♥[?]♥ whenever i try to listen to a song, there is this popup from wmp that says "The source filter for this file could not be loaded." what should i do to fix this so i can listen to songs? 5's if the answer is helpful
If you got these music codes from any and pretty much all Xanga websites... the music codes are temporarily broken. Providing you have saved MP3's on your computer, you can test that your WMP is working properly by RIGHT CLICKING them, and OPENING them with the WMP option provided.. And if that STILL doesn't work, check to make sure your WMP is up to date. [:
♥[?]♥ i wanna earn some money.. problem is, im only 13 is there ANYTHING i can do to get some money?
I'm sorrie to say, but not a lot of places will hire someone at 13, 14, and even 15. The best thing I can suggest would be delievering news papers and maybe doing some work at a library or animal hospital. However, they might see that as volunteer work, and the possibilty that you wouldn't be paid definitely exists.. However, you'll never know until you ask! Also, you should check with any little local antique stores or Mom & Pop pizza houses. Aside from that, there's babysitting. Try making a bunch of fliers and distributing them on the bullentin boards at your closest couple of grocery stores; free advertising -- that's what it's there for. However, baby sitting is a serious matter. Make shore you know exactly how to perform CPR on infants and toddlers in case of emergency, and once that is all settled, you can add that to your resume. Call them crazy, but parents are more likely to give you their business if they feel their child will be safe with you... Also, raking leaves and lawn mowing! BIG money to be had there! Just don't give up hope - there are always options. :)
♥[?]♥ Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.
Some guys perfer hair, and others don't.. it's simply a personal perference. To be honest, I do not know a single guy who PERFERS pubic hair.. but that is not to say they do not exist, as they definitely do!! Truthfully though.. it's YOUR body, therefore YOUR decision. However, if you DO decide you want to shave, I've taken it upon myself to make a list of tips for you:
- NEVER dry shave.
- Find a shaving cream/gel you're happie with.
- If you can't go out and purchase shaving gel, use a bar of soap and lather up REALLY good, but keep it moist and lathered.. don't let it dry out.
- If you CAN purchase shaving gel, I recommend 'Skintimate's Shaving Gel' or 'Barbasol Shaving Cream".
- Use a good razor, and change it often, if not EVERY time.
- Yes, disposable razors are fine.
- After shaving, you could apply lotion or baby oil to help moisturize, and assist in preventing razor burn.
- DO NOT shave daily!! Try every other two days or so.
♥[?]♥ About two weeks ago my boy friend and i were fooling around and he starting fingering me..before that he had fingered me he had been handeling his dick very briefly, is it possible that there was enough cum on his hand to get me pregnant? Thanks. *i'm almost positive that he didn't have any on his hands though, but just in case*
I would say it's highly unlikely. I understand you feel worried, but I wouldn't suggest dwelling on it unless you skip a cycle. But if that should occur, perhaps the following websites would help you:
-- http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/earlypregnancysymptoms.html
-- http://www.babycenter.com/pregnancy-symptoms
♥[?]♥ ok so i have liked this guy at school for like ever and earlier this week he asked me out and i said yes of course! Then the next day he started to ignore me and tell everyone we were going out. He is really starting to confuse me what should I do?
"Then the next day he started to ignore me and tell everyone we were going out."
Tell everyone that you WERE going out, or that you WEREN'T going out?
If you meant WEREN'T, then that should be your first and last hint that this relationship is not going to work out. It's been a couple of hours, and he's already ashamed. That's.. not.. a.. good.. sign. =/ I would definitely suggest confronting him, though. Just tell him that you want to know what the heck is going on, and if he is serious about upkeeping a relationship with you. If you notice he's even the tiniest bit unsure of himself, then just walk. Teenage years are difficult enough, and to be honest... heartbreak during them in inevitably. But, that doesn't mean you might as well set yourself up for them.. If this guy isn't true with his feelings, then go find something better for yourself. :)
Well, a few good activities that can simply assist in porportioning the body in it's ENTIRTY would be anything that gets the blood circulation goin', such as: jogging, jumping jacks, jumping rope, walking, and bicycle riding. Also, if you have access to a heated pool, water aerobics work like a charm!!
And if you'd like to target your tummie specifically, try doing sit ups and/or crunches.
