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let's say... you're not really skinny.
I mean not like really really fat.
but not skinny.
let's go for chubby.
so you want to buy new jeans, can you well more like.

do skinny low rise jeans look good on you?
like latest abercrombie jeans, I would try them on if I could. But unfortunately I do not live in the united states of america. so my question is, do skinny low rise jeans look good on me?

(yeah I'm trying to lose weight so zip it)

I really need an honest answer THANK YOU!

well it kinda depends on where you are chubby. like i'm chubby too, i have thin calves but bulky thighs so they dont work. but i have a shorter waist so the lowrise would work. if you arent so thin in the waist area, then it would depend on what you wear them with. i think you should find a store you can try them on at and see if they look ok on you. if they don't, don't worry about it.

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hey !
if i run for about an hour a day for maybe 5 or 6 days [[yes-i do stretch and take precautions and make shure i am fully hydrated]] how long do you think until i will lose 5 pounds?

thank you!

i think you'll probably gain weight instead of loosing it because of all the muscle you build running. try fast walking instead or if you dont mind gaining a bit and looking good, run.

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My two friends and I (three of us all together) want to do a group Halloween costume. We want to look hot, but not like revealing and really slutty. There is a halloween party (with guys) Does anyone have any ideas for a HOT group costume?

charlie's angels was the first thing that came to mind. you could all be devils, prisoners, cops, or some of the pussy cat dolls.

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out of opinion, would you say that 5'4'' was tall or short for a 15 year old girl?

a lot of people around here would say pretty short but i think it's about average.

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I'm looking for something to whiten my teeth that actually works. I was gonna try the Crest Whitening Strips but I've been getting mixed answers from people, saying they don't work/waste of money, etc. Does anyone know of something like that that actually works and makes your teeth whiter? Thanks!

I've used crest whitestips twice and been satisfied both times. i did it the wrong way... i used them after brushing my teeth and people say you're not supposed to but it worked great for me.

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for high school, we're aloud to carry around a backpack during the day. do you reccomend this (because our classes could be in seperate buildings & i don't know where my locker will be related to my classes)? also, where are some places you can get backpacks that are cute and not to big? or, what are your recommendations for types/styles of backpacks? thanks

um anykind of backpack is fine really... people usually have LLBean's and the ones i think are cute are the northface ones... they're fairly small and come in pink.

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I feel awfully stupid asking this question but I can't seem to figure it out. I'm babysitting today and the lady asked me to be there at ten of nine...well, I don't know what that means. I should've asked my mom but I forgot! Does it mean 8:50 or 9:10????

Please help so I can be there on time!

Thanks! =)

that would be 8:50.

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instead of using ILJ (i love jake) what are other ways of saying it..like MPJ (me plus jake) that way other ppl wont know what im talking about..and if they ask what is another thing it stands for..

thanks in advance..bye

CFJA--- crazy for jake always or crazy freakin' jackass.

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what does g mean? people are always like "what up g" and once someones profile said "away, being G of course"

"what up gangster" and "away, being gangster of course."
it's gangster.

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I really wanna look good in my clothes and wear designer stuff but it's expensive and I was wondering where I could get clothes that look like designer. but i don't wanna be called a loser for wearing knock-offs and stuff. please help me find some good shops.

charlotte russe and forever 21 have clothes that are runway inspired. they look cute too so check them out. also, you could try wearing brands like a&f because they're expensive but affordable. you could try outlets too.

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I made a video at this link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPy4wjxSI58

I'm singing Defying Gravity and I'd love some comments/advice on how I did because I'm trying out for a musical soon and whether or not it's that song I need to know what to work on or what my strengths are.

wellll it needs some work. i think you should be a little bit more motion consious.. some arent really theatrical, more like just talking/conversational. just get more comfortable with it... it will improve it and make it easier to really perform it, know what i mean? you have a voice that's good for theater but really work on your higher notes (i know its hard because its mostly in the lower range) good luck at your audition!

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does your penis get smaller the more you have sex

nope.

