This guy told me he likes me and he knows I like him, and I asked if the only reason he likes me is because he knew that I liked him. and he said no. So he really does like me, so he says, and he told me a week ago. Even before telling me he never called me not even once, and he never got online, now that i know he likes me , he gets on once like every three days but NEVER calls me. I dont call him very much because I dont want him to think im suffocating him, and I mean, I havnt talked to him on the phone for 7 days and he doesnt talk much online to anyone, and so I called tonight and he told me he was watching a movie and would be on in 30 minutes ...well. its been 2 hours, and all i want is for him to SHOW that he actually has interest in me...is there any reason why he would be doing somethign like this??? PS: His sister knows I like him too...and shes my friend.
TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 9:32 am: is he shy? that could be it, that or he isnt exactly comfortable with the ideas of having a girlfriend. talk to him more, and dont worry to much about suffocating him. he may be tqaking advice from someone to treat you like this and he thinks that your not supposed to call often?
orphans answered Thursday January 6 2005, 2:49 am: I think it depends on the guy's personality because If the guy is shy then he wont be able to express his liking for you through the phone much so he might be expecting you to make the first move. If he is the different-girl-each-month guy then just forget about this guy cuz even if you two get together its not going to work for long. Or you could just give it a little bit more time and wait to see if he starts to talk to you more. If the waiting doesnt work then you could just talk to him calmly about it and ask him to tell you his feelings for you honestly. i prefer waiting and then asking im baout it or making the first move because the guy should know that you are a girl who is able to give er guy his own space, that way he will be even more attracted to you and that might help speed him up. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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