For directions on doing a correct crunch, check out:
- http://www.rnews.com/print.cfm?id=16787
- http://www.ehow.com/tips_3191.html
Also, providing you cut out the EXTREMELY unhealthy foods, such as WHITE bread [substitute it with wheat], cake products, ice cream, hamburgers, and soda... [if you're used to consuming A LOT of it] you can see a significant amount of weight loss after the first two weeks, alone.
You can find lists of healthy foods at:
-- http://www.fit4free.org/healthy%20foods%20list.htm
-- http://www.whfoods.com/foodstoc.php
-- http://bellaonline.com/articles/art1862.asp
As you probably already know, it's best to eat several small portions a day; but this does not mean to "starve" yourself. Say, have an apple and a piece of cheese, two hours later have a few crakers, and an hour later have one piece of wheat toast, and so on and so forth, ya know??? And those are just some snack ideas. When it comes to solid meals, you don't really have to cut out much. Just take in moderation. Little intakes of food like that gives your body time to digest it properly. You see how that's better than eating one or two huge meals a day?? Because then it would take too long to catch up, and your bodyy will not be able to burn the calories quickly enough; so it just quits, adding body fat.
Of course you must realize that weight loss takes time. I can't really say how long it will take; I suppose that differs from person to person. It really just depends on how much weight you're looking to shed. I'd say you could lose 10 to 20 pounds within the first month; that's very possible (seeing as how a good portion of that 10-20 pounds will be water weight).
You just have to stay committed, and strive to keep up the drive. Some tips: just try to keep yourself busy, and sleep as often as possible. Those things keep your mind off of food.
Sure it seems like you're giving up so much, but think about what you will be gaining if you feel better about yourself?? That's the best damned grand prize you'll EVER find.
Goodluck to you! Feel free to get ahold of me personally if you'd like any other information or opinions! I'd be happie to help where I can! :D
♥[?]♥ how old do u have to be in order to get a tan from a tanning bed?
"Melissa Haynes, director of communications for the Indoor Tanning Association based in Washington, D.C., said the association has a policy in place that encourages all tanning salons to require parental permission from those younger than 18."
TAKEN FROM:
-- http://www.news-herald.com/site/news.cfm?newsid=15032962&BRD=1698&PAG=461&dept_id=21849&rfi=6
..which is an article all about age restrictions at tanning salons. :)
♥[?]♥ I'm a 15 year old female.
I have had sex before, but it wasn't a good experience... of course.
IT seems like ever since, I have completely lost my sex drive.
Help?
Aw! Sex drives are never gone; they're just playing hide and seek. ;) The trick is to find them again, and I've found a few websites that offer tips on doing exactly that:
♥[?]♥ well i was hanging out with some guys aboout 2 years older than me. i have only been friends with them for like a month, and i think one of them (Josh) is incredible hott. So i was with the guys and josh was there and he kept staring at me. so i was like why are u staring at me? and hes like your really pretty. and he started smiling... but idk if i believe him or not. is he only doing this as a joke since he knows i think hes hott? should i trust him, or is he just doing this to show off for his friends?
Since I wasn't actually there, I can only give you my best guess from what I've been told, and I would guess that he really meant what he said. Doing that as an attempt to "show off" is pretty much the same thing as making fun of you. If he was interested in making fun of you, then he would obviously have some major dislikes about you (no matter how petty those reasons actually are). But if he disliked you, he wouldn't want you around more than he would absolutely have to. He wouldn't keep you around just for fun - he could easily find better things to do than torment somebody whom he doesn't want in his company, ya know?
I think you should take his compliment with the utmost thankfulness and flattery. I also think it might be a good idea if you two of you could spend some time together alone, even if that means the telephone at first. Rome wasn't built in a day, and relationships take time to strengthen.
And in case you're interested, I looked online for you, and came up with a couple websites that offer tips to flirting:
- http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/flirtideas.shtml
- http://www.flirtzone.com/tips.htm
- http://www.adze.com/couples/love/flirting.html
- http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting.htm
- http://www.ivillage.co.uk/relationships/dating/men/articles/0,,139_602486,00.html
♥[?]♥ Ok so i have this friend ...honest this is about a friend ...and she has this boyfriend my friend is older then me by like 4 years ...i look up to her like a sister and when i met her boyfriend i got this horrible vibe from him ... he made me nervous and i dint like it one bit ... i told her about the vibe because everyone i asked said i have to tell her as a friend so i did and we are fine all that happend was she reasured me he was a "good one" ...little did i know my vibe was right
today i found out that one of my good friends saw him at a resturant standing in line with another guy and two girls ..one of the girls he was like nibbling her neck and holding her hands and stuff (i guess this could be a friend ship thing but not when you have a girlfriend) ...i dont know if i should tell my friend or not ..i know telling her would be the "right" thing but it will break her heart in half because this is the first guy shes ever honestly been abale to say she loved ...and then hes out cheeting on her while shes at work ?? ... i dont know what to im goin crazy trying to make my mind up ..please help me out ill rate high for any answer i just need some kinda of guidence thank you
Well, since YOU weren't the one to actually SEE THIS happen, I really don't think YOU should tell her.
