ok my period is being weird on me..im not pregnent or anything...
well anyway if i get my period should i not go to this asmusement park with my friends?i've never worn a tampon before and there will be a pool there..is it hard to get the tampon thing right? shoshould i lie and say i cant go because im sick? we are going to go again in a couple weeks anyway..
any tips on tampons and how they should feel? what are signs that i have to change my tampon? i reeaLLY wanna avoid embarassment.
thanks for all help
You really shouldn't let your period rule your life like that.
Practice using tampons before you go to the amusment park, just so you can get the hang of it and wont be stuck on the day. Using a tampon for the first time can be tricky but after a bit of practice they're fine. Just relax and follow the instructions on or in the box.
If you have a tampon in properly, you wont be able to feel a thing. If it hurts or you can feel it then it's probably a sign that it hasn't been inserted properly. Just take it out, relax and try again with a fresh one. You should change your tampon every four hours or so, although if you are swimming then I advise you put a new one in before and straight afterwards.
Don't worry about leaking as it is very rare. If you have a heavy flow then use a higher aborbancy tampon to make extra sure.
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i reallly need some advise can anyone helpme?
Erm, well yes, this site is about helping people. If you post a question explaining your problem then we would be happy to help.
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what age do you think is appropriate to have sex? 18?
As long as you are over the legal age of consent then it is appropriate to have sex. However, just because you are old enough, don't jump into bed with the first person you see. Wait until you are in a loving relationship, only then will it be really appropriate to have sex.
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Is there any way besides buying the music off ITunes to put on your IPOD (besides off CDs I have?) ? Is there like some kind of card you can buy to use? The thing is, my dad won't let give out his credit card number. Any Suggestions?
I highly reccomend Ares Galaxy. It is a program that allows you to download music for free and as long as you have a virus protection program, it wont harm your computer whatsoever. You wont need any credit cards to use it, you just search for the track you want, click on it and wait for it to download. You should then be able to load the music onto your iPod. To find out more about Ares and to download it, go to http://www.aresgalaxy.org. I have it and haven't had any problems with spyware or viruses, it's quick and easy to use. It's also much safer and better than Kazaa and unlike iTunes and many other downloading programs, it is completely free.
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what does getting your cherry popped mean??
Basically, it means you have lost your virginity.
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theirs a really cool 11 banded spike bracelet that i want. my dad says not to go overboard with bieng punk/gothic. do u think thats going overboard????? i dont think so.
No offence but your dad is being a stereotypical asshole. It isn't possible to go overboard with the punk thing. An 11 banded spike bracelet is not at all over the top. I wear jewellery that is only a few inches away from my elbows on both arms, two studs and one dangly earring in one ear, one stud and one dangly earring in the other and several necklaces. That's on top of a shitload of eye make-up. Never be afraid of going over the top, there really is no such thing.
By the way, where are you getting the bracelet from? I wouldn't mind one.
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Hey ok i just asked a question about how old you should be to wear a thong and most people said about 13 and well im 13 and i wanta ask my mom if we can get some but how should i ask??
Just get her when she's in a good mood and ask her how she would feel about you wearing thongs. If she says it would be okay then ask her if you can get some together. However, don't buy loads to start with because trust me, when you first wear them they take a long time to get used to and you wont be comfortable wearing them every day. Buy two or three to start with then when you get used to them get some more.
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this might be an odd question but when did some of you girls like what age where you when you stared to wear a thong? i know this is wired but i just need to know.
ill rate high if you answer
I was twelve, coming onto thirteen. Most girls who wear them started around that age.
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i always get really bad cramps when i have my period. does anyone know good ways to dull the pain, either home remidies or medication? thanks.
Have a warm bath or shower (preferably a bath) then take some painkillers, paramol is good, and put a hot water bottle on your stomach. If you can't do that then try stretching, it sounds weird but it actually helps. Light excercise has the same effect.
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hymen??? I have no idea what it is. people say u can break it horseback riding or riding a bike??? what's it mean if u break it?
A hymen is a thin piece of skin inside the vagina. When people talk about breaking it, it is pretty self explanitary. It can be broken by doing a lot of sport, using tampons, masturbating and having sex.
