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how do you know when a guy really likes you imean because some flirt with me and well its hard  to what there really feeling. (link)
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I personally love just plain asking him, "Hey, guy, do you have feelings for me?" If he says yes, well, If you like him too tell him so, if not, don't lead him on and make him think you do. But if he says no, just tell him he needs to back off more because he is sending the wrong messages. If you don't want to ask him, ask his friends if he does, or cash in on that favor a friend owes you and get them to ask him is he likes you. Or give me his number and I'll ask him. (Just kidding) hope these techniques work for you.
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I really miss my ex boyfriend and he has a new girlfriend.. but lately he's been talking to me like he used to and it's making me confused. What should I say to him, should I tell him I miss him and I still love him and would do anything to be with him again? If not, what should I do? It's killing me to just let the days go by without him.. I feel like there's an empty space in me. 
 
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if you have an empty space in you it needs to be filled! so talk to him and tell him how you feel! if he still talks to you the way he used to, then he probably still likes you too. tell him that you miss him and you still like him and ask him if he still likes you too. xoxo hope i helped!
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is it wrong to have a crush on someone younger by 2 year 
i female 13 
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Normally, it really isn't an issue, but the fact that you are both really young, might be an issue. When two people are both under 14, that two years age differance can really be an issue. It's not really wrong to have a crush on him, but I do suggest you don't act on it. Maybe wait a few years?
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ok so i go on holiday on the 25th of july. i am skinny but i want to lose weight on the top part of my legs. can any one help me? will i have to change my diet? 
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You should probably lay off foods high and fat and sugar. Drink green tea everyday (no sugar added!) and If you have a treadmill, run two miles every other day. That should help. :)
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Ok, so i have a boyfriend, pico and i like him and he likes me but it just seems like hes gettin kinda like too obsessive and i want to break up with him but i don't want to break up with him and i don't know what do do....please help me!  
 