I know the friend of yours who DID see her 'cheating' boyfriend might be 100% honest to you. But I just feel that you will lose some of your credibility if you go up to her and say, "My friend saw.." It's not that you would sound completely unconvincing, it's just that it wouldn't be as believable as if you yourself had witnessed an even like this go down.
If you told her, she would naturally confront him. He might say it didn't happen, or he was there.. but it wasn't the way YOU said YOUR FRIEND described it. I think all it would do is create negative feelings between your two friends, and a tiny little bit of distrust between you and the girl with the 'cheating' boyfriend.
If YOUR FRIEND told her, she's more apt to believe it. One, she was there personally and saw it with her own eyes. Two, what motive would this girl possibly have to break up their relationship, right? If your friend with the 'cheating' boyfriend thinks she truly loves this guy, it may be hard for her to believe that he would have the odassity to do such a thing. The possibility exists that she may turn on you. If she's sincerely a good friend, she should know better than to create negative vibes with someone so close during a time when she might actually need a sturdy backbone.
Of course, this is her boyfriend, and she has every right to know that he is being unfaithful. If this guy is infact cheating, then heartache is inevitably. If I were in your shoes, I would want to look out for my friend and do what's in her best interest in hopes of easing the heartache even to the smallest extremes. If you AND YOUR FRIEND tell her (together), then perhaps you need to stress the fact that it would be good for her to see it for herself. Just alert her of what you honestly believe is going on, and tell her to keep a strong watch on him, but don't hold him too close. It'd probably be a good idea to set him up, rather than confront him. You want to give him the opportunity to cheat. I know it might sound sneaky and unfair, but when you think about it from both point of views, I say she needs to know. The thing to remember is, if he cheated THIS time, he WILL cheat again. Eventually his luck will run out, and his game will be caught.
I found a few websites that might be of some help to you:
-- http://www.enoma.org/eno/rr/r/ss27.htm
♥[?]♥ ok so i am getting my eyebrows plucked this saturday and i was wondering if it hurt? also can you please find some pictures that i can show the person so i can get something i really want!
Are you getting them waxed or plucked? On the subject line you put "WAxed", but in your question you put "plucked"...
I've never had my eyebrows waxed, so I couldn't honestly tell you if it hurts or not. However, from the stories I've heard, they all say no. I pluck mine. It hurt the first five times or so, but it wasn't too unbearable. Now, it doesn't hurt in the tiniest little bit, and I do it for fun all of the time!
But if it's plucking you're talking about, this might help you for upkeeping them:
-- http://www.cosmeticscop.com/learn/article.asp?PAGETYPE=ART&REFER=MAKEUP&ID=44
Plucking or waxing, you still need to decide on a shape. If you're getting them professionally done, they will have example shapes available for you to thumb through. And they will most definitely make suggestions. However, I found some websites that very well might give you some ideas to think on:
-- http://www.eyebrowz.com/faceshape.htm
-- http://styles101.homestead.com/eyes_brow.html
-- http://www.naturalenhancement.co.uk/assets/images/perfect-brows-2.gif
-- http://www.thaneweb.com/teensworld/images/f7_img3.jpg
-- http://www.lussocosmetics.com/assets/images/All-EyeBrows-M.gif
-- http://www.irandokht.com/images/eyebrows.jpg
-- http://www.eyebrows.com/Images/420x252/image-1113209210.jpg
♥[?]♥ O.K.
I am a good writer and I LOVE writing shor stories. I am 13/f. I was looking for a new topic to write about but no one has any ideas. I like writing about reality... meaning I don't like to write fantasies. For example, I don't write about dwarfs, dragons, elves, etc. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone had a summary or something of something yall have heard or something so I can turn it into a story. Much appreciation.
I rate high!
