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Q: how do you post like a survey test, or a picture or somthing after you've copyed the code
like, where to i go? if like some help quick

I usually put everything in my about me section.But it really depends with your layout code.It will either tell you what to do or just lets you put it in about me

Q: Ever since summer started, it seems that all i do is sit around all day. I always call my friends, and ask if they want to hang out, but there always busy. I know for a fact, that some of my friends parents, do not like me, but its not fair that they keep my best friends from seeing me.
For instance, everytime i call my friend kirstie, she's always busy. I'll ask if she wants to hang out, but she says, "oh, my parents are already doing stuff with me today" or, "I already promised my mom i would hang out with her." And, she's always complaing about this girl, that is kinda...the emo one in our group, but it seems like she hangs out with her more than me. It really hurts, because she always says were best friends, but arn't best friends supossed to hang out?

I just really want to know, if maybe i should try to push more to hang out, or give up, or...i dont know, it just stinks cause i'm always alone.

Please help!

Ps. sorry its so long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~Melissa~

Well,I understand it hurts.Maybe try to talk to her and tell her how you feel.Maybe you can compramise.Make dates of what your doing and tell her not to break them.Maybe try out for a team or join a club so you can spend more time together.

And it's not fair that you can't see her.Why don't you talk to the parents about it and tell them you really want to be there childs friend.If all else fails have your parents talk to them.

Don't yell at them.It will make it worse.Just state your opinion and then listen to theres.It will help more then yelling.

Hope it all works out
~Kelleigh

Q: I'm a pretty girl, I'm not trying to be cocky but I'm proud of my looks. When I'm out hott guys check me out, wink, smile, or wave at me all the time. However, the only boyfriends I can get are losers. What do I do?

Well if you really see this.Then talk to one of the boys.See if they are boyfriend material.The 'losers' or so you say could be a choice.If you have some dignity you can talk to them.It will make them happy and you never know,It could mek you happy if you like one.

Just do what your heart tells you and try not to go overboard

Hope it all works out ^-^
~Kelleigh

Q: Does anybod know who sings the version of "I Walk the Line" in a recent levi's commercial? it's sung very slow and softly by a woman. The commercial is of a dark-haired women walking through New York meeting her boyfriend.

It's originally sang by a guy.But it's 'I walk the line' By Johnny Cash.

http://www.lyricsondemand.com/j/johnnycashlyrics/iwalkthelinelyrics.html

Hope it's what your looking for ^-^
Kelleigh

Q: hey,
I am a 14/f and I live in Washington State. (spokane if that helps) I turn 15 in acouple months and I know your allowed to take drivers ed once you turn 15. I have alot of questions about this. When can I take it? Only during the summer or during the school year too? Is 15 the right age? Where can I take drivers Ed.? And anything else you know about would be REALLY appreciated. Thanks soooo much xoxoxo

Were I live,You don't start drivers Ed until you turn 16.Usually they offer it to you in school.But if they don't you can go and check the internet or newspaper for more information.Driver Ed supposedly lets you take it during the school year or during the summer.Just check around your neighborhood and ask about it to other people.You should find out soon ;)

Happy driving!
~Kelleigh

Q: I have a real problem. Their are like ten boys that like me, and want to go out with me, and their all really nice. Idk what to do. Which one should i go out with?? I REALLY need help!!!!

Well dear,The only logical explanation is which one do you like?If you don't like any of them tell them.They'll get over it.

But don't go around and date them all.They might catch on and find jelousy and cause problems.

If you don't like any of them the same way.Tell them you just want to be friends.It will hurt them but if they agree to still be your friend then it would be better.

If all else fails ask you friends for help.Or an adult that has been through the same/simlar problem

Hope it all works out :)
~Kelleigh

Q: I have about 1 month until school starts. I want to loose some weight, about 7 pounds. Is this possible? If so, how do I get motivated? I don't eat much, but I can't get myself to exercise. I mean, I get exercise when I do stuff with friends, but otherwise, I can't get motivated to do it myself. Don't tell me to ecercise with my friends. What are some tips on loosing weight? What exercises should I do? I basically want to tone up my stomach, that's the main goal. Please don't tell me anything super strict. Thanks.

All I would do is a little jog.maybe a block or two =/ Go as far as you can and walk the way back.Stick to fruits and vegetables if you get hungry instead of chips and junk food.

If your not a runner you can get some fun into it!Play a game of DDR or do some yoga.Or you can gather some friends and play a game of soccer or tag.Just spruce it up a bit.

And remember to stretch!
~Kelleigh

Q: ok so i wanna lose some weight. im not really fat or anything. im not even fat. but i got some extra meat on the stomach i wanna lose. and i was wonderign if anyone knew a good eating scheuld. like 6 small meals a day ( w. examples) or just eat 3 main meals a day.. something like that. i already have the workout part down becuase i play alotta sports. but .. help and ill be sure to ratee

I would eat the small meals(Maybe not as much as 6 though).If you ever get hungry you should eat some fruits such as apples or bananas, or vegetables like carrots or celery.

Keep playing sports.It will keep you healthy.But before you do anything make sure your stable enough to lose weight.If your already an average weight or underweight don't go over it.You don't want to get anymore unhealthier then you could be.

Hope I helped
~Kelleigh

Q: What is the difference between body spray, like secret body spray, and deodorant?

Deoderent is for under the armpits.It's basicly suppose to stop oders when you sweat.Use it before you run or go outsie.Usually makes you sick if you use it after sweating

Body spray is for your whole body.It makes you smell good after you sweat.Goes away quickly to me.

Hope I helped ^-^
~Kelleigh

Q: Is it true if you add celery or aspargus to your diet, you will loose weight? They say it does because it takes more calories to digest the celery than to eat it. Only answer if you know for sure, please.

