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i need help
lately i have not been able to sleep and i have been waking up in the middle of the night..it never happens to me...my mom said it could be becasue i am worried a about somethine...but i told her i wasn't...the truth is i am...my dad past away when i was 13...ever since i have been very afraid to get close to anyone...and it been 3 years...aroudn christmas time i meet a guy named christian he is a few years younger than me..(14)...and he is my best friend..we tell each other everything...he keeps talking about how when he turns 16 he is running away...and he said i could come with...but i told him i would not go..iw ant to finish high school and go to college!!!!! i am afraid i am going to lose him..i think that si why i can't sleep at night!!!what should i do..please help!
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wow babe that sucks im sorry you even have to be in that situation.
i think you firstly should talk to christian about this whole thing and see where he is in a year or so to see if he's still on the same page. you should also think about mayvbe seeing a counsler or a therapist or something and asking their advice because even though you asked it on this website we can only do so much, and we're not actually apart ofyour life to help you cope with it.
i hope you can figure things out, and it hink the only way youcan really do that is to talk to someone. good luck! and if you have any other questions leave one in my inbox
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If your friend is a real friend..he wont forget about you. He is only 14 so he still has 2 years..and who knows he might not follow through. dont live life scared. enjoy being friends with him and when the time comes and hes 16 and still wants to run away..you two will have become so close there is no way you would lose him. He would either keep in touch or not even run away because a lot of kids say they want to run away but never do. The best advice i can give you is to live your life with an open mind and dont be scared! if you let yourself get scared of losing someone, you will miss out on so much!
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have a talk with christian and talk about this. tell him what you think about it and that you're afraid to lose him, but don't sound too desperate. thinking too much can cause one to be unable to sleep at night, so if you can get everything out in the open and get some answers to those questions of yours, you should be getting some sleep and some answers. stay strong girl! best of wishes to you! (:
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If you want him to be the person you love go with him.But the only way to fufill finishing highschool and college is to stay with your mother.Just think if you ran away who would she be with?
And you can meet plenty of guys when you grow older.Loseing one isn't gonna kill you
~Kelleigh
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