I finally updated my picture, I thought it was time for an update on it so I picked my favorite picture. After all, my previous picture was almost 2 and a half years old!
My name is Ryan. And I will answer most everything you want to ask to the best of my God given ability.But I will not sugar coat any answer and I will give MY advice. I don't care about my ratings, so don't think giving me a 1 for an answer you don't want to hear will scare me. And if you already know what you should do about a sitaution, don't come to us here at advicenators asking for a second opinion. And here below is a list of questions you should NOT ask on advicenators. Granted some of them may vary and be acceptable, but overall don't ask the below questions on Advicenators.
**Don't ask questions like "OMG i heard this song on the radio with "insert pointless pop lyrics here" and i wanna know what it is so what is it! Thanks!! I rate 5sssss! hearts". This question can be simply googled with the lyrics, or you need only ask a friend
**Don't ask "ok so there is the hott guy/gal in my class and he/she like got me a *insert gift or simple trinket here* do you think he/she likes me?" This is the most common question here on this website sadly. Unless it is vitally important and actually pertains to a feeling of true feelings, don't ask it. This is most asked by teens. And what teens need to learn is "love" is not thinking a guy/girl is sweet and hott and nice. I know love, and it is so far from all those things. Remember Cicero when he said "Out of all the emotions, love is the most violent. Love is madness."
**"Ok so me and my boyfriend had sex last night and we like used no protection omg he came in me do you think i am pregnant?" Ugh. Stupid teens and their hormones. IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU ALWAYS RUN THE RISK OF PREGNANCY, UNLESS YOUR STERILE. And if you don't know anything about sex, you shouldn't be doing it. Even if you "love" your partner, half the time this is a disallusion and you will end up hurt. Sex is for marriage.
**Or asking what's "in" for fashion, or what they should wear out tonight. Or what is "cute" and what looks good. Pick and choose for yourself what you like, think for yourself instead of trying to let other people do it for you. Stand up and be yourself.
These are the most common questions I have seen on Advicenators. Now there are a few questions that are very good questions and deserve the 3 rating and the best answer possible. But they are usually blocked out with the kinds of questions listed above. If you want to ask something, check the following off that I am listing.
1.Does the question pertain to anything important or trivial?
2.Is proper grammar used?
3.Is the question long and in one paragraph?
4.Is it a question that you yourself can answer?
5.Is there enough detail?
Following those 5 guidelines, you can write a good 3 point answer. That about wraps it up.
I spend alot of time online and here on advicenators, so if you ever need anything then just send something in my inbox or IM me. I'm not opposed to helping people at all, in fact I love doing it. I just want some people to wake up from asking a stupid question.
Thank you all for your time.
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In FB EYE Sue Thomas, Sue and Jack are the hottest "couple" (should be) ever...anyone got any good stuff about em like sites or pics I just love them (link)
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Consult the oracle for your answer.
-Ryan
P.S. Why would you want pics anyway? Waste of time it seems to run after pictures of celebrities and whatnot.
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Well, i said the quote "I'm the new Berlin wall, try and tear me down" to a friend. She started to go off on me about how the berlin wall was bad because it devided berlin in two. Wasn't it intended for good?
CAN SOMEONE TELL ME IF THER BERLIN WALL WAS GOOD OR BAD? (link)
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It became a symbol for communism and it's represiveness.
So yes, it was bad.
The soviets began building it after a small confrontation between the Allies and Soviets over the issue of free passage over into West Germany. There was a stand-off, and the Soviets backed down only to build a huge wall (however, the first materials were nothing more than barbed wire and sandbags). It progressed and eventually became a towering wall that seperate west and east berlin. It also is the "point" of origin for the so called "Iron Curtain" that was the name for the European division from West to East, Democracy and Communism.
Yes it seperated families, neighboors, businesses, etc. But it was more of a division of democracy and communism and the countries each political party it represented.
You could have googled it, but somehow I don't think your results would have yielded much to your answer.
I hope I helped.
-Ryan
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Really, I asked many people what the definition of soul is, and everybody starts saying his own crap. Soul, is something you cant see, something you cant touch. I dont want to know what soul is not.
people will start saying that soul is your imagination, your choices, antywyas jsut say what you think. (link)
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So...what's the question?
A definition can include things the object is not, so technically they all were right. And it is their own opinion. It sounds like you already have an idea what it is, your just looking for someone to agree with you.
Waste of bandwidth.
-Ryan
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Okay, I know this is an odd question, but what does everybody think of Avil Lagvine? What happened to her after her second album? And is it just me or did she become a big poser?
Thanks. (link)
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All hail the slayer of punk rock.
*sarcasm*
Honestly, I don't care for her. It drives me up a wall to know my sister actually likes her and listens to her. Quite honestly I think it's a waste of music space.
