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i have the money and all, but i am just wondering if the pink razor phone is worth it all ..what are some cons and pros about it?
Most peopl get them because they're cute and they want to have the coolest phone, ya know? i honestly don't really like them that much because the buttons are weird. It would take me forever to text on there but that's just me. it's also thin and fragile... i looked at them at the wireless store and the sample was like all cracked and damaged. I'd get a more durable phone personally. but if you like it, go for it.
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im 13/f and im gonna be going into 8th grade.
with not ever having a boyfriend, no first kiss no nothing!
and it sucks.
my love life better get better before i get to highschool
any ways i could maybe get a boyfriend or have boys get to like me more?!
ok so i was your age once and truth is, relationships in 8th grade are not the real thing. i was exactly like you and yes i had bfs in the 8th grade but by high school, i looked back at them and laughed at them like wow, i was really dumb. don't try to have a bf just to say you have. just be yourself and the right guy will come around. chasing boys is a waste of time, trust me. be fun, be in a good mood and have fun. don't change to get attention.
ok well.... i cant wear a ring right... i mean i can only wear them on my pinkys...its so weird i mean what am i going to do...when it is my wedding day and like the ring sucks me and two of my friends have always had this prob...please help or give me any ideas...i think i cracked them when i was little cuase my cousin did it to shut me up...she took me and my hand them pushe back my fingers...so please give me any help
well when you get married, you'll know and trust the person... maybe you can get a bracelet instead. i think that's a typical wedding band in some parts of asia. otherwise... get a big one i guess. i don't know what your fingers look like but i'm sure you can figure something out!
Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me.
you're not old enough to be on here and you did that with a guy? i don't know if that's "slutty" but it's inappropriate for your age.
Hi. My theatre company is putting on a production of "My Fair Lady" and the auditions are really soon. I want to try out for Henry Higgins or Col. Pickering, but I need to learn an english accent. Can anyone help?
a lot of people had to do that in my theater company. their idol: stewie griffin! watch some family guy and get that accent perfected!
what is the best product or method for removing leg hair besides shaving with a razor? any bladeless kits or anything that works good with little burning?
I've heard veet works well but it does burn a bit
ok so here it goes how do i masterbate and then cum afterwards whenever i masterbate i never get the white stuff? im 18/female anyone got any good masterbating ways? please help thanks don't mean to sound pery but also ive never had sex in my life if that helps.
there is no way that you could possibly be 18.
i always like to answer questions not ask but how do you get a background for my advice column? more people are looking at my column more and i want itt to look nice and i tried following the instructions on how to do it but it doesnt work i want it blue but it just doesnt work.
just blue? put the color number in with the number symbol in front of it. you can try getting a backround that's just blue and uploading it.
What are some good techno songs?
sandstorm
listen to you heart
a lot of panic at the disco stuff is techno-ish
15 / female / Pennsylvania (if that helps with the things-to-put-in-the-box thing)
Hi, I have a penpal from France. We have been sending letters back and forth, and now I want to send a shoebox of American things.
But what kind of things should I put in it?
So far I have:
American Dollar/quarter/etc.
A magazine
Photos
Yeah, that's it. Pretty sad, I know, but I'm clueless. If you could help me think of ideas, that would be great. And I would like it if the objects would have purpose (not like a pack of stickers or stuffed animals).
Thanks a lot!!
if you ever go to NY, get one of those "i love ny" tshirts for like 3 bucks. postcards are good, maybe a magazine (depends on if your penpal is a boy or girl) if its a girl you guys can like send one back and forth saying whats hott in each place and what's not.
I am getting an MRI scan soon for my head (jaw). Would I have to take out a belly button barbel? It's some type of surgical metal I don't quite remember what type. Is there anyway I can keep it in? I have had the piercing for a couple of months but I still have a month to go before I can take it out or change it and I really don't want to mess with it.
Thanks!!
I'm pretty sure you have to take it out. maybe you can find something to replace it with (maybe plastic??). i don't think it will get ruined it you take it out for a little bit.
I'm going to New York today and we're driving there. It's about a 2-2 1/2 hour drive. So I was wondering what me and my friend could do to keep busy during the ride. Thanks
play the states,capitals,countries & cities game. you start with a country and the next person has to say one that starts with the last letter of the previous one. no repeats! it sounds really nerdy but it helps the time go by fast.
14/f/california
I really want to get into modeling.How would i go about this? Do i need an agent? If so how does this work? if anyone has any experince in this or even in acting.Im about 5'5 and 145lbs,but am sliming down, i am planning to lose 30 pounds.
So just any advice or comments on this would be great.
well at 5'5, you'll probably be modeling for petites. my friend who is a tad bit shorter than you is doing petites and she has to loose a ton of weight for it. since you're in cali already, you can probably find an agent more easily than the average person.
What is the best foundation to use?
I really like l'oreal true match & that's the best one in my opinion.
How long do hangovers last and is there anything I can do to feel better?
http://www.about.com/food/hubsearch.htm?SUName=food&terms=hangover
^they have all kinds of info on them.
they last about a day. make sure you have enough to eat, drink lots of water or fruit juice, and sleep. that's about it besides distracting yourself. poor you!
My hair is Thick, long, wavy, semi-damaged, brown..
Please recommend products for:
Shampoo:
Conditioner:
Deep conditioner:
Hot-oil treatment:
Shine serum:
Heat protecting spray:
Thanks soooo much! I'll rate for anyone who answers
I have about the same hair type-
Shampoo: pantene pro-v sleek and straight (it's green)
Conditioner: ^same as above
Deep conditioner: garnier fructis 3 minute masque
Hot-oil treatment: ?
Shine serum: garnier fructis has one and it works i forget the name tho.
Heat protecting spray: ?
Hey.
I am leaving all my friends next year. So I made a slideshow of like 100 pictures--- it takes about 5 minutes to go completely through. And so I was wondering, does anyone know any songs like that? Like leaving friends behind or something.
I'm more into 60s, 70s, 80s rock. But anythings good. Thanks!!!
you have the same music taste as me!
ok i would say "going to california" or "babe i'm gonna leave you" by led zeppelin. there are several others by them so check it out.
goodbye to you by michelle branch is good too.
My boyfreind and I used to smoke together a lot. Like all the time and i didnt like it so i tried talking to him about it and all he said was "You think your better then me because I smoke" and i dont think that at all, i just want to have a normal, fun relationship w/out drugs. How do i get him to think more positivley??
You should tell him just that. Honestly, I think he'll quit on his own when he gets bored with it or wants to get a job. Tell him you don't think you are better and that he isn't less because he does. you could go 2 ways... let him smoke (meaning you dont have to..but he can) or make him pick between you and the pot. if he instantly pick the pot... he'll probably regret it later but it says a lot. do things where he can't smoke... invite him to do things and stuff to kinda get him away from it. anything else, let me know.
Hey, my friend is going to go to a july 4th party tonight and theres gonna be weed and alcohol there... she said she doenst want to go, or smoke, but she says she'll drink though. She says she has to go because she promised her friends... im just worried about her.. what can i say to her?? I just dont want her to go.
Thanks so much.
well it's the 5th now but really, don't worry about it. just because it was there doesn't mean she wanted to/tried it. let me know what happened.. i can definatly help with this.
I want to whiten my teeth because they are a little dull. I heard that some whitening products can ruin and damage you teeth or your teeth enamel. My question is what brands or whitening strips or toothpastes do you reccomend? thanks. :]]
i've used crest white strips twice and i've been satisfied both times so i definatly recommend them!