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ok tihs may sound stupid but what is an orgasim (link)
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The definition.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/Orgasm
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i'm only a freshman, but i'm really serious about cheer, and i know it's something that i want do for a long time. even completive college levels
i'm already taking private lessons, but i need do to more
i'm not as flexible as i would like to be
are there any ways to become more flexible than just stretching?
and also, i'm 5'4'' and 125 pounds and i REALLY want to loose some weight and tone my stomach
any help on that?
thank you SO much
(and i'm working out three days a week) (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.wikihow.com/Become-Flexible
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1608/is_6_19/ai_102140901
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Yeah but I went to call him back it said unknown number and I haven't talked to him in 2 days (link)
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I'm assuming your the person who wrote the question about your boyfriend telling you not to call him back, because it was "his friend's number." If you're not, please forgive me. If you are, since it says "Unknown Number," there isn't a way to find out who it is. I think you should go to his house, or call his house number and talk to him about this. Obviously, something isn't right here and it needs to be discussed.
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What are different ways to wear Ugg boots. (link)
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My personal favorites.
*Over Jeans
*Under Jeans
Other people's favorites.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/malingering/sets/72057594048477009/
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(1st girl)
Ok ive liked this girl since the first time i saw her three months ago, and not once did i go to talk to her every now and then i saw her starring at me but we never talk,we knew who we each were but never talked, i finaly gave up and decided to move on, (if you could help me with any ideas i apreciated)
(2nd Girl)
well shortly after i invited somegirl to the movies i was going to ak her out but something happend on that day that stoped me,its i kinda like her and well most of the times i see her as a freind but she realy likes me,(also my freind also likes her so it also stops me from asking her out,) If you got any ideas with this one help me out.
(3rd girl)
She is the oneconvinced me not to go to ask the 2nd girl out, she i kinda think she likes me since i am very quiet in the class she is always coming to talk to me and yesterday ,me and her talked the longest, then she wanted me to walk her home i did for the most part but it kinda made me tink she likes me, or was that just me thinking that, IF you can help help me please!!!
(Also i liked the first girl the most the second two im kinda confuse about my feelings for them there)
I donw know what to do if you can help please help me. (link)
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Definitely go for #1, don't get discouraged because things didn't work out the first time. The thing you need to do is to become comfortable with one another, that way you'll be able to talk and hang out without feeling awkward, etc.
I looked up this link for you.
http://searchwarp.com/swa45156.htm
Also, this may help you too. The second question to be specific, and the tips on question 1 you could really apply to your situation. The only difference is that I was talking about a girl talking to a guy, and you can just turn it around. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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should i just shave off all my hair and wear a wig? im sick of my silky, limp, volume-less asian hair! (link)
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Absolutely not, I mean, if that's really what you want to do, by all means go ahead and do it. But for only the sake of having "silky, limp, volumeless" hair, simply -- no. This can totally be fixed by products. I recommend John Frieda's Frizzease, they have wonderful products. If you want specifics, send me an inbox question and I'll be happy to help. =)
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Well I just got my first period on November 1st, and then it was brown. So I knew it was my period, then later, I put in a pantiliner in case, then it was probably covered like umm. Half of it? In like light redishh. So I then put in a pad, and like nothing came out, it was like 2 spots. At night, I also put in a pad, and then there was like nothing. When I was at school, only like a bit, dried blood. That was like the second day. So then on the third day, i probably thought it might be more regular but no... When i use a pad, nothing comes out. When i use a pantiliner, then there is like blood. But not a lot. Now like today, i used a pad and same problem. NOTHING! and then pantiliner, then yes. Whats wrong? Will it get more normal the next time i get my period? oh yeah, and im 13/f. And im Canadian if that helps? (link)
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This is because it's your first period, and when you're starting out -- your period is irregular, and can be for many years after that. I've been on mine for about four years now and I'm still not regulated. And that's perfectly normal. So please don't worry yourself to death, everything is okay and normal.
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Hey guys
I went to planned parenthood the other day and they told me i should be taking my pills for about a week until they work. Does this mean it's okay to be taking the pills for 2 weeks (or a little more) and to have sex? I won't get pregnant right? well of course with birth control theres always a risk but i mean, the pills will be working by then right?
thanks (link)
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Keep in mind I've never used birth control, however, I do know that most of them require a month before having sex. But since yours is a week, then I think you should wait the full week without having sex. If they tell you to wait a week, there's probably a good reason for that. So in my opinion, I wouldn't recommend doing it.
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Me and my bff Sami are so close and I want us to find someone that is perf. for us to create kind of like a clique,but not really really mean or anything. If you've heard of the book The Clique Series by Lisi Harrison that'd help cuz I want it to be like that! (link)
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I'm not much on cliques, I like being popular by being friends with everyone. But I think I can still help you try to form a clique. Follow these steps...
*Always be nice to everyone you meet, you never know who's going to be your next best friend or your worst enemy. This covers both bases.