Then again...most music now these days sucks anyhow. Just my imput, but I am sure I'm not alone.
-Ryan
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okay, well I had an xanga and I wrote something mean about a really popular girl in school. And I said "do you think people actually like ****** for her personality?!?! no, people like her because shes GORGEOUS!" and I honestly meant to say it because people in my school are shallow and dont like people for their personality! I wasnt even saying she had a bad personality. Shes not one of my friends...Ive never talked to her so I cant just IM her and apologize but the thing Im scared of is that ALLLL my personal personal stuff was in my xanga like people I liked and stuff!! :[ What do I do!?!? IM FREAKING OUT I already know she's told a really popular guy because he had it as his away message......YEAH. thats how bad this is. I cant transfer schools. What do i do??!? Basically I just want to know if anyones been through this and can help me! So please tell me your experience and give me advice on this! I have to go back to school in a week and Im scared Im going to be a loner and traumatized. (link)
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Set the privacy setting on the blogs to "private only" and then no one but you can read them.
Other than that, I see no reason to even apologize. It's your opinion and if your right, then why apologize for telling the truth?
I have no doubt in my mind that people will agree with you, so I don't think you will be ending up a loner.
And don't let it get to you. If popular people don't like you, who gives a damn? This are the people who do get where they are for their looks and money and influence. It's not glamorous, in fact it is rather vain and useless.
It's just my opinion, I wouldn't worry about it to much. I've posted tons of blogs and whatnot on how I think people are and I honestly don't care what they think. It's not worth my time to worry.
I hope I helped and just don't let it get to you, you don't need the stress from it.
-Ryan
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Hello I was just wondering if anybody wamted a kitten for only ten dollars. I have three if them one is all orange with the name Madison, another is fluffy and is orange and white named Pumpkin, and the last kitten is all black named shadow. Please ASAP these kittens need homes (link)
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Why not send them to a local animal shelter?
Or putting up flyers asking for a home for those kittens? What about asking your friends. What about an ad in your local newspaper
Anything is better than the method you are using. It is not smart to advertise for live animals over the net. You have no idea who could want those kittens for nefarious purposes. I am just saying, it is a really bad idea to be advertising like that over the internet.
I hope I helped, and that those kittens get some good homes!
-Ryan
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Okay me and my boyfriend have been having sex and i thought i was preggo. hes taking me to the clinic to get tested but i dont think i am. but anyways if i am then im most deff. keeping it.
I was wondering if any of you have any cute Boy names.. and the middle has to be Howard cuz its like a tridition in his family..
if it was a girl he wants Arrora (sp) Le .. and i like Aubree michelle.
Thnxzz :] (link)
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I feel the need to point this out, but you have (sp) after Arrora, and yet your entire question has enough mispellings and grammatical errors to make a english teacher cry.
And if you want baby names, I suggest you do this...
And it is that simple. Consult the oracle (google) and find a name.
I hope I helped.
-Ryan
P.S. As an advicenator column giving advice I would like to offer one more piece of advice. Learn correctly typing skills please, it makes answering questions much easier.
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Okay so i got grounded last thursday because i got caught drinking & lying. My cell phones taken away and im grounded. my parents said im grounded until i "earn their trust back" how am i suppose to earn trust back if i cant leave the house? any suggestions? I'll rate =) (link)
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The number one thing to do to get their trust back is to never drink or lie like you did ever again.
Be the good child and be so intentionally. Yeah their trust for you is probably lower than rock bottom, but it isn't damned yet.
In time their trust with you will be regained if you can show your responsible enough not to do it again. Like I said, be the good child and be it intentionally, because anything faulty will NOT get you trust back.
I hope I helped and good luck,
-Ryan
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im gunna be a freshmen in highschool nd i need a WHOLE NEW WARDROBE! i wanna be known as the hottest freshmen in school, the hottest girl in school for that matter. what clothes and make-up should i buy? idc how much it is, give me the most expensive thing you can find for all i care. haha well anything reasonable actually that will look hott and will make my ex's think 'damn i shouldn't have let her go' somehting that will turn heads -- BREAK NECKS for that matter. =] thanks! (link)
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I am going to give you no fashion advice whatsoever, but instead rather give you a warning.
Fashion, especially in high school, is going to fail sooner or later. To try and impress others with your looks, will only gain you false friends. It isn't worth your money or time to try and impress others with your looks, because in the end it is all in vain. The friends you gain from looking nice are the same friends that will ditch you for someone who looks nicer, ditch you the second your out of style, and cause unneeded drama for you.
