about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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Is there any way to tell how big your breasts will get? Like if you developed early you're likely to have small breasts or if you developed late you'll most likely to have big ones? 1'm 13f I know it's not important I was just wondering

u cant really tell because each person is different and each persons body grows different. i think you stop growin whwen u turn 18, but i am not sure..hope this helps yhou out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do i post an entery in xanga

you sign in and then at the top it is new entry click on that and u type in your new entry.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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How much do contacts cost? thx

it depends on the brand of contacts and i think the time you need but on average they cost 20-200 dollars. hope this helps you out.
~*Stephanie~*

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Does anyone know how to make cd's from limewire? I have a playlist and everything, and the directions I read from someone online didn't seem to help. Can someone please tell me how to make cd's off your playlist off of limewire?

i can help you out wit this.. you can do one out of 2 thinks to burn the cd first you click on liberary then click on the SHARD then go to file and explore or you can click explore at the bottom which ever you want. then another window should pop up and have all the song you have downloaded and then when you find your song left click on it and then click on add to burn list.. you need windows media player to burn the cd.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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this is for my bff, im trying to help him through this...14/m. well my gf & i have been together for almost 6 months. we rarely see each other because we are so busy & when we do, she ignores me or hangs out with everyone but me even if its my party. she doesnt hug me a whole lot either & we've never kissed. i was away from her & during that time i saw & hung out with my gal pal that i hadnt seen in about a year. she likes me a lot & she does more things than my gf does (she hugs me, thats it!) & gives me attention & really cares about me so i got to like her as more than a friend now. i was planning on breaking up with my gf but after i saw her again yesterday, i fell in love with her all over again. i had loved this girl for several years & this was my chance but then she doesnt treat me right & there are other girls out there who really do care about me. what should i do? my gf i have loved for a long time & the girl that likes me gave me a heart that can be easily broken.

*info on the ladies: the gf is a bit of a tease & needs the attitude adjustment thats long over-due but she can be ok at times.
the other girl is a lot like a gf the guy had that ended up being a huge mistake...shes a bit older, more experienced & she knows he's vunerable. she also likes almost every guy i can think of.
*parents view: mom used to be FOR the breaking up but since the other girl showed up (which she doesnt want him to get involved with) she wants them to stay together.
dad doesnt want him to do anything until school starts so no one knows why he broke up with his gf.
*the bffs view: the other girl isnt my favorite (i agree with the parents) & i dont want to be responsible for the break up...i got them together & i didnt know it would end up like this. the gf was my friend but now not only does he treat him like crap but shes mean to me too.

*PLEASE, ANYTHING WILL HELP! WE REALLY NEED YOU!*

sorry about the confusion...im wrote it AS the GUY with the situation. the part with the info was as myself trying to help him out!

ok i am going to try to help you out as much as i can.. first of i understand what your friend means by when he sees her he falls back in love her again but your friend needs to know that he deserves better.. if his girlfriend cares about him she would be by his side all the time. and if she busy she will MAKE time for her boyfriend no matter how busy she is... his girlfreind now that her looks will always make him come back to her... he needs to relax and break up with this girl.. i think your friend should go with the girl that treats him right and that likes him.. he cant stay likes this thinkin this girl likes him.. and for his friend he can start like her and then make there realtionship group and he can love her as much as he loves his corrent girlfriend and maybe even more. hope this helps you and your friend out.
*~Stephanie~*

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what is SI ? i am just wonderin because i kno a lot of people who speak of it.

it is sports illustated magazine. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hi this may sound stupid but what does eating out a girl mean. I have an idea but im not totally clear about it.
Thank You

it is basically going down there on a girl and puttin your tongue in it. ope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok this is a dif. guy but i was wondering the same thing. I read all the answers of the last guy and i'm confused-some people say weird-some people say cute

i need to know this too pleez cause me and my gf are going to the movies 2 weeks from now!!!!!!!!

i think it is cute if you ask the girl if you ask to kiss a girl but it all depends... if you have the right setting then you dont have to ask bc if you do it will ruin the moment.. but if you want to do it like when ever i think it would be cute if you did ask. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?

