Question Posted Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:36 am
hey i just got a boyfriend 4 the first time and im nervous he wants to go out to the movies with me and my friend dared me to kiss him before we went but i said no. He hasnt talk to me in a week and im worried. I like him and hes a good friend but should i break up with him? I dont wont to hurt him because i know ill pay for it later hes one of my close friends out of school. I GIVE ANYONE WHO HELPS a 5 rate.
DrummeR4LifE answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 1:30 am: Try to talk to him alittle more. Its normal to be nervus but when u get to know him better and hang around him more ad a bf it will start going away. I would wait maybe a week and see if things change before you do try to break up with him.
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XxRockon answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 1:22 am: well i think that you should talk to him and ask him if he is upset becuase you didn't kiss him or if it is becuase of another reason. He could feel upset and embarresed that you didn't want to him. If you're nervous about it just explain to him why you didnt want to kiss him, and he will understand. If he still acts upset after you talk to him though, he shouldn't be. I think that you should break up with him if he is still upset over that even after you talk to him. If he is upset over that for long time especially after you explain it, He wouldn't be worth it and you should move on..you guys will probably still be friends if you do break up for sum reason. [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
XbleweyedtearsX answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 1:15 am: You don't have to kiss him. Just say no, like you did. Since you guys are friends you should talk to him-you don't have to wait for him to talk to you. If he hasn't talked to you in a week, then howd you know he wants to go to a movie? sorry. You shouldn't dump him, just talk to him and if things don't work out then dump him by saying you don't want to ruin your friendship or something. Hope i helped **x0x0 [ XbleweyedtearsX's advice column | Ask XbleweyedtearsX A Question ]
americangirl101 answered Wednesday December 29 2004, 12:41 am: love sucks,
I know its tought I have a boyfriend to and I havnt talk to him for a while actually your going thru the same thing as i am. It's sorta freaky :I. I think maybe you should talk to him maybe call him if your up to it and tell him how u feel if he asks you out again say yes see how it goes and it might work and if he tries to kiss you, you have the compleate right to say no. I dont think you have to and if it doesnt work out break up with him theres lots of fish in the sea ;). And if hes your friend and you dont want to hurt him, well try to talk to him let him down easy you know "my mom doesnt like me dating" I cant im taking a serious sport, i need to improve my grades." And if hes a good friend he'll understand hope I helped. and dont be scared to say no! <3 American Girl [ americangirl101's advice column | Ask americangirl101 A Question ]
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