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Not girlfriend material?
I'm a pretty girl, I'm not trying to be cocky but I'm proud of my looks. When I'm out hott guys check me out, wink, smile, or wave at me all the time. However, the only boyfriends I can get are losers. What do I do?
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Hey,
I have two suggestions that i would like to tell you about . First of all, you could go over to one of these hot guys who check you out, and start a conversatoin and hang out with him, and maybe then he'd ask you out. And you would have a boyfreind which is hot an not a loser.
Other than that,you could try to care more about your personality,then your looks, because the respectable guys and mabye even some of the hot ones, usually care about the personality then the looks, because maybe they would think that you are too proud of how you look or that you go showing off your body and your hot looks. so why don't you try to show the amazing hot peronality more than you show the hot looks which you own, maybe that would attract more good-not-loser-guys to you.
Try to consider my suggestion, and if it doesn't help or if it upsets you, then please be free to contact me whenever you want.But i just want to tell you that i know whats the right thing to be done in this situation, because i have been in it before, so thats why i want you to listen to me because thats the truth.
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well for starters maybe you shouldn't go around with an air around yourself that you're hot shit. people can see that. especially guys. act yourself, act natural, and dont look in the mirror every 10 minutes. if you stop caring about what you look like, and concentrate on how you act towards those around you than you'll send out a better vibe and attract more decent guys. then again if you send out that decent vibe and attract a good guy, don't obssess about your looks to him or anything like that or he will think you're stuck up.
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you know looks aren't everything.
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I think that you should keep looking for a guy that you like. There is a "Mr. Right" for everyone. Hope our advice works
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When you look for boyfriends maybe you should become good friends and make sure he is boyfriend material. The hot Guys arent always the best guys to actually have a relationship with because since they are hot they can get any girl they want.
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not saying you do or anything but dont go out with guys because of there looks. date them because of there personality thats what i did and im in a great relationship he isnt the cutest guy but hes sweet, funny, etc good luck
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the only boys you go out with are probably losers because maybe all they wanted is to have a pretty girl or just simply fuck you (I'm sure there are other reasons why their losers). You should try to build a friendship with someone before you start dating them. A friendship is all about honesty trust and fun, once you have a friendship with a guy you'll know the real him. It's nice to have cute guys attracted to you because of your looks but dont let it get to your head because many guys pretend to be a certain way at first and change after a while. So like i said, get to know the guy before you date him. And just because most of all your b/f's were loosers doesnt mean you're not girlfriend material. Simply make sure you're a real girl-friend to him and he's a true boy-friend to you. hope i helped.**
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Well if you really see this.Then talk to one of the boys.See if they are boyfriend material.The 'losers' or so you say could be a choice.If you have some dignity you can talk to them.It will make them happy and you never know,It could mek you happy if you like one.
Just do what your heart tells you and try not to go overboard
Hope it all works out ^-^
~Kelleigh
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(knowing your age would help) Lower your standards and ask a nice guy out. where do you find one of those, you ask? Try the nerds/geeks/losers in your school.
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