 
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- he's "flirted" wit my friend but it was just a joke (as he says) 
- tons of other girls have asked him out but hes said no becuz he loves me sooo much 
- he says that i'm the best thing a guy can have (link)
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aww it sounds like he's really sweet! don't brake up with him yet. try talking to him first about what bothers you that he does. if he really likes you that much then he'll understand and he won't get mad at you. just tell him nicely though.if it's just too much that you can't stand it and he won't listen to you when you try and talk to him, maybe you should brake up with him, but otherwise, wait and see what happens.
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I don't usually cut myself, but something really bad happened, and I did it again. I know it's wrong, but I was going through a rough time, and I don't plan on doing it again, but anyways, I have to attend a pool party, but how do I cover up the marks, from my wrist up to high up the arm. theres a few of them. please help me cover them up. I don't wanna hear you should tell someone, because I go to a therepist. PLEASE HELP ME. rating high. 
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first, you should put some neosporin on it so that it doesn't leave any scars. after you do that maybe like put some cover up on it or something. make sure the cover up is water proof though, because if it's not it'll just wash off in the pool. if there aren't too many cuts you can also put some bandades on it and tel everyone that you're cat scratched you or something. if you don't have a pet then just say you were rollerblading and you fell and the concrete scratched you up. good luck!
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My girlfriend is a quite beautiful girl. And I know she knows she's beautiful. She's also pretty damn confident. But, for some reason it seems like she's insecure around me. Every time we're intimate and I try to slid my hand down her stomach she sucks it in. I guess she doesn't think I notice but, I do. She has a fine, flat tummy so why she feels the need to suck it in is beyond me. I also don't understand if I did anything to make her feel insecure. I tell her that I think she's beautiful every chance I get. I don't know what to do here. (link)
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it's probably not you that made her feel insecure. she probably just feels a little nervous when you do that. it's not that she doesn't like you doing that or anything though. 
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does anyone know of any exercises that strengthen your arms so you can surve over hand with alot more power (besides push-ups) thanks alot! (link)
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what i do is i lift 10 pounds a day 150 times. it works! it's not gona help that quickly but in like a month or something you get a lot stronger! you should try it, it really works!
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I really love to sing and my friends think i'm really good at it....but i refuse to sign in front of crowds or even my parents....wat could i do 2 get rid of my stage fright? (link)
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here's what i would do. i would start by singing in front of just like your parents or friends or something. then once you get used to that go on and sing in front of a little more people...etc... the more you get used to it the easier it is and the more people you can start singing in front of. hope i helped!xoxo
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my friend was talking to my boyfriend on the phone the other dya and she asked him if he would ever go out with my other friend and he said yes. i was like ok no big deal. then he was talkin to me on aim today and he asked if my friend (the one he was asked about) was going out with anyone. i was like yeah i think so...then he said because his friend liked her. he said his friends name was billy bob smith (changed the name) then i looked him up in the year book and in the school phone directory...as far as i know there is no billy bob smith. what should i think about this? (link)
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you should talk to him about this. tell him that you know about how he said he would go out with your other friend. also tell him that you looked up that billy bob smith guy in the yearbook but he wasn't there. just talk to him and keep asking him stuff so that you know for sure if he likes her or not. hope i helped! 
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Yestersday I was walking into a classroom and this boy walks up and pops my bra strap then walks away real fast. What the heck?? He's a loser so I would never like him. Then later on this girl asked him "whos hotter me or Jordan (this other girl" Then he goes "Lets just say that (me) is the hottest" Whats going on??? (link)
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what the heck?! he obviously likes you or he's just a freak! next time he does it tell him to stop. hope he listens to you!
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hey whats i need help.... see i like this girl and all but when i asked her out she said yea sure but then i felt uncomfurtable with her i dont no why..so i broke up with her like 2 wekks after i asked her out. so then i liked her again i dont know why but i did then she said yea  and i still felt weird with her... so do any of you guys/or girls have any tips for me to stay with that girl instead of just playing around with her (link)
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this exact thing happened to me. maybe you should get to know her a little more and get more comfortable with her before you ask her out again. then once you feel more comfortable with her and get to know her a little better, ask her out again. if you still don't feel too comfortable with her, then brake up with her. maybe she just isn't right for you. when this happened to me, i just go to know him a little better and then went out with him and it was fine. hope you start feeling more comfortable around her!
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What does emo mean?  I am really confused...Everyone says i look emo in all my pics but i dont even know what emo is...can someone explain it to me? (link)
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i'm pretty sure emo means emotional. they probably mean that you look emotional in your pictures or something
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what do you get if you mix a apple with snapple 
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what the heck is snapple??
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i like this guy i like him a lot but so does everybody else.he says he doesnt want a girlfriend b/c of all the sports he is doing((basketball,baseball,football)) 
but when he is ready he might not pick me i know its stupid but im realy confused also is there any way to get his attention (link)
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just flirt with him A LOT! be really nice to him and talk to him whenever you get the chance. also, make eye contact with him whenever you can, so he knows that you like him. when he's ready, he's probably going to want to pick the      that likes him too, so make sure he knows that you like him! hope it works out!
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I'm 16 F and I've never had a boyfriend. I know some of you might say, "Don't worry! When the time comes, it comes.." The problem is that I hang out with a bunch of preps..and all my friends have already had boyfriends..:-( I'm the only one out of that group that's never had a close relationship with guys! It's kinda sad..if you ask me! The question is..how can I get guys to notice me..what can i do to make myself look prettier (I'm pretty ugly compared to the other girls)..How can I start convos with guys..it's already hard enough to talk to girls! Thanks (link)
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try doing different things with your hair. just let it down, don't put it up in a ponytail or anything. most guys like     s' hair down more than when it's up. just let it down and grow it long and brush it and put a lot of conditioner in your hair.that way it looks really smooth and soft. also try putting on some makeup or something. put on lipgloss and blue or black eyeliner with light blue eyeshadow.
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My friend lies a lot! I can't stand it! And it's not the little stuff either! She would tell you she's dieing and then let you believe that for like 5 months! And then she'd lie to cover it up. It drives all of her friends crazy! And when I talk to her about it, she just yells at me! How could I talk to her without her yelling at me? (link)
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maybe you should get like all of the people that      her lying too into like a group and then talk to her. that way she'll know that it's not just you that's concerned about her, that it's a lot of other people too! tell her that if she keeps lying like this, one day she's going to get into a LOT of trouble! but tell her nicely so she doesn't get even more mad. tell her that you're just telling her all of this as a friend, because you're trying to help her and you don't want her to get in trouble. if she starts yelling again then tell her nicely that she's taking it the wrong way. hope it works out!
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ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?  
 
 
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just be really nice to people. find a best friend that's always there for you, and that has a lot of classes with you at school. don't worry, she'll help you get through it. don't listen to what other people say about you, especially if you know what they're saying isn't true. your best friend will always be there for you, so that you can get through it! hope i helped!
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What do you do when you lost something you cherished so much? And you know you'll never get it back again? And it can't be replaced? How do you get over losing something that important? (link)
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it'll take some time...but you'll get over it soon if you just tell yourself that it's gone and that you just have to get over it. find something else that you can cherish. even if it's not as good as the other thing, at least it's something. just keep hangin on and you'll find something even better! hope i helped!
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i think i need help because like i have cut myself before and i had stopped for a while too.. and then something happend today that just like makes me want to do it again becuase me and this kid got into a huge fight.. how can i not do it anymore what are some other good ways to take anger out...  (link)
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to take your anger out there's a lot of things you can do, just make sure you never cut yourself again. you can scream as loud as you can, you can punch your bed or your pillow, you can squeeze something as hard as you can, or you can just sleep or take a shower, which also relieves frustration. hope some of these work!
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