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God help you if you trusted the advice I gave at 13.

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hey i am 13/f and i'm trying to find a new hair color
i'm getting my hair cut like this picture:
http://imdb.com/gallery/granitz/3274/AshleeSimp_Pimen_5265256_400.jpg?path=pgallery&path_key=Simpson,%20Ashlee&seq=3

i have reddish hair and a pale skin tone. (this is a picture of my hair and skin color)
http://i36.photobucket.com/albums/e43/ooxSaRaBaRaxoo/screwup_jpg.jpg

i really want to change up my hair color and i'm not sure which way to go. i think i'm going to get some highlights but i'm not sure what shade and what color to make the base. any ideas? thanks a bunch! i rate

If I were you I'd dye it either black or a darker red than you already have. If you go with black get really dark read highlights. If you go with a darker shade of red get highlights that your hair color is right now.

What exactly is a whore and a hoe ? ill rate for reasonable nice answers

A whore is someone who has sex with a bunch of different people. Then can get paid for it like a hooker or they can do it because they feel like it. Hoe is just short for whore.

Ok. I just shaved 'down there', and the little stubs are hitting my legs and making them itch.. It's driving me crazy!!! Anyway to get rid of the stubs? Helppp!

Sadly, you can't. That's your hair growing back in. Some believe trying a new razor helps but it's not true. I suggest next time get a wax. Until then try putting cream on it. It will lessen the itch. Scratching it will hurt your skin very badly. Slap it if it itches very bad. It's just as good as scratching but it won't tear your skin.

hey i'm a guy, and one of my friends got pregnant. the whole school found out and eventually her parents did too. right now shes feeling terrible and her parents flipped out on her. i heard her talking to some of her friends and said she was considering getting an abortion. i asked her about it and she said shes worried and afraid its a bad idea. what should i tell her about it? i mean i don't think she should get one, but how do i help her with what she wants to know? thanks

To be completely honest, it's not your choice if she gets one or not. Right now people are going to be talking about her and asking her questions and annoying her to death. She really needs you to just be a supportive friend. If she does ask your opinon on this don't be afarid to say what you really feel. Until then just be there for her.

But what you can do is help her get facts from both views. Show her the dangers of an abortion. Show her the dangers of not getting one. Try search google from some sites

Here are some sites I found:
http://www.abortionfacts.com/
http://www.nrlc.org/abortion/
http://www.gurl.com/findout/fastfacts/pages/0,,622674,00.html
http://www.emedicinehealth.com/articles/38399-1.asp

I really want to find the right guy

I am very sorry you were asaulted.

But this will make you a stronger dater you will not be easy to take advantage of.

Anyway just keep your eyes open to every possibilty. If there's a nice, sweet guy in your school just start talking to him. If he thinks you are a slut tell him what really happened. Also if there are new kids it's always good to get to know them. You can start off with a clean slate like that and find someone truly amazing.

15/f

What does it mean if a guy wants to "holla at you?"
thanks

He wants to talk to you and call you and stuff like that.

how do you make icons and put them on iconators.com?

http://forums.buddy4u.com/viewtopic.php?t=13299

That website has tutorials and programs to download to make icons. You have to click the links provided to get the tutorials though. To upload to iconator you need to become a registered member. Save your icons as *GIF images. Then simply upload them.

okay well i am on a diet and ive only been drinking water and 2% milk but are there any other drinks out there that are okay for me to drink besides like diet pop (under 80 calories and 10g of sugar per 8 oz.)

and i dont like orange juice (i think that fits under my thing)

Water is the absolute best thing to drink. It is the most healthy and natural drink in the world. Stop drinking 2% milk switch to 1% or skim. No diet soda. Everyone says it's good for you but that isn't true. It uses loads of chemicals to sweetan it without using sugar. Try drinking the Crystal light drinks. They are very good. I also like the flavored waters. Try making your own iced tea. Buy tea bags and put them in large pitchers of water. Leave them out in the sun for a few hours and then take them inside and take out the tea bags. If yu like lemon iced tea do the same thing but put in lemons.

I am a male, 15, and lately I've been wondering about something. There are many girls in our school and grade. I am a gentleman and open doors, get chairs, etc. for the girls. It is pretty much the same way with my friends, we are all like that. But the girls in our school keep saying they like "skaters" or "skaters are soo hot" and we really are wondering what is wrong with us. Not to boast, but all of us are good looking. The girls just keep talking about "skaters." So why is it like this, and do girls not like gentlemen or something?

