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i am a 13 year old female with a 34-36B bra size. i have stretch marks and everything. they seem to keep continuously growing and i dont know what to do about them. do you think that is too big of a size for a girl my age, and what can i do to keep them from growing? (link)
you think yours are big ... theres a girl on my cheerleading team whose going into 7th grade and she has Dcups its sickening ... i mean youve just hit purbirty a bit early. its normal. hope i helped! xox
-Jess


I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!! (link)
well i think that if you dont get your period you should get one a those e-z-read pregnency test thingers. if it says your pregnent talk to the guy who "im-pregnented" you and then you need to go to the doctor if its true .. and you ARE pregnent you need to tell your parents. hope i helped! xox
-Jess


My boyfriend and i have been having sex for a while and i got drunk and gave him a blow job, now my face is red and itchy. what should i do? (link)
i think you should search online and see what you need to do .. or if theres any liek ointment or something you can put on your face to help. im sure moisterizing lotion would work. i dont think giving your boyfriend head could make this happen. maybee its an allergic reaction to something. if nothing works call your doctor. hope i helped. xox
-Jess


Where can I find cute quotes?? (link)
www.firehotquotes.com


what r sum sites w/ quotes (link)
www.firehotqoutes.com


what r sum sites w/ quotes (link)
umm some good sites for quotes are www.FireHotQuotes.com and http:://Hellz-Angelz.cjb.net/ yup yup those are two good sites. hope i helped! xox
-Jess


ok well you see im 13 and a girl and theres this guy and ive liked him since january and hes liked me back except he hasnt asked me out..and since i met him ive gone out with 3 other guys...one of them happening to be one of his friends but the only reason i went out with him was because everyone was telling me he didnt like me anymore and that i should just get over him...so i tried...but then he got back from vacation and everything got all screwed up i mean he got so pissed of that i was going out with one of his friends he even threatened to beat him up...so i brokeup with his friend yesterday...and the guy ive liked since january well unfortunateley i still like him...and he might ask me out next time we see eachother except i dunno if i should say yes because i mean he is a great guy but i just dunno....help please (link)
i kno this sounds ridiculous...but follow your heart. dont listen to wut ANYBODY but urself thinx...if your heart tells you to do sumthin ...and ur friend tells u not too....no matter wut follow wut ur heart tells u, hun. the kid u liked since january tho has no reason to be mad at u or ur friend. he had missed his chance...and by breaking up with his friend...ur showing him that ur eager to give me another chance. i think wut u did was perfect and the rest of it will come easy if u do wut ur heart tells u to do.


my mom and dad have been having troubles lately. they have been arguing and stuff. they havn't divorced yet, but my dad is now currently living with my uncle. my mom said tht he prolly wont be coming back into the house as her husband. i feel like i want to die, but i have so much going for me in this life tht i dont want to give up (like a bf and tons of friends and stuff)... is it normal to feel these feelings? (link)
Yes this feeling is very normal. I felt the same exact way when my parents got divorced last year in november. Honestly I like it alot better this way. Because b4 there was yelling n screamin n cops always coming to the house. And I was very sad at first but now they get along for me even if they r divorced n i dont have the loudness to hear. N dont ever try to hurt ur self((like b.c u wanna die)), I have friends that have tryed n it is not worth it!! N if u ever feel like u wanna hurt ur self just look at all the stuff u have to live for that u dont wanna give up!! I hope everything gets better!! N if u need more help Julia n I r hear 4 u!!! *xOx*


PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO? I BABYSIT A THREE YEAR OLD. BUT I DON'T LIKE BABYSITTING! SOMETIMES MY MOM MAKE ME AND SAY GET THAT MONEY. BUT WHEN HIS MOM CALL I SEND HER TO VOICE AND THEN SHE LEAVE AN MESSAGE SOUNDING SAD. WHAT SOULD I DO? (link)
If you don't want to babysit, then don't. But don't leave the kids mom hanging like that. Does one of your friends babysit? Maybe they would like to watch a three year old for some extra cash. Refer the mother to your friend.


ok i wanna redo my bedroom into a cool 80s style i cant find any 80s room style online and i dont have time or money to go somewhere far away to find stuff i need to find it now ... i really need help on how to find great 80s style rooms i really want this done to my bedroom ... so help me and tell me where to find pictures or info on 80s room i mainly need pictures.. help me ASAP!!! (link)
Umm.. let see...

