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Okay I feel very fat. I am in 9th grade and i am a cheerleader. All of my friends are very skinny. I am very picky about my weight and size and i get jelous when i see skinny people and i really want to be the thin pretty girl but i dont feel good. I am 5*7 amd i weigh 124 ! Please any tips on loosing weight? (link)
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You are five feet and seven inches and you are 124 pounds and you think that you are fat. That is uncool, because I am five foot nine and if I told you what I weighed I think that you would think that I was obese. I am not though. I am not fat and I am not thin. I am in the middle. All you need to do is learn how to raise your self esteem and not be so harsh on yourself. You shouldn't even be thinking about losing weight. You will become anorexic if you get any skinnier. You know that the average woman in the U.S.A is 5'4" and weighs 160 pounds? By the way, what is your defenition of "skinny" and "thin, pretty girl"? Chances are that you are thin because you are in cheerleading and sometimes it can be a vigorous sport and it takes a lot of endurance and stength. The only thing I can say is that you need to learn how to have more self esteem and appreciate your body more.
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OK i had a boyfriend but he was a geek and i think i am pritty good looking but none of the guys i know think that i am . and i never get anything from the guys from school and i have blond hiar (long dirty blond) i have blie eyes and i am athletic and i love animals i have some and i just need some advise. how can i get guys to like me? (link)
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Many things help.
1. First of all clothes: always wear stuff which sets as a individual. Trust me all guys will notice you
2. Wear makup: Do it but dont over do it. Make your makeup seem natural.
3. Flirt: Seriously, If you dont flirt then guys will not notice you enough. Flirt enough, not too much. Also be careful not to flirt with guys whoa re taken. Thier girlfriends will not like you and they will go and warn their guys to stay away from you(which of course you dont want)
4. Stay Updated: Read newspaper, see th news, watch and see the results of basketball games, football games. Stay updated on everything which is going around. Learn about new stuff like jouranlism or stuff like that. Whenever you are near a guy, you can easily strike up a conversation with him or talk about anything he likes like football or other stuff. He will definitely be impressed.
5. Make a way to get the guys number or to get him to call you. Whenver he calls you, nake sure you are in a cherful area with music and friends and hell realize you like having tons of fun and he will crave you more.
6. Eye COntact: make eye contact seriously. When talking with him dont keep you head down. Always make eye contact in a calm way but not too much. overdoing is not good.
7.Always smile, never show you are down, he will realize what fun it would be to be around you and trust me hell want you more.
8. Flirt with his guy friends to show that all guys want you and make him jealous, hell definitely ask you out. But dont flirt with his freinds too much.
9. Give him nice gifts on his b-day, he will also see how thoughtful you are.
10. Be around freinds and hell see many people like you.
11. get his aim or msn or whatever, if you do all those stuff i mentioned above hell definitely like you!
12. Dont be too much of a slut. The guy will think you only want guys just to have a boyfreind.
13. LAst but not the least dont totally pretend ot be someone else, be yourself and youll be loving it!
In No time at all hell ask you out. Just wait and see :)
Oh I forgot to mention, give him the vibe that you like him...
Good Luck ;)
Hope I helped.
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im a 14 female. and i have big boobs, and all the signs of my period.but i haven't gotten it yet. what the eff IS WRONG WITH ME GOSH.heheh (link)
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Nothing is wrong with you. Everyone is different and so are their hormones. If you see period signs then you prolly have it soon but you might not. Its tottaly normal. Many girls have it when thye are sixteen so ddont be impatient, ill happen. If you super worried about not having your period you can go to a doctor andget a check-up to see if you have any internal problems whivh is preventing your period. Hope I helped :)
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I went out with this kid name Matt and About a month ago I dumped him. The kid is like obsessed with me he's alway just staring at me, at lunch, during classes, in the halls. If i walk across the room he watches me. He seriously watches like everything I do. I have a new boyfriend, named Jon, now and both him and i are really uncomfortable with him staring at me. Its so weird im like afraid to be myself sometimes. Like people come up to me and are like Matt is staring at you. It creeps me out and makes me so uncomfortable. Some of my friends have been telling him he needs to move on and get a new girlfriend and they've suggested hooking him up with people but he's obsessed. I dont like him that way at all. What should I do about it?!?!? (link)
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Talk to him nicely and calmly and tell him thay you dont like him like that anymorea dn you are uncomfortable with him liking you more than friend. Say that your relationship with him is iver and it wont start again no matter what. Maybe he thinks staring at you and obssesing about you will get you and him back together so you need to prove him wrong. You could set up one of your friends with him and also tell him that he needs to move on just like you did as you have a new boyfriend. Hope I helped. :)
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Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...
Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.
He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!
I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...
Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad... (link)
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Well, I don't remember beating a guy at sports or anything. Your boyfriend is too macho. Try bribing him or threatening ((in a nice way)) him. Like.. tell him no kisses for a day each time he challenges you, or something like that. It's hard to change guys that think girls are just there to look pretty + can't fight, but if you say like "no more [whatever he likes] if you keep challenging me.." might work. But don't forget to follow through if he does challenge you! =) Good luck; I hope I helped!
..xo* Jess
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Whenever I get $$ I spend it!! I can't help it, whenever I'm in town I see something I want and I spend it. I don't even need what I bought!! How can I save my money? (link)
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You could put your money in the bank or tell someone who you trust to hold on to it. I know a great way to save money and it works cuz i use it. Get two large jars and label one of them spending money and the other one saving money. Each time you get money divide it into half and put each half in each of the jars. Remember to only spend the money from the spending jar. You will see at the end of a few months how much money you saved up with the saving jar by dividing your money all the time. It really works.
Hope I helped! :)
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IM 14 yrs old and i have a pretty bad life. Im not suicidal or anything. Ive had a pretty bad past. My brother andrew hurts me he will kick me in the stomach and ribs and yell at me and it got so bad my mom called the cops. He threatend me and my moms life. I called him in detention (kids jail) and he said there was nothing to be said to me and he wants nothing to do with me and he will never find away to forgive me or forget. Now he is being senet away. my mom is never home. I told her we need some serious talking to do and we need to talk It took a long time to come out of that shell and tell her that. She just told me she has to go to her boyfriends house. I was shocked. She leaves me for her BOYFRIEND. When her own daughter needs help! I was in treatment i was sent away for 5 months. Nothing really changed over that. Im not a virgin the only reason why is because i feel thats the only thing that makes me feel wanted. Just to be "loved" for that period of time. I was thinking of the long run. Now my friend offered me to live with her for as long as i needed. To sort things out. Me and my friend had some pretty ruff times we actually we're best friends but i screwed up and that ended it but she was still there for me. So she offered a home for me. Shes not into that stuff sex, drugs, or drinking. Im trying to get away from that but its hard. Like i said... i feel like i belong then. SO how do i tell my mom that i want to just not leave her but i need a break. For a bit. my friend said that we could get both of our moms together and me and her would sit down and we would talk it out. I dont want my mom to think she is a bad mother i just need a "mother" figure there for me that i can talk to. And wont leave on me when i need help. So help me please. This is and maybe a change of life. (link)
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Your situation is hard. My first advice to you would be to go to a counselor and try to stay away from drugs, alcohol and sex, and so that the counselor can help you deal with this problem. Even If your best friend offers you a home, you cant stay at her house for years so you got to talk to your mom. It seems as if she doesnt care about what you think. Try to talk to her again, if it doesnt wrok and she goes to her boyfriends place then call her ther and tell her seriously that you are hurt, and tell her all these things, open up to her. If she still acts the way like before then tell her that you are leaving the house and will never come back adn seriously mean it. If you have some money or insurance then you can contact a lawyer or the social service and tell them that your mother isnt doing a good job. If your mom really cares about you she will take you seriously and maybe she will understand but if she doesnt change her ways then you dont need to worry about her thinking thta hse is a bad mom as she showed a act which makes it seems she doesnt care. If you contact the social service and if thye contact your mom, and if they find that your mom is unable to take proper care of you then they can arrange a good family to raise you or they can arrange money for you to finish your education. meanwhile you can stay at your best friends house. Whatver I wrote also depends on how old you are too. becaouse if you stilla rent 14 you might be unable to take these actions. As for your brother, if he really is that way do not contact him, IF he continues to threaten inform the police immediately. Your mother shoudl also know about how he abused you, IF hse cares then she will take action. Hope I helped. Hope you find a way to a better life. :)
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Okay I make icons and my animator expired. Because it wasn't the right one. I have been searching for CoffeeCup GIF Animator 6.2/6.1 because those are the versions that work for me. I can only find 7.0, does anyone know where I can find CoffeeCup GIF Animator 6.2/6.1?
