OK i had a boyfriend but he was a geek and i think i am pritty good looking but none of the guys i know think that i am . and i never get anything from the guys from school and i have blond hiar (long dirty blond) i have blie eyes and i am athletic and i love animals i have some and i just need some advise. how can i get guys to like me?
TinkerbellsHelp answered Monday January 24 2005, 5:21 pm: ok heres the deal. be yourself! no guy is worth ur trouble if he doesn't accept you for who you are!! but maybe put your makeup on a little better, do your hair, and just try to look the best you can, with feeling comfortable. [ TinkerbellsHelp's advice column | Ask TinkerbellsHelp A Question ]
orphans answered Monday January 24 2005, 5:11 pm: Many things help.
1. First of all clothes: always wear stuff which sets as a individual. Trust me all guys will notice you
2. Wear makup: Do it but dont over do it. Make your makeup seem natural.
3. Flirt: Seriously, If you dont flirt then guys will not notice you enough. Flirt enough, not too much. Also be careful not to flirt with guys whoa re taken. Thier girlfriends will not like you and they will go and warn their guys to stay away from you(which of course you dont want)
4. Stay Updated: Read newspaper, see th news, watch and see the results of basketball games, football games. Stay updated on everything which is going around. Learn about new stuff like jouranlism or stuff like that. Whenever you are near a guy, you can easily strike up a conversation with him or talk about anything he likes like football or other stuff. He will definitely be impressed.
5. Make a way to get the guys number or to get him to call you. Whenver he calls you, nake sure you are in a cherful area with music and friends and hell realize you like having tons of fun and he will crave you more.
6. Eye COntact: make eye contact seriously. When talking with him dont keep you head down. Always make eye contact in a calm way but not too much. overdoing is not good.
7.Always smile, never show you are down, he will realize what fun it would be to be around you and trust me hell want you more.
8. Flirt with his guy friends to show that all guys want you and make him jealous, hell definitely ask you out. But dont flirt with his freinds too much.
9. Give him nice gifts on his b-day, he will also see how thoughtful you are.
10. Be around freinds and hell see many people like you.
11. get his aim or msn or whatever, if you do all those stuff i mentioned above hell definitely like you!
12. Dont be too much of a slut. The guy will think you only want guys just to have a boyfreind.
13. LAst but not the least dont totally pretend ot be someone else, be yourself and youll be loving it!
In No time at all hell ask you out. Just wait and see :)
Oh I forgot to mention, give him the vibe that you like him...
Good Luck ;)
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alexf_2001 answered Monday January 24 2005, 4:54 pm: be up front. show people who you are. dont just sit around hoping someone will notice you. You've got to really make a guy notice you (because most of us are kinda dumb and don't realise subtle things, like when a girl wants us to notice her) so yeah, be blunt, but be sexy ;)
0xKristinx0 answered Monday January 24 2005, 4:38 pm: well, if you dump a guy cuz hes a dork, that might not be so good if your trying to get other guys to like you. i think that in a relationship, you need to have a base. like start as friends. get a guy your interested in and find out his screen name and start talking. then hang out with him and some other friends, and then when your ready make a move...if he doesnt like it, at least it will show other guys you are looking
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TheTeenGirl answered Monday January 24 2005, 12:16 am: Theres really no way you can get a guy to like you. At the teen years, you have to be something you aren't (slut activities). But you just have to be yourself and wait until a guy notices what a nice girl you are, and you didn't have to describe they way you look, its not about that (for teen guys it is) but for you it shouldn't be, and I know its hard to not feel liked by boys, I am a quiet girl, thats why I'm not noticed, I think I look alright but I'm not out there and loud, thats a way to put yourself in the dating world just don't over do it.
xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Sunday January 23 2005, 10:17 pm: Well if guys dont like you for who you are then they arent worth the time i mean .. what kind of guy is it if they only want you for the looks .. i think you should go up n talk to them and just .. get them to know you better and if they dont want you then their a waste try to find the guy who wants you for who you are not what you look like
hope i helped tell me how it goes babe ..
drjwlc4 answered Sunday January 23 2005, 9:40 pm: well i am the same way blonde hair blue eyes and guys dont think of me as that because we are to good of friends i am also atletic and i get along more with guys then girls because they are all backstabbers pretty nuch(girls)so i think that maybe you should ask them like what they think about you i mean you are being your self maybe try to impress them somehow maybe you can make a move slowly at a time on those guys then ask them what they think of you.hope i helped
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KaTiE_LyNn answered Sunday January 23 2005, 9:19 pm: be yourself. don`t worry about what people think about you. mostly hve confidence. guys notice you by the way you present yourself. so be confident in yourself. oh and don`t worry if guys like you now because i`m guessing you`re young. true love waits so don`t rush it.
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advicequeen answered Sunday January 23 2005, 9:05 pm: Be yourself (most important)
Strike up conversations
Don't be shy
Make eye contact when talking
Be confident
Flirting doesn't hurt... =)
Chat with some guys from your school online
if they have usernames
Ask a guy out! (Seriously guys aren't the
only ones to ask people out)
Go on a double date (that is when
you go on a date with a guy, taking a friend with her date)
helpfull answered Sunday January 23 2005, 8:49 pm: my gf left me 2 daysago so i suggest dont try and make yourself more so guys like you find a guy who like s you for who you are
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