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i have a hernia and i have to get surgery for it on friday and iwant to know what the likeliness of death and all that stuff is but they sed instead of my intestines coming out it was an ovary....what kind of hernia is that called?? thanks!! (link)
I don't know much about that but you can go to this website www.emedicinehealth.com there is information on all the types of hernia what I can tell you is that be strong and the doctors will do their best have faith you'll get through this Good luck for friday.


I'm a 15 year old female.
I have had sex before, but it wasn't a good experience... of course.
IT seems like ever since, I have completely lost my sex drive.

Help?
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It might be a lecture but talking from experiance. Sex at 15 its realy not good experiance as you've discoverd caused by the fact that u might be not ready except curiosity. Sex drive goes with the passion for love in an advanced manner give yourself sometime you will understand


Ok I need help. I have a boyfriend that i really like alot but my ex boyfriend that i loved like alot. and i got over that yet i still love him so i still think back sometimes. well he called me and it just brought back memories cuz i hadn't talked to him in a long time and i just need to know how to get over him bc im so happy..but i still get sad when i look at a picture of us or think about it..help..advice please (link)
Your ex- boyfriend is part of your good past memories, thats the way it is you mus'nt fogert the reason why you broke up, for him to call you He was going through his past and u crossed his mind He might be missing,but he had his chance you have been through the break-up with him trying to cope without him fortunatly you've managed and find yourself a man you love so focus on your man before you make wrong decision. Past will never go anywhere


ok my best friend since a year ago and i get along really well for girls like we dont talk bad about each other or anything right? but now ive started to realize all she cares about is herself like today at lunch her and a friend werent gonna go to lunch bc they went to the library and i was in the line w/ my friend and when we got back she had moved my lunch across the table and sat down in my spot i kno its the stupidest thing to get mad about but i am and the bigger reason is we made plans over the summer to go to fright fest with each other and it turned into a group thing but now she wants to ditch us and go to a friends party instead and she promised me shed go and shes only known this guy for like 2 months i thought friends were more important she wants me to go sunday instead of saturday but i dont want to bc my other friend are counting on me to go and i dont want to just ditch them like that what should i do??? shes starting to get on my nerves and starting to blame me for stuff that happens that is totally out of my control likes shes so innocent and doesnt deserve whatever happens to her anyways sorry this is so sorry but please, help!!! (link)
I think you should confront her about her behaviour coz may be you might find that you r mis- readind her actions I'm not saying you r, confronting her u might find answers through the way she react when you ask her. step No 1


hey now before you read this and hate me u should hear the story..... we grew up together! are mothers were bestfriends and a kids i was always his girlfriend! we grew up telling eachother that we were going to get married! he was "my boo". when we got older our relationship got seriouse and we had grown apart but still had feelings for eachother that we kept alive. we would kiss and hug and call eachother on the phone! when i truned 16 i met this guy and he took me to my prom! and of course he got jelouse and went and slept with my friend. i was so hurt sghe knew how i felt about him and did it anyway! they ended up going out for 2yrs and there still dateing! i thought our realationship and everything we had was over! i was so sad and depressed! but then like 4 months ago he came and told me that he was still in love with me and he cant stand seeing me and not being able to hold me so we did a few things together!! but nothing sexual! i swear!!! but he is still going out with my friend! i feel so guilty and i wanna tell her but at the same i dont wanna hurt her but i still have deep feeings for him! wat should i do? should i give him up? should i keep sneaking around? or should i tell her the truth and leave them both alone! i know im horrible and you guys are gonna hate me but i feel guilty and im looking for help for the right thing to do! (link)
You mus'nt alow him to see you secretely if he realised that he still have feelings for You he must make his decision,The fact that he has been dating your friend for 2yrs means that they have somthing common Love,The reason for him to come back to u might be No1. he knows that you always love him You would'nt say No as you say you did something together,No2 may be you have all the chatectors he needs from the woman he appreciates you from the childhood but the fact that he managed to love your friend in your presence for such along time means the love feeling is not strong enough or it temporaly disapeard he prefers you,What you can do tell him to make a decision or move on with your life he is got a relationship you dont have one insted you are suffering from being a secret lover while he is enjoying to be two women man if you are meant to be togethe it will happen when ever but u need to be happy too.remeber the importand part in a relationship is happines then lifetime comes it looks like you consider lifetime more than everthing but you are obviously not happy your friend is dating someone you loved since, get new life gal you will find someone.




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