Some things I thought of for an 80s style room would be to get some big canvases, paint them black and splatter neon paint onto them, then hang them on the wall. My cousin got some old record albums (if you don't have any, thrift stores will have tons for cheap) and tacked them along the top edge of her wall. You could do that if you want to. Maybe go to a store and get some old vintage music posters from the eighties... The rubics cube idea was a great one... for a color scheme you could go for neon colors like hot pink, lime green, or bright orange... although i don't suggest painting those colors on the wall (they're hard to paint over). Have fun with your new 80s room!


I don't know how to clean. Or budget but that's not the point. my room has gotten really dirty and I want to clean it so I can use it to practice for auditions, do homework, etc and not have to throw all my junk off my bed every night.
Does anyone have some cleaning tips, or something? Or can tell me how to clean? (link)
For me, the easiest way is to do one thing at a time. Example: one day, focus only on taking out, sorting and throwing away things that are under your bed. If you break a big task like cleaning into smaller chunks, it goes by easier than tackling evreything at once. Take things that you don't need and throw them away, or if they're in relatively good condition, donate them to a Salvation Army or Goodwill center. If there are things you want to keep but don't have room for, get some boxes and pack the items into them. You can store the boxes in your garage or attic or whatever.

When you're cleaning out your closet, you may want to take all the clothes out and put back the ones you wear a lot, and that still fit. Toss or donate items that no longer fit or that you don't like.


I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad? (link)
Well, first of all, you are very lucky to have parents that say they will support you. Even if you have your doubts, it's for the best that you tell them. I don't think that they will kick you out when you need them the most. Do your parents know that you're sexually active? It may be easier to bring up the subject of you being pregnant if they already are aware of that. However you decide to tell them, be aware that they can react badly. Give them some time to think itg over and let it soak in. It's shocking news to them, I'm sure, but I think with time they'll be able to handle it, at the least. Good luck!


my friend Breanna is pregnant. But she smokes and drinks every month. What do I do to stop her from killing the baby?
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Wow... I would suggest going to a planned parenthood or other related clinic and picking up as many pamphlets and fliers about fetal alcohol syndrome, the effects of drinking and smoking with a baby on the way, and maybe one about causes of birth defects.

Is your friend going to keep the baby? I don't think she seems very responsible. Anyway, although a lot of damage has probably already been done, I would encourage her to stop drinking and smoking for the babys health, if not her own.


hey, i'm kristen! i'm 13 years old and we live in a good town where nothing bad like eva happens. when my mom isn't home she doesn't let me go ride my bike around the good part of my town, or let any of my friends come over when she's not home. my mom never used to work in the summer but this summer she does. so far this summer all i did was go online and play my softball. my brother gets to go to all of his friends houses on our side of the block, but i'm not. he's 11!!! how can i get my parents to be less strict? (link)
Kristen-

My mom is almost the same way! Nobody can come in when shes not home, and we're not supposed to leave. My brothers always break the rules and have their friends come over, and my mom gets mad because, well its me (a girl) and my brothers friends, and she thinks that I'm stupid or soemthing. Anyway, you said your brother gets to go on your side of the block. That doesn't seem so unreasonable, but don't you have any friends on your side of the block? Well, you are going to have to a) talk to your parents calmly about this, (i.e. "I see that you let -brothers name here- leave the house and go to his friends house, and I'm not allowed to. Why is this?". You might even want to go as far as admitting that you understand the concern of you being a girl. Maybe your parents would feel more secure if you took a personal self defense class, or carried pepper spray. (For some reason, every parent is under the belief that their daughter can not defend herself and that she will be abducted, mugged, raped, etc. It is a real concern, but it can be avoided) Or b), just try to prove that you can handle responsibility. Good luck!