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Hi i'm 13 years old and my mom said that I can not use a tampon until I break my hymen or have sex but she said if i have sex she will kick me out of the house and my mom said that i could kill my self if i use a tampon how do you kill yourself with a tampon and do you have to break your hymen to use a tampon cause most of my friends use them.
It is possible for tampons to lead to death due to something called TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome). However, this is very rare so by using a tampon you aren't in any way instantly giving yourself a death sentence. You don't have to break your hymen to use a tampon, a lot of girls break their hymens by using tampons. Your mother is being slightly over cautious here, it is very rare to get TSS as you only really have a risk of getting it if you leave your tampon in for longer than 24 hours. Sports such as running and horse riding can also break the hymen so you might want to try them.
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Hey-lo, I just wanted to let you know that your advice rocks...I checked out your website :)
Um...okay that's all!
Sorry no question...
Artistegirly
Yay! Thank you, it's always nice to get compliments. Anytime you need help, just ask.
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how do you use it and what's better a pencil or liquid...?
I have tried a pencil but the tip is rough and you have to push too hard for it to show up at all so I'm confued.
Thanx!
Artiste
Liquid is good for the top lid but pencil is probably best for the lower one. The pencil you are using is probably just a bad one, I suggest you get one by Rimmel as they are very good. A good eyeliner pencil will just go smoothly along your lid. Just pull your lower lid down slightly so that it is taut and open your eye wide. Take the eyeliner pencil in the hand that you prefer to write with and draw one line from the inner to the outer corner. If you find it hard to do one long line try drawing lots of little lines that build up to one. As for your top lid, liquid eyeliner is probably best. You use it pretty much the same as pencil but it takes a lot of practice to get it right.
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you know those sad short stories...some are long...and sometimes people have them in their profiles? in xangas, myspaces, and i dont know, just a lot of places. are there any websites you can read a lot of them on? i think their fun to read :o) a lot of them are about bf's and gf's and like one of them ends up dieing in a car accident or something. just a lot of sad things, but yeah. thanx!
I happen to have one:
Jenny was so happy about the house they had found. For once in her life 'twas on the right side of town. She unpacked her things with such great ease. As she watched her new curtains blow in the breeze. How wonderful it was to have her own room. School would be starting; she'd have friends over soon. There'd be sleep-overs, and parties; she was so happy It's just the way she wanted her life to be. On the first day of school, everything went great. She made new friends and even got a date! She thought, "I want to be popular and I'm going to be, Because I just got a date with the star of the team!" To be known in this school you had to have clout, And dating this guy would sure help her out. There was only one problem stopping her fate. Her parents had said she was too young to date. "Well I just won't tell them the entire truth. They won't know the difference; what's there to lose?" Jenny asked to stay with her friends that night. Her parents frowned but said, "All right." Excited, she got ready for the big event But as she rushed around like she had no sense, She began to feel guilty about all the lies, But what's a pizza, a party, and a moonlight ride? Well the pizza was good, and the party was great, But the moonlight ride would have to wait. For Dan was half drunk by this time. But he kissed her and said that he was just fine. Then the room filled with smoked and Dan took a puff. Jenny couldn't believe he was smoking that stuff. Now Dan was ready to ride to the point But only after he'd smoked another joint. They jumped in the car for the moonlight ride, Not thinking that he was too drunk to drive. They finally made it to the point at last, And Dan started trying to make a pass. A pass is not what Jenny wanted at all (and by a pass, I don't mean playing football.) "Perhaps my parents were right....maybe I am too young. Boy, how could I ever, ever be so dumb." With all of her might, she pushed Dan away: "Please take me home, I don't want to stay." Dan cranked up the engine and floored the gas. In a matter of seconds they were going too fast. As Dan drove on in a fit of wild anger, Jenny knew that her life was in danger. She begged and pleaded for him to slow down, But he just got faster as they neared the town. "Just let me get home! I'll confess that I lied. I really went out for a moonlight ride." Then all of a sudden, she saw a big flash. "Oh God, Please help us! We're going to crash!" She doesn't remember the force of impact. Just that everything all of a sudden went black. She felt someone remove her from