my friend was talking to my boyfriend on the phone the other dya and she asked him if he would ever go out with my other friend and he said yes. i was like ok no big deal. then he was talkin to me on aim today and he asked if my friend (the one he was asked about) was going out with anyone. i was like yeah i think so...then he said because his friend liked her. he said his friends name was billy bob smith (changed the name) then i looked him up in the year book and in the school phone directory...as far as i know there is no billy bob smith. what should i think about this?
orphans answered Thursday May 26 2005, 1:02 pm: you should talk to him about this. tell him that you know about how he said he would go out with your other friend. also tell him that you looked up that billy bob smith guy in the yearbook but he wasn't there. just talk to him and keep asking him stuff so that you know for sure if he likes her or not. hope i helped! [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
zapreth answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 6:00 pm: He is still interested in you, but this relationship is almost over in my opinion. He has found an interest in this other girl. This is not by itself such a big deal, and not what I base my opinion on. What disturbs me is his willingness to ask you questions about her and lie to you. That is enough for me to start rethinking my feelings about this guy. I do believe in trust and having faith in your man, but there is no reason for you to be stupid. Give him the benifit of the doubt since there is no actual proof against him [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
shake answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 5:53 pm: He wants to go out with her. He made up the name.
XoUkrainianBabeXo answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 5:29 pm: You can't jump to conclusions. Most likely it is himself that he was talking about, but the kid may not go to your school and his # may be unlisted in the phonebook. Maybe tell him that you want to meet this friend of his or your friend wants to meet Billy bob (love the choice of name). Good luck [ XoUkrainianBabeXo's advice column | Ask XoUkrainianBabeXo A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 5:12 pm: Unfortunately I think he was asking because he is interested in her. Maybe not to date it could be he is just curious because he was asked about her. I think you need to have a conversation with him though and inform him that you do know he was asked about your other friend and you know what his response was. Then I'd tell him you know there is no billy bob smith. Don't let him think he is getting away with anything! You really need to know where you stand in this relationship. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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