feel better and maybe he'll ask you out :D and talk to him about this girl if he says o ur just sayin that well he'll have to lear the hard way.
me and my friend have decided to get eachother presents. well, we are like best friends so i got her something special that took me a long time and trouble. it coct about $30 but she is my best friends, so she deserved it. today she said she would tell me what she got me if i told her wat i got. it turns out she got me a $3 key chain!!!!!! i smiled and said "thanks, can't wait to see it!" but inside i was screaming. she already knows what i am getting her so i can't return it and she said she was so excited it was a great gift. im mad, is that wrong? what should i do? i dpn't wanna hurt her feelings but c'mon! please help, i rate high.
I guess exept the key chain but, i feel bad for u, u spent a long time finding her a nice gift and she acts like this is nothing but think about it maybe shes on a low budget she thinks its awesome theres always posabilitys. So keep your hopes up maybe she wants to get somthing big for the next holiday or your birthday and shes saving up.
I just got spacers about 4 hours ago. I felt just a pinch when I got them on but now they hurt so much I cannot bite down. On Jan. 12 I will be getting braces. I am wondering are they going to hurt more then the spacers, and how can I relieve the pain. Thanks in advance.
I hate spacers but the arnt worse then braces to me weirdly. I have had braces for 3 and a half years now and the best thing to do when you get thim is to ask for wax at the orthadontist and where ever it pinches and pokes and hurts you put it on it. Ice helps alot and cold water. Hope I helped u.
i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help!
Hey I think you should let him make the move but if you dont feel confortable dont do it im sure he'll ask you to the movies again. watch the movie see what happens and well late him dicide. Rember you dont have to do anything you dont want to. Hope I helped.
On new year's eve, I have to go to my grandparents for 3 days. I really don't want to go because they live a long way away from us and all my friends. The only way I will be able to keep in touch with my friends is through text message because they don't let me use their phone and I can't afford to call on mine. They don't even have a computer so their's no msn either. I know it's only three days but I am going to be so bored, what can I do to stay in touch with my friends apart from texting? There isn't any point writing letters because it's only three days.
Ask your grandparents if theres a library near by so you can chat with your friends. Texting is the best to do for the trip up there but maybe you can get to know some cool ppl around your grandparnts house and if they want to invite you over im sure they will have a computer and just ask to use theres. Hope it helped.
Yes i like someone from my school and he claims to also like me but he also likes someone else. he said he likes her more but wont make his finaly decision yet. We talk alot and have hung out once but if he goes out with the other person than he mite get hurt because shes a bad person and i dont want to see that. what should i do?!
Ask him out. And if he really likes this other girl well tell him shes a bad person and he should listen to you. And if that doesnt work let him learn the hard way. When they break up hes all yours. :D.
ok well im 13 and i like this guy but hes older, much older. We became friends cuz hes my friends older brother. we started to chill and talk everyday and got really close. then my mom didnt like that he was really old so she didnt want me to see him anymore. what should i do i really miss him??
Talk to your mom about it. Ask her why and tell her what a nice kid he is. Talk to him on AIM or somthing like that and tell him you will see him soon because if your mom loves you she'll understand.
hey i just got a boyfriend 4 the first time and im nervous he wants to go out to the movies with me and my friend dared me to kiss him before we went but i said no. He hasnt talk to me in a week and im worried. I like him and hes a good friend but should i break up with him? I dont wont to hurt him because i know ill pay for it later hes one of my close friends out of school. I GIVE ANYONE WHO HELPS a 5 rate.
love sucks
love sucks,
I know its tought I have a boyfriend to and I havnt talk to him for a while actually your going thru the same thing as i am. It's sorta freaky :I. I think maybe you should talk to him maybe call him if your up to it and tell him how u feel if he asks you out again say yes see how it goes and it might work and if he tries to kiss you, you have the compleate right to say no. I dont think you have to and if it doesnt work out break up with him theres lots of fish in the sea ;). And if hes your friend and you dont want to hurt him, well try to talk to him let him down easy you know "my mom doesnt like me dating" I cant im taking a serious sport, i need to improve my grades." And if hes a good friend he'll understand hope I helped. and dont be scared to say no!
I like this guy right, but he is in 7th grade and im in 6th. i really do like him and hes very cute, and hes sooo nice and funny. sometimes i think i may love him.i joke around and call him babe and hun and hottie and all those things but i really dont know if i should ask him out or wait till we meet in person. but im not that pretty amand so im afraid to wait.please help!
If your talking on AIM or somthing like that only to him and you havent talk to him in person nows a good time to start. I did the same thing to this guy i liked at theater and well when i got to know him he was a real jerk! But if you think you love him and you talk to him it may work out. Hope I helped. PLEASE RATE.
This is so embarrassing but i feel like my breath smells really bad all the time... i brush and use listerine twice a day and still cant get rid of it. Is there any good products out there or any suggestions on what to do? I don't think gum would help that much.
Thanks
*Erica*
The mint strips are really good you just place them on your toung *not spelled right* and the disolve. Or mintos. hope i helped.
Ok, well I heard this one person say "I think he was hitting up on me". What does 'hitting up' mean?? If it helps, the person who said it was a guy in high school, a junior I think. He might have been joking around or something like that though, because it kind of sounded like it, but I couldn't tell. Anyways, all I wanna know is what it means. I rate.
Hitting up means like flirting trying to get your attention.