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she thinks we're BFF
okay so im in drivers ed and im 16. there is another girl in there who is 14. she always starts talking to me randomly and she asked for my number so we could go to the beach today. i didnt want to, but i gave it to her, because what am i suposed to do, say no? so she called 5 times and left a message and i never picked up. now im freaked out she thinks were like, best friends. i dont even want to hang out with her! what should i do?
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I know how you feel - at school there was this girl that most people thought was really annoying. She thought me & this other girl were her best friends and would be like, "you guys are my best friends!" anyway, i used to find her annoying, but i gave her a chance and now i actually like her :) hahah, i still find her annoying at times, but sometimes you should just give people a chance. this girl in your driver's ed class seems a lot more annoying than the one im talking about, though. you have your own life, your own friends, your own stuff to do. you could talk to her and say, "i think your nice and all, but i'm busy with other people alot and i think it'd be hard for us to hang out. it's cool seeing you in driver's ed though." or something like that so it won't hurt her feelings, but she'll get the hint - hopefully!
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I would hang out with her a bit.See how she really acts like.If she doesn't change then get straight to the point.If you feel bad for her gather some kids her own age and see if they would like to hangout with her.But don't go yelling at her.It would upset her
~Kelleigh
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hey! maybe you should try hanging out with her, she could be a really nice, funny, awesome girl. And if she's not, then tell her that you guys are only friends and she shouldn't call so much. You did infact give her your number, so you did kind of lead her on. You could have said "no my mom doens't like when i give my number out" or something. You could just tell her, if you don't mind being mean or looking mean, tell her that you don't want to be friends with her because she is annoying. One day when she gets really annoying be like OMG YOU'RE SO ANNOYING. and walk away. she'd get the point. Or just sit down and talk to her about how she could be less annoying and tell her that she may have a chance to be friends with you. Communication is the most important thing in this problem.
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you can try to talk to her and tell her you are my friend, but I am always busy and i dont have time to hang out with you. Dont be too mean, or she'll be upset. Tell her in a nice way ((even if you dont like her)) and just tell her you want to be friends. Even if you dont want to be friends with her, tell her that because she will understand and wont always be around you.
I hope I helped and all goes well!
-volleyball2150
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