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help me porfavor !!!!!!
ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?
i rate high so please help
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lay off the tank tops and low cut shirts with holes for a while, then slowly ease back into your old style. Oh and lay off flirting and just b nice and laid back, also ease off the gossip, and don't call tother poeople sluts of hoes either, best of luck,
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ok. well this is easy. you should dress like a little girl. ya know turtle necks and long pants. dont go to dances. dont do this forever just do this for a few weeks.then go back to the old you.
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just be really nice to people. find a best friend that's always there for you, and that has a lot of classes with you at school. don't worry, she'll help you get through it. don't listen to what other people say about you, especially if you know what they're saying isn't true. your best friend will always be there for you, so that you can get through it! hope i helped!
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stop being such a whore!
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I no just how it feels. Im like a huge one at my school sept i dont get called a skank. Im not any of them either. I found out its the poeple you hang with mostly. But none of my friends are called one. Ikd its really hard to make that go away. All my exs made me look like one to. Maybe if you dating alot of boys dont date as much or pick the good ones. If a boy calls me a slut or whatever and says i fucked someone last night i always say no hun i only fuck on the weekends . Maybe thats why they still call me a slut idk i hope i gave you something to think about but i really truely dont no how to get that to go away to loose them names cause ive had them for three years no probley longer.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Hunni dont worry everyone thats really pretty just gets called a slut hor hoe ect.. your just prettier than everyone else and there jeslous. Because you can get an guy you want but if you still really want to change your image then try to cover up more with clothes thats the best thing i can think of
Good Luck
Sarah
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find out what is making people think that and change it. if people think that because you are really cool with guys and you have more guy friends then girls then start hangin out with alot more girls then guys. just whatever is making people think that....do the opposite! let me know if you need anything else girl!
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Thats what people think of me too.But the best way to erase that is to not care. they see i don't care anymore so they stop(well most of them). But if someone calls you a slut, or a hoe, don't get mad just say calmy "i'm not a hoe, nor am i a slut. i don't call you that so you shouldn't call me that". when they see it doesn't phase you. you'll see the rumers ride out.
And i really don't know you so i can't just be like "change the way you dress". And the image of a hoe is not how she dresses but how she acts and what she's done (sexually of course).
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1. Dont Dress all showwy and all close up those areas, And no tight clothes
2. dont flirt w/ guys for about a week.. if you dont wanna be one dont do it..
3. watch wat you say no swears nasty word so on..
4. watch who you hang out w/ pick friends who dont talk about you
5. no drinking.. makes you unstable
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You know what... I'm POSITIVE that eveRyone who is talking shit is in *NOOOOOO* position to Ridicule YOU!! Tell them that when they fix THEIR flaws.. you'll pay attention to THEIR suggestions!! And who caRes what they think!?! I undeRstand it MAY get annoying, but the only opinion that should matteR is that of youR family and fRiends!! If *YOU* aRe happie with the way *YOU* aRe, then TO HELL with eveRyone else!! It's *YOUR* body.. theRefoRe *YOUR* choice!! Do whateveR makes *YOU* happie!! HoweveR, I STRONGLY encouRage you to be wise about this, and use pRotection -- they make it foR a Reason. Hope this helps!! =D
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Well.. thats simple.. dress more conservative, dont "do stuff" with multiple guys, and dont talk or act like a "'slut, hoe, whore, or skank'"
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It is most likely the way you dress or something they take things... tell them that your not... and that you want them to stop... they need to not judge you by what you did in the past or how you dress... try to avoid those people! they are just trying to make yoru life myserable... they are prob. just saying that to hurt your feels, get you mad... or both! so let them know how you feel... etc. hope i helped!!! and good luck!
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Well, depends on what you did. Or how you dress. We're very judgmental these days.
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You shouldn't care so much what people say about you. If you know it's not true... then that's all there is to it.
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