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loss of sex drive
I'm a 15 year old female.
I have had sex before, but it wasn't a good experience... of course.
IT seems like ever since, I have completely lost my sex drive.
Help?
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That's why (because it wasn't a good experience). That's happened to me after I was fingered once. Then after you do it a few times, it will get better.
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Aw! Sex drives are never gone; they're just playing hide and seek. ;) The trick is to find them again, and I've found a few websites that offer tips on doing exactly that:
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Well I mean this is normal for most girls who arnt ready. But the drive is not gone. Its more of in a parked or nutural setting. See what Im saying? Well I mean because it probably hurt and then well You get used to it the more and more you do it! But Im not saying to do it over again and I mean you should wait until its w/ a long time lover or mabye till marraige! Well I hope I helped
Bianca~~~~~*****
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You're left with a negative view on sex altogether because of the one bad experience. If you already have a boyfriend or when you do get a boyfriend, why not let things flow and you can talk to him about how you're feeling. Don't worry about it, though, things will sort out in the end...pesky hormones!
x Steph x
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It might be a lecture but talking from experiance. Sex at 15 its realy not good experiance as you've discoverd caused by the fact that u might be not ready except curiosity. Sex drive goes with the passion for love in an advanced manner give yourself sometime you will understand
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ok, well if you chose you have sex, thats your business. im not going to preach to you like i know a lot of people will.
to gain sex drive i would think being with someone and having meaningful sex (not casual sex) will help. foreplay foreplay foreplay..have fun with it..play 'dress up' use sexxy foods like whipped cream, cherries, etc.
set the mood..whatever you want it to be..like candles,soft music,
try new places ..like the shower,on a table? lol, on the washing machine, while its running..lol there are lots of places to do it.
i hope this helped a lil
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