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He says he liked another girl.....
Im in love with this guy, and he always tells me he loves me. Well I just found out from a friend that he had feelings for a short time on another girl. He never knew that I knew, and he always told my friend it was just a short time, and he doesnt like her anymore, and he hates himself for thinking like that about another girl. Well its been a couple weeks since that happend, but I still cant help but feel hurt and to feel like he'll do it agian. Im only 14 and I dont want to be hurt so badly so young, but I dont want to break up with him..what should I do? please help I'll Rate High!
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You're just going to have to trust him. You say he hates himself for what he's done, he's obviously sorry, you just have to trust him not to do it again. It's so easy to get hurt around this age, if he does it again then I suggest you think about ending things but for now you have to trust him.
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I think it can be all summed up from your own post.
"Im only 14"
Why are you even bothering with meaningless relationships? You "don't want to he hurt at such a young age"; so don't set yourself up for it then. Too many damned kids your age feel they need to find some kind of relationship and end up puting themselves through such mental anguish to try and keep them up.
95% of the time, romantic relationships involving people around your age will end up gone by the time high school ends. In a day and age where women are gaining more place in the workforce and where they are actually continuing school to get decent jobs, you would think that the average dating age would go up instead of down, that way people didn't have to make large life decisions based on what may be a childhood fantasy made real by poor judgement. Somehow it goes down, who knows why. I don't mean to sound harsh, im just trying to dish out some reality. You're 14 for gods sake, don't sit and kill yourself in the quest for pre-pubescent prince charming.
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just ask your boyfriend if you are the only girl he feels this way about. make sure you are the only one who feels this way and then if he is reassure him that he is the only one for you. this happens to alot of girls that get their hearts brokem if you do something about it. good luck.
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usually this happens to most girls and it does break their hearts. show your bf that u really love him. that always makes them feel the same way about u. if that doesnt work(but i bet it will) just pretend 2 like another guy for a short time.
hope this helped!
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If your boyfriend feels bad about liking another girl for a short time, he proly wont do it again. You cant really help it if you think someone is attractive. If he says he stopped liking her he proly has. Dont worry. Hope this helps you out. And dont break up with him until you have proof he is up to somthin with another gurl.
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hey!
ok well.. if he loves you && he regrets it && stuff... then it doesn't look like you have anything to worry about really. but i get what you mean. so what i would do if i were in your situation, i would just talk to him about it. tell him how you feel. let him know u realy love him && dont want to get hurt. make sure he really duz love you. oh && tell him you do know he liked her. just tell him exactly wat u feel. hope this all works out!
♥ nicole
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tell this guy that you have so strong feelings for that you have really strong feelngs for him. lol! Tell him that you love him but if he won'ts the relationship to end then you had rather do that than be holding on to someone who dosen't have feelings for you. Tell him that it will brake you'r heart to see him go but if that is what needs to happen to satisfy him then so be it! Good luch and I hope that I helped!
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Alright Hun question is ask yourself how you think he feels or mayb the way he looks when he tells you he loves you, Then think about how you feel when he tells you them 3sweet words "I love you" if your love is strong and you dont wanna risk losing him talk to him tell em you dont wanna lose him because he means everything to you and you dont want him to make the wrong mistake again and have feelings for another girl, And if he doesnt understand you then you know it wasnt met to be! But if he loves you and you love him then it will work out believe me ive been through that alloott and finally im settled down with just one person and one person only! Anyway best wishes hun hope everything works out!
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