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his so confusing
ok there's this guy that my best friend is hooking me up with...his 18 and i'm 15...his really nice and really sweet but sometimes i feel like his no going to want to be with me because my paretns hardly let me do anything...well it's kind of a confusing situation! but one min i think he likes me and the next his putting me down ((but he doesn't know he puts me down)) my best friend tells me that he doesn't mean to and blah blah! i just wan't to know if i should just stop talking to him or what?!
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i think that you should just confront him yourself and then see what he says and from there on just see how things go and u will be able to tell if you want to be with him or not. hope i helped
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I was in the same situation a few months ago. It didn't turn out well. If you guys aren't even going out yet (which is the impression i get) and he's already putting you down about your parents and stuff, then I would have serious talk with him. Tell him that if he loves/likes you enough to date/go out with you, he should respect the fact that you are younger than him, and that girls that are younger generally don't ge to do as many things as girls his age. If he decides that doing those things is more important than being with you, then he was wasn't right for you. But if he really likes you, and isn't just being pressured into talking to you because of your friend, he most likely will give up doing those things with you for a while.
And, don't do this because your friend wants you to, this is your life, your time, energy, heart and body. Don't be with someone you relaly don't want to be with, just because of your friend.
If he continues to put you down, and you have made it clear to him that when he says those things, it hurts you, you should break up or stop talking to him. I made the mistake of staying with my older guy until he really hurt me, and my parents and all my friends hated him for what he said to me. i just don't want this to happen with you.
Good luck, I hope everything works out well. :)
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Okay well if he truly loves you then he should respect your decisions if you don't want to 'do anything' with him. If he doesn't, then he doesn't deserve you and he is probably just using you for ...u know what...So what I suggest is to just continute with this guy but it comes to that point in your relationship where he gets mad at you for not being able to do stuff with him than let go of him and move on because he was obviously using you. Good luck hunnie and if you need anything you know where my inbox is. xoxo
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my gf left me 2day she was seein some1 else im goin for heart surgery tommorow my advice is carry on the realationship she hat happens but like any realationship if your not comfortable just stop
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