HELLO I WAS CLEANING MY 1 YEAR OLD SON'S EAR AND ACCIDENTLY STUCK IT TO DEEP AND SLIGHT BLEEDING OCCURED. WHAT CAN HAPPEN TO HIS EAR AS A RESULT OF WHAT I DID. (link)
Okay, while you may have scratched his eardrum, I doubt that you broke it. If his eardrum was broken, you would have lost your own hearing by now from his screaming. Broken eardrums are exceedingly painful, so if he isn't wailing his cute little butt off, that's one thing you can rule out.


i like guys but I think about gurls a lot.. does that make me gay? (link)
Only you can determine that. Some people will tell you that you're bisexual, but that's not necessarily true. It really depends on how you're thinking of other girls. Good luck!


ok ima be a freshman this year n im afraid i wont fit in!!! i was 1 of da most popular girl in middle skool but now its high skool!!! i have friends in h.s but i dunno im just afraid! like the reason i got to were i was, was bcuz of my ex-boyfriend..(the typical bad-ass,hot populat guy)well im afraid of losing everything i have right now cuz like ima be in LA, NY n puero rico for da rest of da summa n i wont be able to be with my friends n stuff.... wut should i be prepared for in h.s? (link)
Don't worry about your popularity in high school-i its not what's important. Focus on being content with who you are, not what others think. Focus on your future-- don't blow off your classes just to look cool. High school is the time when people are supposed to grow up, at least a little bit. Being popular shouldn't be as important as making true friends and good grades, bceause those are the things that matter after you graduate. I guarantee high school will be one of the best experiences of your life, if you handle it well.


Is it ok to eat once a day? That's about the the meals I eat a day. (link)
No, no, no, no, no. By only eating one meal a day, you are depriving your body of nutrients and energy. Have you been feeling tired lately? It could be a result of only eating once a day. If you are skipping meals to lose weight, remember that food is what keeps your metabolism going, and not feeding yourself isn't healthy. If the reason that you don't eat more than once or twice daily is that you don't have time, or whatever, try to integrate healthy snacks into your day. For example, celery and peanut butter with a piece of fruit could subsitute as a meal, and isn't a lot of trouble to make. Also, it's very important that you eat breakfast. Not doing this will make you drowsy during the day and can lead to weight gain. So, the answer to your question is no.


im hungry n i dont have much...what am i supposed to eat...give me some ideas, oh yeah i want something fast not something thatll take long to cook (link)
Ramen- n. Besides McDonalds, the largest food staple of college students everywhere.

Top ramen is seriously the cheapest, easiest thing to make. All you need is 8 minutes, about 20 cents, and the ability to boil 2 cups of water. Voila! Dinner.

Of course, you can't live on ramen alone. Try things like grilled cheese, macaroni and cheese, or cereal. You also need fruit so buy whatever canned veggies are on sale (they have a long shelf life) and seasonal fruits. If you are just cooking for one, frozen dinners are great. Most grocery stores sell them for $1-$2 or so each, so stock up.


what r some creative ideas you guys did with your rooms or want to do? (link)
I don't want to paint my walls, so a more temporary decorating idea that I used would be to put things that are important to you on your walls. That way, when people walk in your room, what they see is essentially a picture of who you are. I have pictures that I drew or painted, photos, an old record (i love music), caution tape, inspiring quotes, a menu from an italian restaurant in new york city, three sombreros, and anything else you could think of on my walls. Nothing matches, and I love it. Whatever you decide to do, my number one tip would be to do something that you will still like a year later, and not to buy all this stuff and change your mind at the last minute.




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