Well know,If you eat any vegetables and fruits it help you lose weight.Celery and asparagus are good to eat and don't have as much calories as chips would and taste just as good.

Happy eating ^-^
~Kelleigh

Q: I am trying to train up for the cheerleading squad... How can I do that? Running around the neighborhood is not a good option right now, but in the house we do have some free weights and rubber bands. I just want to be stronger and more ready for the practices. Can anyone help me?

Ok.I had to go through this to.

Start by stretching.You don't want to pull a muscle and be out of the season ;)
I would do some crunches,jumpingjacks,push ups and a small jog.You can also make the T,baby t,high V,low V drill.Hold it to keep your arms tight.
Then you can practice your kicks.Keep your back straight and tuck your hands behind her back.Start with low kicks,medium kicks and high kicks.Then sit down and do some leg lefts.Do about 20 on each leg without touching the ground.
Then you can work on making mini reutins to get your counts ready.
Work on your spins,hirkeys,toe touches etc etc At the end
Hope you do well :D
~Kelleigh
Edit:As asked...Here is everything you can do to get ready for cheerleading.

http://cheerleading.about.com/

That should help you alot.Don't get upset if you can't get it right.Practice.I couldn't do my toe touch the first time but I got better.You will too :) And be sure to read all the topics.They will be helpful.And asking your couch after practice will give you more information

Q: My boyfriend and i would like to do something. We never know what we should do and we just want to have fun. what are some ideas of things that we can do, he hurt his hip so we can't walk and can't use his right arm cuz he hurt it. Please help us out.....
NO SEX!!!!!!
(or nudity for that matter)

Spend more time with him ^-^ Make him something to eat and help him out.Maybe sit down and watch TV/movies he likes and listen to some music he likes.You can play a board game he would like.Don't treat him to much like he can't do anything.You might regret it later.

Much luff
~Kelleigh

Q: i've been training for cross country for my school and one day ill be able to run like 3 miles with no problem and then the next day i wont even get half a mile before cramping like mad which then i have to stop. like today. i had to quit running and totally sit so i would feel better. i cramp in my sides. both. any ideas on what to do to stop me from cramping. would it help if i didnt eat before i ran?

I get cramps alot when I run.I usually stretch and I don't get them as much or as bad.I would also drink alot of fluids and stay away from soda and anything fatty(EX:Chips,icecream,etc)and stick to fruits and healthy foods.A small bowl of cerel (Such as weaties) is good if your hungry.I wouldn't eat right before your run.Eat a good hour before.Make sure that your water is cold.Warm water slows you down.

Best of luck ;)

~Kelleigh

Q: lately i have not been able to sleep and i have been waking up in the middle of the night..it never happens to me...my mom said it could be becasue i am worried a about somethine...but i told her i wasn't...the truth is i am...my dad past away when i was 13...ever since i have been very afraid to get close to anyone...and it been 3 years...aroudn christmas time i meet a guy named christian he is a few years younger than me..(14)...and he is my best friend..we tell each other everything...he keeps talking about how when he turns 16 he is running away...and he said i could come with...but i told him i would not go..iw ant to finish high school and go to college!!!!! i am afraid i am going to lose him..i think that si why i can't sleep at night!!!what should i do..please help!

If you want him to be the person you love go with him.But the only way to fufill finishing highschool and college is to stay with your mother.Just think if you ran away who would she be with?

And you can meet plenty of guys when you grow older.Loseing one isn't gonna kill you

~Kelleigh

Q: okay so im in drivers ed and im 16. there is another girl in there who is 14. she always starts talking to me randomly and she asked for my number so we could go to the beach today. i didnt want to, but i gave it to her, because what am i suposed to do, say no? so she called 5 times and left a message and i never picked up. now im freaked out she thinks were like, best friends. i dont even want to hang out with her! what should i do?

I would hang out with her a bit.See how she really acts like.If she doesn't change then get straight to the point.If you feel bad for her gather some kids her own age and see if they would like to hangout with her.But don't go yelling at her.It would upset her

~Kelleigh

Q: Okay this is really embarassing....I went to the movies with my boyfriend last night and we decided to see Nacho Libre...well halfway through the movie I had drank a large soda and I really needed to go ut I didnt want to miss the movie. So then this really funny part happened and I laughed until I peed my pants...I was SO embarrassed and I couldnt get up because I was afraid he would notice to when we went to leave the movie I just rapped my jacket around my waist. On the car ride home he put his hand on my thigh and squeezed...I was so happy! I've never really be touched by a guy (I know I'm a weirdo) and I'm really excited and like a a crazzed fan touched by their hero I'm not sure if I want to wash the pants. I know its gross...but would it be too weird to not wash them and keep them for sentimental value? I wanted to ask my friends but I was WAY to embarrassed to ask people I know. Oh my gosh pleaase help!

Wash them.If he's a good boyfriend he should touch you again.If he doesn't then he's not worth it

~Kelleigh

Q: I'm 16, female, 4 feet 5 inches, 157 Ibs...am I fat? Be honest...

To be honest =/ I'm the same height as you and weigh 68 pounds.But for your age it is different to a 13 year old.I would say, find out an average weight for your age and hieght and see how much you need to gain/lose to be around that area.If you don't feel fine with yourself after you do that.Join a sport or run around.It will keep you off from the computer/Tv.Or you can try yoga/palates.And playing the game DDR is just as good as running or jumping rope.

~Kelleigh

bio

Ok,HI!My name is Kelli and I'm 13.Kelleigh is my nickname from my friend Meg.I like softball,track,IMing,myspace,forums,and pictures.I have many friends and always looking for more ^-^ I'm not a goody-goody type of girl so you watch out.I like to help people and go on the computer.So if you need anything you know were to find me.