I found some websites that might be able to help you. I suggest taking a look at them - it couldn't hurt, right? :)
♥[?]♥ My 8th grade prom is coming up(towards the end of the school yr.) and its not a problem to find a date for the prom the problem is that i get nervous dancing infront of people i dont know why though. Just to let you'll know i do know how to dance. If anyone has any tips on ways i could get over this please let me know!
I found a few links which may help you. I suggest checking them out. It couldn't hurt, right? :)
♥[?]♥ guys are always whispering to each others "those are so fake" everytime i walk by them.. they all think im hot.. but are they just saying my boobs are fake cause they really do think that or just because they want me to prove to them that they are real??
I know I'm not there to witness this, but if I were to guess.. I'd say more of the second one. You never included your age (which would have helped), but if you're under the age of at least 16.. they can't possibly be stupid enough to think you actually got implants, could they? More than anything, I think they're just saying it to hurt your feelings. And it's obviously working, isn't it? I know it may be upsetting, but the best thing to do would be to ignore these punks. They have absolutely NO idea what they're talking about, nor will they EVER, so you really shouldn't let infantile jerks get the best of you..
♥[?]♥ im wanting to help my partner lose weight because i'm worried about his health.
I'm not a cook so i need some simple recipes that i can cook and that are healthy.
if you know of any please can you give me the ingredients and method. thank you
Providing you cut out the EXTREMELY unhealthy foods, such as WHITE bread [substitute it with wheat], cake products, ice cream, hamburgers, and soda... [if you're used to consuming A LOT of it] you can see a significant amount of weight loss after the first two weeks, alone.
You can find lists of healthy foods at:
-- http://www.fit4free.org/healthy%20foods%20list.htm
-- http://www.whfoods.com/foodstoc.php
-- http://bellaonline.com/articles/art1862.asp
As you probably already know, it's best to eat several small portions a day; but this does not mean to "starve" yourself. Say, have an apple and a piece of cheese, two hours later have a few crakers, and an hour later have one piece of wheat toast, and so on and so forth, ya know??? And those are just some snack ideas. When it comes to solid meals, you don't really have to cut out much. Just take in moderation. Little intakes of food like that gives your body time to digest it properly. You see how that's better than eating one or two huge meals a day?? Because then it would take too long to catch up, and your bodyy will not be able to burn the calories quickly enough; so it just quits, adding body fat.
Another website I can recommend to you:
-- http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/show_tm/text/0,1976,FOOD_9997_12135,00.html
That page is loaded with a BUNCH of QUICK and EASY meals which can ALL be prepared in 30 minutes or LESS guaranteed!!! The woman behind those receipes is my all time inspiration!!! I wouldn't suggest her if she weren't fabulous!
♥[?]♥ Well i am a grl and i like to wear boy clothes!!!
is that weird or normal?
This may seem like a lame answer, but I don't really see why or how it matters. Is it "weird"? Not in the slighest. Is it "normal"? Absolutely. I say wear whatever you're comfortable in, and be happie with it. Anyone who treats you negatively for the items you wear isn't anyone who deserves to be close to you in the first place! :)
♥[?]♥ My boyfriend, of almost 2years, just broke up with me. I am going out tonight with my best girl Kate, and we are going bowling. Is that a good Idea?
What should I do to keep my mind off of it? And what shouldn't I do?
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Kelsssss
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Life is a balance of holding on and letting go. And sometimes we just have to roll with the punches. There's a saying out there, "things have to get worse before they get better.", so think on that for a while :)
♥[?]♥ why do guys think when girls wear sweatpants its hott (at least thats what ive heard)
Hm. I've never heard this before. You got me wondering now. I asked two of my male friends, and they told me:
-- Guy 1. 18 years old:
"i like whatever they're comfertable in. if they like sweats... go for it. if they dont... dont. some guys might not... other guys might like it alot cuz sweatpants slide off easy"
-- Guy 2. 19 years old:
"it makes their ass look big and i like big butts. so yes i like it. especially since they can be taken off so easy."
Uhm, I'm not sure what to say after that, but I figured you'd like as many male opinions as you can get. :)
♥[?]♥ do guys really care about how big a girl's chest is?
guys please answerrrr !! .. and girls if you know the answer too..
Eh, some do, some don't. My friend ("Solaris") has a quote: "Breasts are like Pepsi and Coke. Sure, we have a peference, but we'll take whatever is available." But really, any guy who is the tiniest bit of man won't come to any drastic decisions based on one simple measurement. :)