It's just a trend. There's something about their hair or something that makes girls like them. Eventually, they will learn that you are a real man with a real heart. Don't become a skater for them, no matter what you do.

ok me and this girl liked each other for a while and she just broke up with her boyfriend and we liked each other while they were going out and now were prettty happy and ready to move on with eachother as a couple and today i found out that we might be 5th or 6th cousins, were not like some rednecks on jerry springer it was completley unexcpected and unwelcomed i wanted to know is 5th cousins to close for comfort?
should we just be cousins/friends or what..

Fifth or 6th cousins is fine. It's way more awkward if you guys are 2nd or 1st. 5th or 6th is very distant.

I need a bigger butt. Any food, exersize, or clothing ideas? Please no exersize tips that make your butt tighter or perkier. Just bigger. I know pulling your shirt down makes your butt look bigger, and I know grains might help a bit. Any ideas?

The best way is by gaining weight. However, I doubt you want that. Try doing squwats (sp?). Your butt is a muscle so by working it is particular you will grow a big muscle. There really aren't certain jeans that make your butt look bigger. Just tighter.

I'm on my period right now and I have extremely bad cramps so bad. Like, on a scale 1-10, it's worse than 10! What can I do??!

Take advil or mydil or tylonal (sp?) whichever you have. Then take a warm bath. If it still hurts use a heating pad. Drinking some warm milk usually helps too.

Are their any clothing styles that make your breasts look bigger? Like bras and t-shirts and stuff. I heard V necks make an illusion of bigger boobs but i don't know. Please help me.

Padded bras, push up bras, water bras, and bras with under wire all make them look bigger. Yes, v-necks do make them look bigger too. The lower the cut the bigger they look. Unless it's an Italian cut, but they are probably out of you price rage anyway.

Everyone in my family has true blue eyes except me! My eyes ARE blue, but they just don't always look it. When I wear blue, they look blue. When I wear green, they look green. When I wear white and yellow they look grayish. How can I make my eyes look blue ALWAYS without wearing blue everyday? I don't wear contacts or glasses.

I have the same problem. My eyes are rally blue but they constantly change around. Wear gold eyeshadow makes the blue stand out. It's a contrast between the colors so it makes it more vibrant. However, when you wear black wear light blue eyeshadow that w ill make the blue stand out even more.

whats a good way for a 13 year old to pleaure herself besiders maustbating? how?

There are very few ways other than mastrubating. Maybe try humping your bed at night. That's the only way you can pleasure yourself without mastrubating. If you don't want to do that get pleasure from other people. If you are the experimental type try doing stuff with your friends. If you have a boyfriend or friends with benifits try doing stuff with them. But don't actusl intercourse.

i'm 15 years old & i haven't gotten my period for about two months. i've been having it since september 2004 & it's been sort of normal for about 8 months. i'm a virgin & i know this is going to sound extrememly juvenile but is there some way that i could be pregnant without having sex? as i said, i don't mean to sound juvenile but i've heard people say things like, "it's in the water" & is it actually possible? i'm just really nervous, & i'm racking my brain for an answer. could it just be that my period isn't on time? i haven't really been eating any differently. please don't treat me like an idiot, i'm just scared.

If you are not sexually active there is no way you could be pregnant. If you haven't gotten your period in only two monthes there is probably another cause. Probably increase in excersise or stress. If it continues you have to talk to your mom about seeing a doctor. You may have a problem if you constantly miss your period.

what age to people start masabating?

Really whenever you start to find it pleasurable. People who start at younger than 12 usually don't really do it right. But whenever you feel most comfrotable is when you start.

on a i m when someone says h/o what does that mean?

hold on is what h/o means

what was the code forthe google search box? how do you do it? and will it work on myspace?

thankkks

The code is [ search ] term [ / search ] without the spaces. I don't think it will work on myspace because DN made a special code for this site.

There's a high school mixer tonight at the all guys school. (I go to an all girls high school so this is the only time I really see guys!) anyway, I have NO IDEA what to wear! I'm debating between a fitted tee and jeans or a jean skirt with leggins/tights underneath and a tee. Any ideas? I'm probably going shopping later so I can pick something new up. I wear pretty much any style so I'll rate good for ideas/opinions!

I think you should wear the mini-skirt and leggings. Wear black leggings and buy black converses. Wear a cami and a black zipper sweatshirt on top. If you can't get any of these then wear the fitted tee and whatever shoes and colored leggings.

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