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well i want to find a website where i can find kjute things. like those dollz with quotes or poems. and all that glittery stuff. like i love you. well its kinda confusing but if you know a webiste please put it down~~

8) tx a lot pplz ill rate ya high (link)
www.maxpages.com

www.dollfantasy.com

www.MSNdollies.com


School's about to start, and I don't really want to carry a backpack around all the time this year. I was wondering if anyone knows where to get those cute shoulder bags that are rectangle-squarish? They have really cute Coach ones, but I'm on a low-budget. (link)
they are called messenger bags, mail men (if you have thenm) the ones that walk around use them! or you can get a little tote bag for like papers and books, or just carry around your crap with your hands

maddy


okay i got my period for the first time this week(on wed night) and today (thursday) is my first full day w/it and i got tampons. i want to go swimming tomorrow and i have the slim fit tampons. i know i'll be fine but on saturday my family and a few friends are going to an amusement park and i want to ride the water rides. can i do this while wearing a tampon? like the ones where you get on a tube and ride down a tunnel? i'll rate high!!! (link)
yes, as long if it fits and everything right. You have to remember to bring a few though, so you have to change, id suggest that you would change one befor you leave for the water park, then WHEN you go on the rides, like keep a litle stop watch with you..


hope i helped


maddy


what does the term mean "to pop a girls cherry when she has sex? (link)
not every girl bleeds, everyone is different. but it does basically mean u have broken a piece of skin covering the entrance to the vagina. this happens when you 1st have sex. hope i helped,


is it possible to become pregnant in this situation:
a guy touches his.. thing, and gets that "pre-cum" or whatever on his hand/fingers. then he fingers a girl, a few minutes later, with the same hand as before.
please only answer if you actually know what you're talking about. (link)
it is possible but the chances are very low. hope i helped.


hi well my mom works with this woman named Faith.And she has 2 sons and there in a band.And they heared I sing.And they need a lead singer.And I would like to now different warm up exrssies to get ready for my try out got any ideas? (link)
drink room tempature water befor you sing, so your voice doesnt crackle. It helped me mucho in chours!


I've been going out with this guy for a month. I've never kissed or been kissed by a guy. I wanna kiss him and he wants to kiss me. But I guess i'm kinda nervous. He thinks I don't like him, But I really do! We've said I love you to eachother a few times and Idk. I really wanna kiss him but i'm scared i might mess up or something. Can anyone give me tips? I know it sounds stupid lol i'm 14.. and yeah i'm going out with a 12 year old. He's made out with a ton of people and I feel really stupid. Please help! (link)
umm okay? but just chill and go to a movie and be like "im cold" hell put his arm around you, and then look deeply into his eyes, and hell look back at tilt your head forward then he should kiss you.


can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100. (link)
Tag body spray
Axe
Adios
Abercrombie + fitch


listin, i need to make as much money as fast as i can plz help, im 13 so i cant work at a reastrunt or anything plz help!!!!!!!!! need money quick!!! i rate high!!!!!!!!!! (link)
dogwalking
babysitting
chores
begging = D
mowing lawns
weeding
mothers helper (its when you do arrons for them * it can be ANYONE*)
lemonade stands
food stands
helper
work at your parents work (do fieling // anyhitng they need help with)
cleaning
set tables
make your room clean
clean the bathrooms
sweep
trim
planting
nanny
Jr. Lifegard

thats all i have in mind for now...


ok my boyfriend who lives in the same town as me went to florida for a month and i really miss him. the day before he left, he slept over and my house and we had so much fun and i didnt want him to go. but i really miss him. i cant call him because of long distance. what should i do? help.. i'll rate 5's for sure!! (link)
does he have a myspace // livejournal // website // screenname // cell phone?? if you both have the same cell, long distance doesnt matter. if he has a ell and you dont try getting the same brand as him so you can call for FREE.

hope i helped

maddy


this guy asked me out but hes like not prude(been kissed) and im am prude(not been kissed) and i told him ill answer him tomarroww and he said ok but he doesnt no im prude and hes gonna try to kiss me and i dont no how (link)
kisses come right out of the blue, naturally. You deff. waited enough for your first kiss. but do you WANT him to kiss you?


Hi, I bite my nails ,I want to stop biting my nails but I can't stop it It's my habit biting nails please help me how can I stop to bite my nails. thank you (link)
Ahh nail biting! I remember that, In any


Pharmacy they have nailpolish, right? Look for


one that is for nail-biters. It makes your nails


taste really bad, so you don't bite them. Or you


get the very icky taste that can kill you ; D


lol jking about the kill but it can make you sick


Hope i helped


Maddy


Im 23 years old and very attactive have been with my husband whos 33 for 6 years. It takes me along time to reach orgasim and can only do so my oral sex or by him touching my clitoris.
I put alot into our sex life to keep things spiced up and enjoy it but when sex is over he acts like performing any sort of "favor" for me is a chore. Ive tryed to tell him his behavior makes me feel like he dosent want to do it and only is doing so to make me happy. When Im thinking this its impossible to reach orgasim.
He dosent understand its not that hes doing the wrong thing its just how hes doing it.
Ive tried and tried to explain this to him,them women need more emotional stimulation and not just physical. I would like him to say nice things or act like he enjoys it but he acts like its just a chore to do it. I though all guys liked to touch woman. Whats the deal with this? Its so frustrating because I get aroused during sex but then when there is no release because I dont want to have him touch me as a chore I just end up feeling used.