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Okay this is really embarassing....I went to the movies with my boyfriend last night and we decided to see Nacho Libre...well halfway through the movie I had drank a large soda and I really needed to go ut I didnt want to miss the movie. So then this really funny part happened and I laughed until I peed my pants...I was SO embarrassed and I couldnt get up because I was afraid he would notice to when we went to leave the movie I just rapped my jacket around my waist. On the car ride home he put his hand on my thigh and squeezed...I was so happy! I've never really be touched by a guy (I know I'm a weirdo) and I'm really excited and like a a crazzed fan touched by their hero I'm not sure if I want to wash the pants. I know its gross...but would it be too weird to not wash them and keep them for sentimental value? I wanted to ask my friends but I was WAY to embarrassed to ask people I know. Oh my gosh pleaase help!

wash the pants.... he will touch you again. he is your bf after all. please wash them... they will bring you misery if you don't.

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What are some good songs to sing as a solo and without accompaniment besides "The Star-Spangled Banner"?

amazing grace, edelviss (sound of music), for good (wicked).

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i am very much into track and cross country, i have just started my summer cross country training for the season which begins in late august. one problem i am having is for two weeks i am going to an acting camp, one i have been to before which begins at 7 am (ill leave my house earlier) and i wont be home until 8:15 pm. at the camp, sitting is mainly what you are doing. the people there are much more theatre people and dont think alot about fitness. i really dont want to mess up my training schedule/the fitness ive been doing. any suggestions?

you could try going out and running after the camp everynight... get 3 miles in and be back before 9. then if you are still up to it, do some push ups and basic things you need to do to stay in shape. with all that you can be done by 10, go to sleep, and do it again the next day.

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hey my name is ashley... and almost everyday afetr school i come home crying because i am always being made fun of because i smell... i have no reason to smell. whats going on, how do i get them to stop, what should i do about the smell?

aww i'm sorry! if i had a dollar for everytime kids got made fun of for something that wasn't even true, i'd be rich. if your house has an interesting smell, ask someone nice to point it out to you. otherwise, they're just being mean to get you to cry. just take normal showers regularly, wear deoderant and it you want, wear some perfume. some of my favorites are fantasy, curious, live, shine.. a lot of the victoria's secret scents are yummy to and you can have a bottle in your backpack to put on during the day and show those ahem, assholes, that you don't smell. just be confident and ignore their immature remarks. that's just rude! i hope everything works for you!

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I need to talk my mom into letting me get a yorkie i really want one and we already have big dogs a a few cats but i mean i could do sumthing to get money to feed it and clean up after it and everything i just want one so bad b/c they r so cute and our big dogs alwayz knock me down a slobber all over me!!! i just want a dog i can carry when i go to my bf's house and just anywhere i go. please, p.s. i think my boyfriend might be thinking of gettin me one...

show her that you are responsible with the pets you already have. clean/feed them before she asks you too, do it all on time and in an oderly manner and i think she will give in. maybe she fears for the little dog's safety? get some money together and do all that and i think she'll let you.

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Hi. I'm 15, I've never had a boyfriend, a kiss, really anything from a guy. I'm fat, but I'm pretty. I have about 5 closeclose guy friends, that I get occasional hugs from, but it's not enough. I want a boyfriend, or even just a guy to like me (we dont have to be going out). I feel like a failure. So what, I'm fat? I know that's all guys look for, and I know alot of you are going to say, "You don't need a boyfriend!" or "You're still young!". But I'm going into 10th grade, and still so out of it. I don't know what I'm really asking for, I think I'm just confused & I feel like I've failed at life cause I'm a girl, but I've never had a boy.

you are not a failure! (repeat 10 more times). don't go looking for a guy... you are pretty and you are not desperate whatsoever! the right guy will come along and find you. I was in your position for a lonngggg time (yes, i'm fat too), and when i least expected it, the greatest guy became my bf. it's like he found me... i wasn't even looking anymore. just because you've never had a boy doesn't mean that you never will.... it's not too late or anything. i know it's overused blah blah but it's true!

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How often should I change my razor? I have the pink venus and I shave like 3 times a week. Four at teh most, 2 at the least. But in the winter, I only shave like once a week, sometimes two. So how often should I change it?

as often as you feel you need to really. once you see that you have to shave a certain area numerous times to get the hair off, that's when you know you really need a new one.

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Hello! For my musical, we are doing Fairly Modern Millie..do I need a New York accent for that? And if so, how do I do one? (13/f.)

~Thanks in advance

I think you should either watch the movie of it if there is one or watch guys & dolls. i had to have a new york accent to be Bonnie in Anything goes and my voice teacher suggested that i watch guys & dolls. you like don't say your "r"s and stuff... it's kind of hard to explain withought doing it, you know? hope that helps and lemme know if i can explain anything else for you.

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