the twisted rubble, And heard, "call an ambulance! These kids are in trouble! Voices she heard...a few words at best. But she knew there were two cars involved in the wreck. Then wondered to herself if Dan was all right, And if the people in the other car was alive. She awoke in the hospital to faces so sad. "You've been in a wreck and it looks pretty bad." These voices echoed inside her head, As they gently told her that Dan was dead. They said "Jenny, we've done all we can do. But it looks as if we'll lose you too." "But the people in the other car!?" Jenny cried. "We're sorry, Jenny, they also died." Jenny prayed, "God, forgive me for what I've done I only wanted to have just one night of fun." "Tell those people's family, I've made their lives dim, And wish I could return their families to them." "Tell Mom and Dad I'm sorry I lied, And that it's my fault so many have died. Oh, nurse, won't you please tell them that for me?" The nurse just stood there-she never agreed. But took Jenny's hand with tears in her eyes. And a few moments later Jenny died. A man asked the nurse, "Why didn't you do your best To bid that girl her one last request?" She looked at the man with eyes so sad. "Because the people in the other car were her mom and dad." This story is sad and unpleasant but true, So young people take heed, it could have been you.
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On a scale of one to ten how much does it matter to a guy when looking for a gfhow heavy she is? I mean not obcenely heavy but definately not thin.
Just looking for insight into a guys mind!!
It honestly depends on the guy, most prefer just an average girl. That means that they're not stupidly skinny but they aren't really big, just nicely curvy. However, if the guy isn't shallow then he wont care how heavy the girl is whatsoever, if she's not that heavy then it's just a bonus, not what the whole relationship is based on.
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Hi,
Theres this girl i met, and i really like her. i got her number, and i chat alot via sms during the week. im not sure weather she likes me or not. I get to see her every weekend, where we chat, and have a good time... while playin music and stuff.
So i would like to ask her out, but im not really sure what the best way to do this is. im a bit nervous. could you please help me out?
Well I say the same thing to everyone who asks me this question.
What you need to do is casually slip into the conversation that you were thinking of going to see a film/concert/try out a new pizza place or whatever. Then ask her if she's been, if she says no then suggest that you go together. If she refuses then you wont have embarassed yourself as she will barely know she has been asked out.
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I have never smoked and this is my first time smokeing. I smoked 3 full ciggs. Can that make you sick or will I be okay???
Well I used to smoke but not very much and it has done me very little harm as I stopped so I doubt that three will harm you at all. It is also unlikely that you will become addicted, most smokers don't get addicted until around their thirteenth cigarette so you're lucky. Just make sure you don't smoke anymore because it will damage your body in the long run.
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Im in love with this guy, and he always tells me he loves me. Well I just found out from a friend that he had feelings for a short time on another girl. He never knew that I knew, and he always told my friend it was just a short time, and he doesnt like her anymore, and he hates himself for thinking like that about another girl. Well its been a couple weeks since that happend, but I still cant help but feel hurt and to feel like he'll do it agian. Im only 14 and I dont want to be hurt so badly so young, but I dont want to break up with him..what should I do? please help I'll Rate High!
You're just going to have to trust him. You say he hates himself for what he's done, he's obviously sorry, you just have to trust him not to do it again. It's so easy to get hurt around this age, if he does it again then I suggest you think about ending things but for now you have to trust him.
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Hey. 14.f.
ok so we learned about cutting and stuff in a class in school and how its wrong, but i found it a bit intresting.... so i was really mad one day so i tryed it and it didnt make me feel any better. But, i do have a little cut on my arm. Does this mean that im a cutter even though im not going to do it again?
No, this doesn't make you a cutter. You are only a cutter if you do it regularly, just one tiny cut doesn't make you one, especially if you know you aren't going to do it again.
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michelle_jeanne is a fucked up phsyco bitch no one ask her for advice she doesnt give a shit about any1 you all deserve better advice then hers she will just take da piss out of your problem
I wont approve this to the whole site, it isn't really a question. If you really have a problem with this columnist then I suggest you submit an abuse report.
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