Okay well you see I like this guy. Lets call him D. And everyone says he likes me. But this weekend I'm suppose to go over to a friends house and be with this other guy who I'm just friends with. But Taylor, my friend, said that the guy I'm going to be with for the night said he'll go as far as I let him. And everyone who's coming wants me to kiss him. But it'd be my first kiss, and I don't want to waste it on someone i don't like. But then if I don't kiss him he might think I'm prude. But I'm not. But I really like the other guy and I only like the other guy as a friend. What should I do? Please someoen get back to me by Saturday!!!
i_define_weird answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 6:44 pm: Don't do something you don't want to do because your friends or this guy friend is pressuring you to do. Don't kiss the guy if you don't like him. your first kiss should be special, and you should give your first kiss to the guy you like. and you're right, you shouldn't waste it on someone you don't like. and if your guy friend thinks you're prude, then tell him you don't want to kiss him because you really like some other guy. if he doesn't understand you and keeps saying you're prude. screw it, he's not a good friend. good luck && hope i helped. [ i_define_weird's advice column | Ask i_define_weird A Question ]
h0llisterBebe021 answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 6:41 pm: Dear Boy Troubles,
I think that you should ask 'D' out, or have a <i>friend</i> ask him out for you. And on Saturday when you're at Taylor's house I think you should just tell the other boy that "you don't like him that way and you don't want to kiss him because you really like this other guy." and a first kiss really is a big deal. It's one of the best memories ever to be cherished! I mean seriously when you get your first kissed you're going to be flowing with different emotions - some will be good and some of them will make you think if you did it right or not but trust me you seriously can't kiss wrong when it comes to lip kissing. and before you guys kiss then you'll be nervous, excited, scared, and happy all at the same time. But once it's down you'll be so greatful that it happened to you. I hope I helped you!!
-Good luck =) [ h0llisterBebe021's advice column | Ask h0llisterBebe021 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 6:21 pm: You shouldn't *EVER* feel foRced into doing something you'Re uncomfoRtable with; NO ONE has the Right to pRessuRe you into *ANYTHING*!! It's *YOUR* fiRst kiss, theRefoRe, it's *YOUR* decision.. NO ONE ELSES!! A fiRst kiss is actually a big deal; it's moRe than likely going to be something you will RemembeR foR the Rest of youR life, so you shouldn't go thRough with this if you'Re even the least bit unsuRe!! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
cutiepie2005 answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 6:13 pm: I think you should tell the guy you dont like that you dont want to kiss him bc you all ready like someone and it wouldnt be right! if he doesnt understand thenjust forget about it! the first kiss is supposed to be special! hope i helped! [ cutiepie2005's advice column | Ask cutiepie2005 A Question ]
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