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21 (link)
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Go to download.com, it might have the coffecup animator version you are looking for. I used coffecup animator but i dont like it too much, why dont you also try out Jasc Animation Shop Pro form www.download.com ITs really good. hope I helped.
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I am wanting to make my own free web page one I can design and put my own backgrond on it and everything and I was wondering if anyone happened to know of any good website I can go to and make my own web page, thanks bunches everyone,...I rate High to anyone who answers this! (link)
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I reccommend www.freeservers.com, there you get a short domain name for free like www.whatveryouwantthenametobe.4t.com
it has cool services and a great site builder for free. You can also try out geocities(www.geocities.com) and angelfire(www.angelfire). they offer tons of space and good site builders. Xanga(www.xanga.com) offers free webhosting too and their free web hosting is quite good. check them all out bu t i would reccommend freeservers.com i have my own paid domain name and am a proffessional webdesigner and when i first started out in webdesign i started out in angelfire but then i moved to freeservers and i immediately loved it. Hope I helped :)
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What are some good teen sites... Like sites that has quizes, quotes, surveys, place to meet ppl, games and stuff for teen... please hellp..thanks (link)
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If youw ant quizzes and polls and stuff like that go to www.justchillin.com and IF you wanna meet lots of new people then go to www.habbohotel.co.uk and sign up. Both these sites are cool and has stuff which you want. Hope I helped :)
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where can i go to get a good layout for my advice page? (link)
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Do you mean like a good background? If you want a good layout you could go to column settings and choose one of the layouts and then choose a scheme. I know some sites with some good backgrounds like http://www.nuthinbutnet.net/resources/backgrounds.aspx & http://www.airfaerie.com/bgs/bgs.shtml & http://www.fairy-dust.com/graphics/bgs1.php and there is more. If you need more then ask me again. In these websites they give the whole html code for the background but you only need the url of the background so if the code is then just copy and paste http://www.boomspeed.com/shadowedfate/imgs/bg63.gif in column settings.
Hope I helped you. I know a lot about html which helps to decorate the pages so if want some advice on that feel free to ask me. :)
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Well, I was on the way to school, and my girlfriend came up to me and said she likes another guy. So she is deciding whether to go out with me or the other guy. should I even still go out with her? should I like her anymore? (link)
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if she has to take time to think about you or the other guy, it's too late. if you're going out with someone, you shouldn't have doubts. my advice is to dump her and find someone worth your time.
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like a week ago my boyfriend and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job (he put a condom on) and while i was giving him a hand job he was holding his penis and then when i was done he fingered me and my period hasnt started yet but ive been having cramps lately and i usually get cramps but could i be pregnant? (link)
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no u cant get pregnant unless the penis goes in the vagina n cums without wearing a condom
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ok well i dont eat anything really... i would say im becoming anerexiox. i know its not good for you but does it mmake you lose weight? (link)
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Losing wieght is a matter of decreasing fat that is unhealthy. Being anorexic you lose everything. first you seem to lose fat but really you start to lose muscle and energy. my friend had anorexia 3 months ago she was strictly not eating. she ended up in the hospital for a month with a tube carrying liquid food being shoved down her throat just to make her eat. she was permanently damaged and is in counseling for the rest of her life- if shes lucky. try to avoid not eating anything but try at least eating a little then gradually move up. girls that are anorexic ussually have low self esteem... when your skinny... you look worse then before... You could tell your friends to help you out on this. If you really want to lose weight in a healthy way then just eat on a healthy diet such choosing cooked or baked goods over fried things. Also try to eat stuff with less calories from fat rather than carbs or regular calories. Hope I helped :)
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At school dances, I never dance. I know..you'll say "then why do you go?". I just go and hang out with my friends. It's actually pretty fun. But they dance sometimes, and I don't. I guess I'm just not much of a dancer. I think I'm self-conscious or just embarrassed because I think I can't dance...I'm not sure. I'm probably afraid of what people will think of me, like if I dance bad/can't dance right or something. I'm just nervous. I've never slow danced with anyone either. So my first time will be a little scary. Anyway, back to my question. What do you think I can do to get over this? I need help, because I want to be dancing and having more fun than I usually do at the next dance. (link)
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I am kind of like that too. Its very common among many girls. But being conscious all the time spoils the fun. Your friends are kind of right. If you come to a dance you should a little. :) You could try practicing at home a slow easy dance. Not too fast so that you dont mess up or get embaressed. It will help. Trust me. Slowly you will get into dancing in front of everyone. Slow dancing is also really easy. I am not joking but you can try dancing with a broom if you have no one to practice slow dancing with at home. It might help. I dont think i was much of a help but anyways hope my advice helped at least a little :)
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I have this in school and I would consider her one of my best friends. She has a boyfriend and I really like her boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I have asked some of my friends that don't know her but they tell me the same thing, don't do anything. I wouldn't want to lose her as a friend so I won't do anything. But know what if they break up and he likes me? do I go out with my best friends ex-boyfriend??