And for that matter, you WANT a new wardrobe, you don't need one. Ten to one you have enough clothes already to cloth an entire cul-de-sac. There are so many better uses for your money than buying clothes anyhow. why would you waste money trying to buy a new wardrop, when ten to one you will outgrow it in a year or two. It's just not worth it.
And as lostinpraise said (I consider this persons advice to be the best given so far), let your personality and heart show through instead of your fashion and vanity. That is how you make a good impression on people and make true friends. If you want to break those necks, show your personality and heart, instead of fashion.
Remember that.
-Ryan
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If god loves every one then why dose it seem that being gay is wrong. im a big gay rights person and i dont understand how in most religions its like one of the bigest sins (link)
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I will quote Leviticus of the bible.
"Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman, that is detestable." Leviticus 18:22
And again in Leviticus.
"If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads." Leviticus 20:13.
God's law and Jewish law here. But since Christ has already come (in the Christian standards) the laws are already fulfilled, and no longer need to be done in such a way. Now the law serves as a mirror and curb, showing us what we have done wrong. We're forgiven and the law no longer binds us like it did.
To answer your question, it is morally incorrect for homosexuality. In many, many regions you will find people stoned for it, even still today. God does indeed love everyone, and the only sin never forgiven is denying God.
Homosexuality is still a sin, and must be treated as one. There is a balance, if you will, of man and woman in every religion/region/anything. Homosexuality upsets the balance, and distorts it. Man and woman are the natural way to do things, being homosexual, quite frankly, is unnatural.
It's a balance issue, other than that it is the same as every sin. No sin is greater than another, they're all sin, nontheless. Homosexuality is more of a moral issue.
I hope I helped,
-Ryan
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well i am moving to a new school. i mean these girls are beautiful and very mature. i made 3 new friends over AIM but they seem to be real sexually active. like they grind with boys, make out, and one girl even sticks her hand down boys pants! but i have never even kissed a boy and there are parties and stuff and i dont think i know how to grind or kiss or anything. I find it kind of gross but, i want to fit in. wat do i do? (link)
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Don't compromise yourself to fit in. I know you want to fit in, but don't do what they are doing to fit in. Be yourself is the absolutely best way to fit in.
I'm saying this because I've been there before. I've tried to fit in by doing what everyone else (or my "friends" did) and it never worked. Be yourself. You even said you find it gross, so don't compromise and go down to their level!
There are other people to mingle with anyhow. Those who are popular and sexually active usually do not make good decisions and it affects their friends. I am sure your smarter than to be that influenced by them, but just in case, don't get dragged in.
Be yourself. If your yourself and not someone who everyone else thinks is "cool" because of how they act around others, then people will notice you. Usually people are true to themselves. These are the best kind of friends you could ever ask for. Looks and "maturity" (which in the case you are describing, only sounds like physical maturity) aren't everything, remember that.
Be yourself, and don't give anything less.
I hope I helped.
-Ryan
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grr!! I don't understand this game at all!! Does anyone here play Law & Order: Criminal Intent on the computer??!? Well, I was doing the case where the guy got beat to death in his house and his daughter found him, and I'm at the baseball store and I give him a picture of every single one of my witnesses, and he's like "I don't know nothin about that." so I was S.T.U.C.K. So anyway, I started a new game, and did the one with the dead guy found in the river...and at sanches aunts house, and I said "I can help you and you can help me." So I was suppose to pull out something from my nokia to givee to her, so I gave her every piece of evidence that I have and every suspect, and she kept saying no!! Does anyone know what I'm suppose to give the guy at the baseball store, and what I'm suppose to give the girl at her apartment! PLEASE HELP!
Ally. (link)
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I know the answer.
www.gamespot.com
www.neoseeker.com
Both of those sites provide walkthroughs and guides for the game your looking for. It is the matter of finding it.
And I don't care for what your rating is. I have given you two excellent sites to help you. And I highly doubt anyone plays this game, so asking for specific answers won't work that well. You have resources, now go.
I hope I helped
-Ryan
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I am 15 years old and so is my boyfriend. There is this girl that he talks to that has been his friend for years. They both say that they are brother and sister type friends. I believe them but I have really big jealousy issues. This girl is skinnier than I, and prettier. I recently got into a fight with my boyfriend because when he went to his friends house she showed up. I ignored his calls and everything. Well, this girl Instant Messaged me asking me if he could go to San Francisco with her tomorrow to hang out with her and her mother because it is her birthday and she has no one else to go with and doesn't want to go alone. I want to feel sad and just cry thinking about. But they're just friends, right? Should I just let him go and face my jealousy and see if it helps me get over it? Or should I put my foot down and object of the whole thing? (link)
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So tell me, what the hell is wrong with having, say..a best friend that is a girl and the other best friend is a guy.