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I have something, but you dont haev to believe me, my friend told me once that the only reason we get disappoint is because we put too high expectations on people, we already have an idea of what will happen and when it doesnt we get all sad and disappointed about it, so next time when you are having sex with your husband, tell yourself, just once as a reminder, that you already know whats going to happen and dont get all excited about it, then if he does something to make it look different you will be glad because it will suprise you or even make you happy, second, try marriage couseling, i would hate for you guys to get divorced just because he doesnt like to wait for u to climax as well, also once i read in a Cosmopolitan magazine that in most relationships this happens, and it can be the guy and the girl, so next time, when you are having sex, tell him that you want to be on top, and while your riding him, you can go slowlier or faster, and you will have your orgams, but dont let him have his until you had yours and he wont even know that your slowing his down, just by slowing down your movement, you should get some cosmopolitan magazines, they're a girls best friend when it comes to tips in bed, they also have a web site, www.cosmopolitan.com Hope i could help!



is there anyway i can gain a little more wieght?? i dont wanna be over weight i'm just kinda sick of people commenting my on how skinny i am. i just wanna to be "average" (link)
yup, im "lean" for my age also. what im doing, is eating alot of food, i cant stop eatingg, but i dont gain weight, barely. Stay near the junk food and life weights, yes it makes you look thinner, but you are gaining mucle (sp) and muscle weighs more then fat.. right i am. try to be lazy, and like not active once and a while, and if you skip meals, you acually are gaining weight, idk howw but my doctor said that and its really unknown why. Try eating

breakfast* like a king- you need alot of energy in the morning so that is why.

snack* fruit snacks or cape cod chips : p

lunch* like a queen- not as much as breakfast, but enough to get you through dinner,

snack* same thing anything artificial.

dinner* like a jocker. You don't need energy to sleep. Right i am.

befor bed snack. but not a big one just sometihng with alot of carbs.. like a banana


hOpe i helped

maddy


Hello*

Well, here's my question...(this might sound like a dumb,slow,or whatever u wanna call it question.) But how can u figure out if your really in love with a person.(boy,in my case). I have this boyfriend and i think i'm falling in love with him (sorry if this sounds corny).He's so sweet.And i can't stop thinking about him.Please tell me.

Brenda*** (link)
if you are always thinking about him, getting a funny feeling in the bottom of your stomach, missing him and wishing you were with him then it looks like you could have caught the lurve bug lol. if you look at him and your heart beats faster this is also a way to tell if you are in love with someone. hope i helped
~*~Lucee~*~


hey.. Im samantha.. and well
I went to a new school this year.. because the school i was in last year and the years before closed down. And it was a small school, one class for each grade. And so i came up into this huge jr. high. and my old friends.. well we arnt friends anymore...and i met these new people and we are like best best best friends.. and we alllwayyys hung out. And well i met this new set of people. who are cheerleaders like me. and we are alike.. and well i dont know who to hang out with because they are both the best!... and every time i hang out with them .. the other people get mad at me .. or if i hang out with them.. then those people get mad at me. And my friend hayley .. who i met this year ( not the cheerleader) well she hangs out with my friend sara more then me. And i think they like hate me now because im hanging with the cheerleaders.. but they are awsome..

What can i do.. How do i hang out with both settsss offf people??

help.. i rate high!!!!

Sam! (link)
hang out with all of them together and maybe they will grow to like one another


I'm 16 and I first got my period when I was 9. Well, I know its normal for the first couple of years for it not to be regular but I've had mine for 7 years and its still not regular.
For some time I've been wanting to go on birth control to level out my hormones and make my period more regular.
I don't want to be on it for a long time becasue I'm not really sexually active and I know that being on it for a long time can be bad for you.
So my question is can I be on it for just a little while to regulate my period/hormones then get off and have everything stay regular? (link)
you are normally put on birth control pills for about 5 years or until its regular...there is always the new patch thing and the ring which i dont know much about but you can ask your doctor about it


My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now? (link)
you dont have to go to a clinic....but if your periods like that you might want to get birth control pills so you can have a steady period and it would also be having safer sex


okay, im not sure if this belongs under illnesses, but... my friend has cancer, he is 22. well actually hes more of my boyfriends friend. well today he called me, and he told me that he just got out of the hospital, and he had a mini- stroke... well first off... whats a mini- stroke? isnt a stroke... a stroke????
well, he asked me to do a favor for him since he can barely talk (( his one side is completely numb )) but, the favor was to tell my bf about it... ok, so i can do that... but im just afraid of how my bf will react... i mean this is my bf's hero... and i dont know... i honestly dont think this guy has much time left... and i dont wanna tell my bf that, cus thats just rude, and im sure no one wants to hear that.
how do i tell my bf about all this, and what do when he reacts... what do i say to him? i know he'll start crying... and plus... when our friend does "go" how do i handle that... i have to cope with it myself, and try to help my bf with it. and when im under that much stress, and when someone i know passes away, i dont get upset, i get mad... and i dont show my feelings because i try and help everyone else first... and myself last. but i will eventually let it all out, and its 10xs worse... im just confused... im not sure why i do this, and if i do... everyone will be worried about me... and i dont want that to happen either.
please help me! (link)
rewqrewqre


How do i cook a steak. It's abotu 8 oz.s and it's frozen (link)
haha you have to defrost it first! defrost it in a defroster or just the refriderator... all you do is put it on the grill and fire it up! or in the oven you have to up it on a tray and like marenate it or what ever, cook untill its not red (cut it to look)




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