i think it is cute because it tells the girl that he respects her enjoy to ask be4 doing anything.
*~Stephanie~*

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i got my first holes done and i took them out 4 weeks after they were peirced. but they werent healed and they started bleeding. do i have to wait another 4 weeks now?

you need to wait at least 2 and a half months for them to heal.. i mean you cant kow exactually when they will heal because each person is different.. i know it took me a a month and a half for mine to heal. if started bleedin them you shoul clean out your ear with rubbing aolchol or proxide and hen put the earin back in but dont mess with your ear so much because you might get it infected.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i want to get a digital camera. Im 14 and I dont need it for taking pics. of the world or anything like that. Just of my friends, vacations etc. What number of mega pixels should i get? Anyone have a good digital camera they really like? let me know. thanks!

i got mine from walmart and it was 80 dollars and it holds 86 pictures which is perfect 4 me bc all i use it for is takin pictures of my friends and vactions things like that and the brand is vivitar. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Can girls get orgasm's without having sex?

yes they can.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok,well i haven't my period yet [[and im 13..]] My mom got it when she was 13,my sister got it when she was 14. Does this run in the family that i'll get it either this year or when im 14? or would i be different? i really just want to get it over with instead of being afraid it'll happen when im in school or somewhere everyone can see it !!

my advice to you is calm down relax everything will be ok..your body is different from your moms and your sisters and if you are scared that you might be some place and you get your period then carry a tampon or a pad with you when you some place. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey i cant get this boy off my mind i think about him all the time i mean like whenever a song comes on or anything. I mean i think about his 24-7. And he broke up w/ me because he said he didn't want a gf at that point in time. But we are still friends and we hang out and stuff. I go 2 his house and we watch movies. I still like him alot and i think he really likes me but im not quite sure. I really wanna go back out w/ him but he doesn't want a gf what should i do? please help!

try talking to him and telling him how you feel about him...if that doesnt work out just stick to bein really good friends.. if he likes you a lot he will go back to you. i mean you might noe he might noe want a girlfriend at the moment because he is tryin to clear up his head. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Can I still go to the gyno for my first check up if I have my period?

yea i dont see why you couldnt. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i know the lyrics to this song but i dont know who sings it:
"if looks could kill, you'd be a murderer, or maybe just a whore" Thank you!

omg i love that song it is called "if looks could kill" and it is by a heartwell ending. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much

first off be yourself around guys...let lose as in enjoy yourself and flirt with guys more. for example you sittin talk to the guy you like try touchin him pokin him. guys like girls that know how to have fun... so try to have as much as you can.... hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok so i'm 5 feet six inches, and about 114lbs, am i heading on the right track? I'm not sure.....Oh yeah i'm also 13 years old. I'm gonna exercise and stuff to get a little more toned. Would it be healthy to lose about 10 lbs? I already know what to do to lose weight.
Thnx for the help!

i dont think you should try losin wieght.. you sound really thin if your 5"6 and 114lbs that is pretty thin..
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so im matured (and beyond ;)) but i still havent had my period. my friend has and shes like "oh you shave your armpits? i dont have to yet" nd all this other stuff like so shes not matured as much as me but yet i KNOW she has it! hmmmmm. . .?

13/f

i doest matter everyones body is different by shape size lenth wide and so on.. and each persons body matures and changes at different times... hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok !i am having a really bad problem. well me and my boyfriend got into a serious arrgument today. he got mad at me cause he said that i was smiling at his friend. i am like omfg cant i even look at anyone.and on the bus today he broke up with me. then he called me and asked me if i would go back out with him. he apoligized and i said ok. well he called me and talked to me a while ago and i dont even think his sister likes me. so what should i do brake up with him or not? srry for this bein so long.
i will rate all 5's and give feedback for helpful answers only.

all guys are protective like that when you go out with them(if they care about you they will be protective) and you should give him a chance i mean he did apologized and since he did come back to you that means he still does liek you a lot... everyone makes mistakes and he made a mistake and he knows he did and he apologized for it. i would say give it a chacne if you really like this guy you will do it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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