I'm in the same situation. My best friend is a girl whom I absolutely love to death and I have a girlfriend. Does my girlfriend mind? No because she trusts me and I am not gonna cheat on her. Don't let stupid emotions like jealousy cloud your judgement when you shouldn't have anything to fear. They are obviously close as friends.
And whatever you do, never, EVER object to that. It basically says your boyfriend can't have close friends that are girls. You telling him he can't is wrong, and under those grounds is an uncalled for demand.
Let them be, they aren't anything more friends and he is still your boyfriend. So if you want to put your foot down on anything, put it down on your jealousy.
I hope I helped, and remember what is said.
-Ryan
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I have aol and would like to erase some of my history (nothing dirty... all my history just takes up space and makes my computer s...l...o...w) but when I click the little green arrow and my history comes down but there is no "erase my history" button like there should be. does anyone know another way to erase history like ctrl alt something or ctrl + blank? i did it once before but I don't know how. thanks for your answers!!! (link)
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Under your control panel should be a seperate icon that says "Internet options"
From Internet options, it should appear in the "general" screen of the new screen that popped up for internet options. From there you can delete your history. And don't just click "clear history", because they will only clear the web addresses. You also need to click the one for "delete temporary files" Which is your actual history that is taking up space.
It might also be a good idea to delet your cookies, since they too may also slow your computer down.
I hope I helped, and good luck.
-Ryan
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What does "GG" mean?
Someone said it to me.
Just.. "GG"
I don't understand what that means.
Have any ideas? (link)
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"Good game" is what I know it means.
GG is appreviated form of GG, commonly said over games played over the internet. It is chat speak.
-Ryan
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what are some good quotes sites
that are about like love/life.
thanxx! (link)
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Consult the oracle, Google. For it knows everything you want to ask.
-Ryan
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Ok this is a weird question but a lot of people and myself would like to know what Johnny Damon's nationality is, any one know? (link)
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She asked for nationality...not ancestry. And last I checked, being European was not a nationality. Nationality is where ones original COUNTRY is. Europe is not a country. Eh...knowing ancestry is nice though..
Anyway, I have your answer to you question.
Consult the oracle, Google. For it knows all.
I hope I helped.
-Ryan
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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me
please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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If you have to question us, your not ready.
And the fact the relationship has only been going on for a week...why would you want to give up your virginity to a guy you've been going out with for a week.
A week doesn't even bring love, your just starting a relationship and I highly doubt you love him. And a week's time is nothing compared to the price your willing to give. Is your innocence really that inexpensive to you?
To those who said follow your heart. In a sense their right, but don't be stupid and be swept away in what you consider "love". Because 9 times out of 10 no 14 year old really knows what "love" is. Be smarter than that.
That is my fair warning, take it as you will.
-Ryan
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ok im 13/f and well almost a year ago from now i met this boy! oo ik its going to get interesting. Well lets call him boy there easy enough, any ways i met him in religion and church i liked him rite away. we have been out 1 month b4 and now 2 months so we have been out enough said, i think i really like him a lotttttt. so then i was thinking i met him in church church church!! church idk im not sure but church, god do you think that god had any thing to do with us being together i mean i think we are perfect together! i mean god works in mysterious ways you know? so did he or is that just me thinking that should i ask the preist? (link)
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Yeah God works in mysterious ways. However, just because you met your boyfriend in a church doesn't mean you have to wonder if God "really" had anything more to do with it.
Would you wonder if God had anything to do with it if you met him through a friend, or at the store? Just because it is a church doesn't mean God had anything more to do with it than any other place.
And you've only been going out 2 months, don't count your blessings just yet.
-Ryan
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okay i hav a psp that i took to school one day and putt it in my backpack. i think i must have leaned on it cause the inside of the screen is like cracked (the surface isnt damaged at all its just all the colors are mixed up and cant see anything) it still has warrenty but im afraid they might not fix it and my parents would get mad (i haven't told them yet). what should i do and if playstation doesnt fix it where can i fix it? (link)
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Ouch. I know your pain.
Your LCD (liquid crystal display) is broken. And no, it isn't covered under warranty.
The PsP is still in working condition. You can play games, listen to music, play movies and videos. BUT you can't see any of them.
You have 3 options at this point. Either A) search for a replacement screen or a company that will replace the screen for you. B) Buy a new PsP (which might be the preferred). Or C) pout and cry.
Most electronic screen devices use LCD screens, including iPods, cell phones, TV's, most anything electronic with a screen.
I've broken an iPod, a camera, and a cell phone by busting the LCD screen (although, the iPod screen was completely random). In my opinion, LCD is not too reliable for long term, but until more sophisticated technology comes out, we are cursed with it.
I hope I helped, and hopefully you find a suitable solution for your dilema, because I hope you do.
-Ryan
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