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Cant make up my mind about these three girls
(1st girl)
Ok ive liked this girl since the first time i saw her three months ago, and not once did i go to talk to her every now and then i saw her starring at me but we never talk,we knew who we each were but never talked, i finaly gave up and decided to move on, (if you could help me with any ideas i apreciated)
(2nd Girl)
well shortly after i invited somegirl to the movies i was going to ak her out but something happend on that day that stoped me,its i kinda like her and well most of the times i see her as a freind but she realy likes me,(also my freind also likes her so it also stops me from asking her out,) If you got any ideas with this one help me out.
(3rd girl)
She is the oneconvinced me not to go to ask the 2nd girl out, she i kinda think she likes me since i am very quiet in the class she is always coming to talk to me and yesterday ,me and her talked the longest, then she wanted me to walk her home i did for the most part but it kinda made me tink she likes me, or was that just me thinking that, IF you can help help me please!!!
(Also i liked the first girl the most the second two im kinda confuse about my feelings for them there)
I donw know what to do if you can help please help me.
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just go with the first girl think things will be less complicated and will make things a lot eaiser. (haha you sound exactly like this boy from my school)
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Definitely go for #1, don't get discouraged because things didn't work out the first time. The thing you need to do is to become comfortable with one another, that way you'll be able to talk and hang out without feeling awkward, etc.
I looked up this link for you.
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Also, this may help you too. The second question to be specific, and the tips on question 1 you could really apply to your situation. The only difference is that I was talking about a girl talking to a guy, and you can just turn it around. =)
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"Also i liked the first girl the most the second two im kinda confuse about..."
You answered your own question.
Go for the first - you like her more.
Why don't you push yourself and make the effort to talk to her. It's not hard. Start off by smiling at her and saying hi when you see her. Give it a short amount of time and before you know it, the "hi's" will follow onto "how are you's" etc and you'll be having decent conversations before you know it.
Have you and the girl got any internet profiles? Start talking to her on there first if so. It will make it easier to approach her.
Don't worry if not.
and if it doesn't go to plan, at least you know you tried, then move on to plan B - one of the other girls if you're still interested. :)
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I think you should go for the 1st girl, if you like her most. Not to say that you should totally blow off the other two, just actually talk to the first one. If you end up not likeing her, then just be friends. The second girl, until the whole best friend thing blows off, dont make a move. Friendship is WAY more important then relationships that may but mostly may not be THE ONE. The thrid girl, she seems to like you alot. If you like her and the first girl doean't work out, maybe she would be good? It's hard to really judge since we cant put too much detail on our posts but I'd go for the first one. Take things slowly, be sweet, do cute little things that set you out apart from the other guys. Girls LOVE that stuff. Hope I helped! Keep me posted!
~Sam
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