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i am in love with him but.......
okay here is the thing i am completeley in love with a close family friend he is my age and io love him but i am not skinny and i am ugly and he doesnt know i like him i really want to tell him but i chicken out all the time. my friend told me to do what your heart tells you to do but sometimes that is hard, becasue i want to tell him but if he doesnt like me things could get very weird, his sibling told me to tell him but i am very nervous becasue i have never felt this way before about anyone i mean all i want to do i ssee him and spend time wiht him even though he told me i am annoying and an unbenifical part of his life and he tells me he hates me all the time but i just want to get it out adn tell him i mean i am usually not nervous when telling guys i like them but ughh he so so amazing and i care for him a lot and i just want to be loved. I NEED ADVICE ASAP AND I NEED TO KNOW HOW I CAN MAKE MYSELF MORE ATTRACTIVE AND LOVABLE AND IF I SHOULD TELL HIM OR NOT HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i am close to becoming overweight but i just act myself and wear lossfitting close. no baggy jut loss. that makes you appear lighter weight. no one is never loved! there are tons of people that love you.if he tells you he hates you just talk to him and not try and get in his life.you sound like a wonderful girl and you just be yourself.
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If you feel this nervous telling him yourself, don't. Have his sibling drop a hint saying "Yeah, [Your name] has been acting strange around you. I think she likes you" and get his reaction that way. Or leave a note, or maybe tell him over the phone. Good luck.
~*Tiffany*~
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1. Never change your self for anyone EVER!
2. If you don't smell, and brush your hair you look fine and really don't need much else.
3. If you act like your self you are already great and just show him how you feel.
4. This kid doesn't seem to be worth your time. He’s mean and won't treat you right.
5. If you want to tell him anyway. Just go up to him and tell him or, a) have a friend tell him b) Have his sibling tell him c) write a note D) instant message or anything else internet.
Good luck
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He tells you he hates you and you want to tell him that you love him? You are just asking for a broken heart, and to be abused and demeaned by him. Here is what I suggest. Well first I think you are both too young, and I know that you will find love one day, but not soon enough I am sure, but this advice will work for you later in life also.
What you would call fat and ugly girls get married all the time. If you look in the wedding announcement part of the daily newspaper, look at the picturs, you will see that women who are not exactly skinny, do find love. The best thing you can do is work on your personality. Become smart, become interesting, become alluring. Become hard to get. Hard to figure out, and hard to find. But facinating! HOw do you become facinating. You have to work on the inside, on your heart and your brain. At your age, LOOKS are everything, and I guess that is the way it is supposed to be. But inthe grown up world, (and you will be there some day) it is character, brains, sincererity, and values that count. Men soon get sick of "pretty" or beautiful" girls who just want to get their nails done and go shopping (spend their money) They know the person they marry has to be willing to raise kids, change diapers, wipe runny noses, do laundry, cook, clean up after hiim and the kids, etc, etc, etc. So work on becoming a facinating and intelligent young lady, and you will find that when the time is right, the right man will come along. And it if turns out to be this boy, and it may very well be. He is too young to appreciate you for who you are now. He is only looking at the outside. In time that will change. Please be patient, and don't make a fool of yourself. You'll be glad that you did. Time goes slowly but you can't stop it. You will be loved one day, by someone wonderful. I know it won't happen soon enough for you but it will happen. Stay out of trouble, and don't get yourself a reputation. You will look back on this advice some day, and be glad that you took it Good luck to you dear.
Michele
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Well i think you should just tell him or the trick that works for me is have a friend or someone that knows him tell him....GOOD LUCK!
~StEfF
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