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Well, If you seriously like this guy then you should ask your friend cassually what if a friend of hers liked her BF, what would be her reaction. She would probably give a negative answer but If she gives a positive answer like "yeah, then we can just break up if my BF likes her too, cuz I am thinking about breaking up with him...." and blah blah or something like that then go for it after they break up If he likes you. (I think Positive answer is unprobable though) If negative then just you gotta wait till they break up and see how your friends attitude towards him is and if its like friend and no-jealousy type then you could go for it then. But if that doesnt happen either I guess it would be best to just forget this guy. :) Hope I helped.
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Pardon me for sounding emo. I really can't stand myself. I make bad choices, I am a terrible friend, and some of the things I say--that I hardly ever mean--really hurt people. Sometimes I can't even stand to look at myself in the mirror. My family doesn't seem to like me either. I don't have many friends. The only ones I have are jerks--but I don't feel like I have a right to get mad at them. It's what I deserve. I feel so guilty, but I can't think of anything that I have done wrong... But everything I do seems to be wrong, and I am always getting punished for things that I can't help. I am a terrible person. (link)
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You know what, EVERY person makes a mistake and some time in their life cannot stand themselves. Maybe this happens because you think so negative. It would help if you woke up with a smile and thought to yourself that 'Today will be a good day.' IF you did that then it would help. What reason would your family have to hate you? It is all in your mind you need to go see a therapist and not be so negative. You need to a change. Change your clothes, or your hair, or start wearing make up or stop wearing makeup. What ever you need to do to have a change in your life that is positive. One day you need to stop being so negative and make that day be today. I hope that this helps you.
-Inga
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online some of my friends say: sos when i ask whats up. i dont know what sos means and i would feel so stupid to ask one of them! (link)
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Sos means same ole stuf or same ole shit. Now you don't have to ask them what it means. :-)
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I went out with a guy for 3 months and we eventually told eachother we loved eachother and we both meant it. he dumped me and i have never gotten over it. Recently my friend told me that he is thinking about getting back together. Should we try again or just stay friends? (link)
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If he really loves you then he wouldnt have dumped you in the place. I suggest you not start over.
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This guy told me he likes me and he knows I like him, and I asked if the only reason he likes me is because he knew that I liked him. and he said no. So he really does like me, so he says, and he told me a week ago. Even before telling me he never called me not even once, and he never got online, now that i know he likes me , he gets on once like every three days but NEVER calls me. I dont call him very much because I dont want him to think im suffocating him, and I mean, I havnt talked to him on the phone for 7 days and he doesnt talk much online to anyone, and so I called tonight and he told me he was watching a movie and would be on in 30 minutes ...well. its been 2 hours, and all i want is for him to SHOW that he actually has interest in me...is there any reason why he would be doing somethign like this??? PS: His sister knows I like him too...and shes my friend. (link)
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I think it depends on the guy's personality because If the guy is shy then he wont be able to express his liking for you through the phone much so he might be expecting you to make the first move. If he is the different-girl-each-month guy then just forget about this guy cuz even if you two get together its not going to work for long. Or you could just give it a little bit more time and wait to see if he starts to talk to you more. If the waiting doesnt work then you could just talk to him calmly about it and ask him to tell you his feelings for you honestly. i prefer waiting and then asking im baout it or making the first move because the guy should know that you are a girl who is able to give er guy his own space, that way he will be even more attracted to you and that might help speed him up.
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