*Join extracurricular activities that you enjoy, this will allow you to make new/more friends (a.k.a possible additions to your clique).
Both of these steps should help you in finding a clique. Good luck!
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who sings the male voice on the keyshia cole song superstar??? (link)
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Yes, thelaura is correct -- Metro City. =)
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ok, i have a bf. but he never tlks 2 me. then this other guy came... i guess i fell in luv with him. and i luv him more than my bf!! the new guy always tlks 2 me, flirts with me, and all of that junk, u kno. but my bf doesnt. i dont wanna break up with my bf cause i dont wanna go breaking anyones heart... WHO SHOULD I CHOOSE!?!?!?! pls help me!! (link)
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If your boyfriend never talks to you, he really isn't much of a boyfriend -- at least not the kind of boyfriends I'm used to. So I think no matter what happens, you need to break up with your boyfriend. You deserve better than that. And as far as breaking his heart, I don't really think it will honestly, since you two aren't very close. The other guy you like sounds much better, and I think you should go for him.
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okay so im a freshman and just started high school. ill just start by saying i was pretty weird in like 4,5,6th grade and then made some friends in 7th and 8th grade was a great year. well now i want to make some new good friends, maybe even a new best friend. most people already have their groups established and i dont really know how to get into them. dont get me wrong ive become "friends" with new people but id like to be better friends soid know i would always have something to do on the weekends and you know stuff like that (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.gogirlsonly.org/aboutme/make_new_friends.asp
You can find more info here.
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I usually eat chocolate when i get them but this time I bought some for a present.
The last time I bought soem and didn't have time to eat them, they melted.
Any tips to keep them unmelted for a week and good by 2nd period?
Would sticking them in the fridge be a good idea? (link)
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First off, I recommend keeping them sealed. That way, it's easier to put them in the fridge or the freezer. Either way, it works just fine.
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okay so there is this new guy that i've been talking to lately. i'ev online talked to him online but he's really good friends with one of my friends. we've been talking alot lately, but the first time we talked to get to know eachother better we played truth or dare. now we play it all the time. he has a girlfriend, but sometimes the questions do get a little sexual.
i need some new truths a dares.
think of diffrent ones.
we both have myspaces soo it can be stuff like that has to do with myspace for the dares.
=DDD
thankss.
and dont give me dumb ones like whats your favorite/color/band/food or anythingg like that.
[givee me lotsss.] (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.getdare.com/todarchive/index.php
http://www.tordol.com/index.jsp
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I was on my vampirefreaks profile and went on my boyfriends profile and I looked @ his favorites and he only had one person on it so I looked to see who it was because I thought it was me but when I looked I seen a diffrant girl there I was shocked so I went 2 her profile and she also had him on her faves and it hurt me he says he loves me and everything but I think he's cheating on me because I was talking 2 him on the phone and he told me NOT to call him back with that number its............my....friends number. That's how he said it why did he pause for (link)
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I think something is going on. Though I normally would say not to jump to conclusions, in this case, it's different because he told you not to call him back at that particular number. So something definitely has to be going on, I would talk to him about it, very soon.
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my friend is madly in love with his girlfriend. they both love each other and were planning on getting married when they grew up. they were gonna go to college together, get married, and have a family. however, she went to a party without him and got very drunk. some guy took advantage of her and they hooked up. she apologized to him (my friend), and told him how much she regretted it, and how she would never do it again. should he break up with her? (link)
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I don't think he should break up with her because she was drunk, so she wasn't in her right mind when this happened. It must an unfortunate mistake, and if she's as great as she seems by reading this -- then I don't think she would ever do this intentionally. And if her boyfriend (your friend) doesn't think so either, then he definitely shouldn't break up with her. If I were him, I'd give her another chance.
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My friend saves the most STUPIDEST things EVER on her computer and there's almost no space left!
I have a lot of space though, but I guess it's because I'm not interested in anything and she's interested in a lot of things.
Any tips? (link)
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This should help you out. =)
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how do u make a pimple dissapear the next day...like what can you put on it.
Does proactiv really work?? (link)
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This is my good friend Jack's idea, that really works. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507367
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Apparently red lipstick is the shade this winter. I always follow the make up must-haves but im really stuck on this one. My skin tone is about kelly rowlands or june sarpongs and my lips are full. What shade of red would you recommend?? I live in london by the way...
thanx xxx (link)
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Since you have dark skin, you want to stick with either a dark shade or a medium shade of red. But since I'm no expert on this, I think if you go to this site and click, "Get Color Matched Now," it'll help you out a lot. It will tell you exactly what shades to wear, not only in lipstick, but with other makeup too! =)
http://www.covergirl.com/products/product.jsp?productId=trushine_lipcolor
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what makes paramore a religous band? (link)
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People think they're a Christian band, but they are actually a pop punk band. Though they do claim to be Christians.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paramore
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