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well i was hanging out with some guys aboout 2 years older than me. i have only been friends with them for like a month, and i think one of them (Josh) is incredible hott. So i was with the guys and josh was there and he kept staring at me. so i was like why are u staring at me? and hes like your really pretty. and he started smiling... but idk if i believe him or not. is he only doing this as a joke since he knows i think hes hott? should i trust him, or is he just doing this to show off for his friends?
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Since I wasn't actually there, I can only give you my best guess from what I've been told, and I would guess that he really meant what he said. Doing that as an attempt to "show off" is pretty much the same thing as making fun of you. If he was interested in making fun of you, then he would obviously have some major dislikes about you (no matter how petty those reasons actually are). But if he disliked you, he wouldn't want you around more than he would absolutely have to. He wouldn't keep you around just for fun - he could easily find better things to do than torment somebody whom he doesn't want in his company, ya know?
I think you should take his compliment with the utmost thankfulness and flattery. I also think it might be a good idea if you two of you could spend some time together alone, even if that means the telephone at first. Rome wasn't built in a day, and relationships take time to strengthen.
And in case you're interested, I looked online for you, and came up with a couple websites that offer tips to flirting:
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Perhaps he was genuine. Talk to him privately and see how he acts when he's not around his friends. Maybe get his number, fiddle with your mobile and just say "what's your number, I'm in the progress of updating my address book".
Good luck
x Steph x
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Baby. Of course he's playing a game with you. You want to know what the game is? Flirtation. He's digging you. You know that he's not showing off because he called you "pretty", not "hot". You can tell when a guy just wants your body when he calls you hot. Give him a chance. Get to know him a little better though before you date him.
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Well if he was staring at you he probably really does like you...good job lol!! Ask him..be liek so you think im pretty..does that mean you liek me or something..just wondering??? Just be subtle! Good luck!! ♥ caitie
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hang out with him just the two of you. then see how he acts. then you will definitely be able to see whether or not he likes you. if it for some reason won't happen (you two hanging out alone) then just ask him straight up how he feels about you. tell him how you feel back. hope this helps.
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He is flirting which is a good thing. Just keep hanging out casually and being yourself and see what happens. I don't think he would have said that without some truth behind it, but you know, actions speak louder than words, let him come to you. I bet he likes the chase and so have fun and see what happens.
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