Okay this is really embarassing....I went to the movies with my boyfriend last night and we decided to see Nacho Libre...well halfway through the movie I had drank a large soda and I really needed to go ut I didnt want to miss the movie. So then this really funny part happened and I laughed until I peed my pants...I was SO embarrassed and I couldnt get up because I was afraid he would notice to when we went to leave the movie I just rapped my jacket around my waist. On the car ride home he put his hand on my thigh and squeezed...I was so happy! I've never really be touched by a guy (I know I'm a weirdo) and I'm really excited and like a a crazzed fan touched by their hero I'm not sure if I want to wash the pants. I know its gross...but would it be too weird to not wash them and keep them for sentimental value? I wanted to ask my friends but I was WAY to embarrassed to ask people I know. Oh my gosh pleaase help!
Lucky answered Monday July 17 2006, 8:22 pm: no offense, but i think you should wash them. you dont want 2 keep them, w/ the gross smell. even tho i no you want 2 save them, it would be better if you wash them.
orphans answered Monday July 17 2006, 2:25 pm: wow gurly.....you definately need to wash them....if he is your boyfriend he will touch you again . find a different way to keep this meemory lol. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
ask_kendall answered Monday July 17 2006, 12:58 pm: I know you want to remember the memory, but try it in a different way. Write it down in a journal or take a picture of in the shirt with your boyfriend. You definitly need to wash the pants though. [ ask_kendall's advice column | Ask ask_kendall A Question ]
OoOhaileyOoO answered Monday July 17 2006, 12:30 pm: If you don't wash them they'll start to smell like something died and then you'll have to throw them out. So wash them, it won't wash out the memory.
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wretchedmelody answered Monday July 17 2006, 11:07 am: Oh wow.
That's awesome. I remember the day my boyfriend put his hand on my stomach as we were sitting side-by-side.. I swore that I wouldn't wash that shirt for my life. But then the worst thing possible happened - my cat threw up on my shirt while I had it on! I was forced to wash it. Which was sad for me, but I wrote about that day in my journal and drew a heart with Sharpie on the inside of my shirt at the collar, where it's thickest. That way I could always remember that day by the shirt and by what I wrote in my journal.
You might not want to was them, but you really should. Even if the urine dries, there are still the bacteria there and that's very very unhealthy. You don't want to get sick remembering that special night! So why don't you write all about it, how you felt, what was going through your mind, and what you wanted to happen after that in a litter to yourself, or in your journal. Then you can draw or write something in the waistband of those jeans to help you always remember. Then wash those jeans.
girlygirl answered Monday July 17 2006, 10:51 am: Yes, it's too wierd - wash the pants! Maybe he liked you in those pants and you'll want to wear them again. And lastly - get up and go to the bathroom - that's ridiculously immature. [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
Razhie answered Monday July 17 2006, 10:15 am: Wash them.
As important as the moment might have been to you, washing them doesn't take away from that memory, and honestly, urine, like sour milk, smells worse as it gets older and could even cause rashes or the sort if you wear it close to your skin again without cleaning it up.
Sentimentality is fine dear, but sentimentality to the point of stupidity is just stupidity. Hold on your to your ticket stub instead and wash your jeans. You'll have other precious moments with this boy. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
GirlyGurl101 answered Monday July 17 2006, 9:05 am: Awwww! thats so cute. Well please i hope you do wash them. That will seem obsesutive if you don't. lol. That's all i have to say.
DancinCutie08 answered Monday July 17 2006, 9:02 am: I would wash them. besides the fact that they are going to stink really bad it is harmful to you health. Why do you think people get so sick from raw sewage? its the same deal. just because you wash them doesnt mean you wont have the same feelings when you see them [ DancinCutie08's advice column | Ask DancinCutie08 A Question ]
mrbrodie answered Monday July 17 2006, 8:53 am: You should wash them. They'll always be the same pants, and they'll always have the same meaning. They just wont be unhygienic :) [ mrbrodie's advice column | Ask mrbrodie A Question ]
lauren1011 answered Monday July 17 2006, 8:37 am: wash them so you can wear them again. the pants will always be a symbol of the first time a guy touched you, even if they have bbeeen washed. plus theres coke and pee on them... so wash tehm deary! [ lauren1011's advice column | Ask lauren1011 A Question ]
Imperialistic answered Monday July 17 2006, 2:53 am: Wash them, honey.
I know about girl obsessions and I know how hard it is but seriously, how long are you going to keep them unwashed? They're just a pair of pants and you'll probably want to wear them again some day (i.e. your anniversary). Plus, he's your boyfriend, he'll touch you all the time now. Aside from that, as far as hygiene issues go, you should wash them.
And you don't want to jinx it, anyway. [ Imperialistic's advice column | Ask Imperialistic A Question ]
Blue421 answered Monday July 17 2006, 2:36 am: Ew thats nasty! Wash them!
babyiwantyou answered Monday July 17 2006, 2:06 am: Aaaaw poor baby!i wouldnt wash them...But i would spray fragrence on them so they wont smell...and mybe a little perfume and deoderant will help!Trust from experiance ;) [ babyiwantyou's advice column | Ask babyiwantyou A Question ]
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