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Ok well the only reason I am writing this is because Im hoping that if I write everything on mind down it will make me feel better...so If you dont want to read it don't...Ok well I feel like I am the NICE girl! Has anyone read the Ode to the nice girl I read it on a website but I dont remember which but if you have u know what I am talking about... I feel I can never be more than just afriend with the guy I like... We are serioulsy becomming like best friends in my oppion like i can tell him anything! I mean anything except that I like him... Its just way to weird for me to be like you know what I like you! So yes I am so mad I mean ok He told me one time that he doesnt talk to his exs cause its way to awkward for him and i dont want to end up like that... he also told me today that he found out that so many girls like him and there proabably hecka pretty... But really i am so confused I found out taht he went through depression for like a year...And liek we talked cause he was saying that he was feeling down and stuff so I was trying to cheer him up but i mean see how good of friends we are! He tells me so much and im really starting to like him but I am like really being the nice girl! I dont want to be just nice! I want to be more! I dont know why i am feeling down at the moment I just want to be here for him, I wanna be happy for him, I want to be happy for us... I am like ugh! anyways i dunno I just want to be happy... anyone wanna make me laugh or something... well anyways thanks for reading this... Bye... (link)
I don't know what to tell you. I am still friends with most of my exs too. He could change and it seems like you have a pretty close relationship. You don't want that ruined because of a crush. I know that you really want to be with him so maybe you could try and drop little hints. But sometimes relationships can ruin really good friendships and I don't think you want this relationship ruined.

Sorry...

Carolyn


hey i have light brown hair and i just cut it ..it was down to the middle of my back and now its at my shoulders(i wanted a change) i was wondering what hair styles i can do to make my hair look "hot" by the way im 13 and i have thick hair (link)
curls. side part. pony tail. buns. straight hair. and stuff like that okayyyy
i KNOW i helped
xoxox luvv yaaa beotch
cookiie*


anyone have any ideas how to say no if someone asks you out and you really want too but are afraid,or you just dont like em. and dont want to hurt their feelings.
**i rate 5** (link)
okay look...who cares just bang em...there hott and there sexy fuck um up!!! i mean jion the army of skanks beotch...but if you wanna say no...i dont know why you would but say i like you as a friend and nothing more or like im not looking for anyone or soemthing but i dont kno why in the damn worl would you say fricken no say yes then uck em and then dump em.. thats wat i do and i lUV it..
i know i helped
xoxoxo luvv yaa sweety i mean your a cutey...hugs and kisses to you. and props to me. luvv ya mii fellow skankaroo
CoOkiiE*


okay well there is this guy at school named travis.. well me and him always talk and we hang out at school as much as we can.. i can talk to him about anything.. and he calls me all the time and we talk for hours. he likes me.. i know because he told me and i know i like him but some of the things he does i dont like.. he gets in trouble at school alot and one day he came to school "high" and he started flirting with me and he kept sayin stuff to me that i know he would never say when hes not high.. and i always ask him about it and he doesnt remember.. and he comes to school drunk and i dont like any of that at all and he wont stop.. but i dont know how to get him to stop.. and on weekends he gets soo drunk that he pukes his guts out and i tell him not to do it but he wont listen to me and also i dont like his friends at all! they are all to old for him and they do really bad stuff and then he tries to be like them and does it too.. and he wanted to come over to my house and i would have let him but he was with his friends so i told him not to bother and im really upset and i dont know what to do.. so could some one please help me and tell me what i should do.. thanks i rate 5's (link)
okay first of all the big question is :
he flirted with...YOU? wow thats a first
no but really tell some one whos an adult maybe like your mom or his parents or if hes not ganna listen and hes ganna keep doing things like that then warn him and say you need to stop or im shutting you out of my life....and talk with him in person and have a long conversation and if that doesnt work dont be involved with him...tell him that you dont want to be sitting waiting for the call that hes in the hospital bed dying of achole over buse or something
i know i helped
xoxoxo luvvvvvv ya soo fricken much bitch!!!! :*
(P.S. to tell you more info i might want a better physical discription of the the guy and a pic too and maybe an e-mail adress to...it will..help me give you better advice)
CoOkiiE*



































































































































































































































P.P.S. i like bad boys


on myspace my birthdate & zodiac sign don't show up under the "details" section. how can i get them to? i have my birthdate put in, so i don't know why it won't show it. also on my friends it alows her to edit a comment before she submits it & mine doesn't. why is this & how can i make it let me comment? thanks! (even just one of the answers would be greatly appreciated). (link)
myscapes are pathtic....like you..okay your so pathetic well your kinda like another girl that asked me about my spaces and stuff and i told her the same thing to make some friends and stop ttrying to make some friends over the comp. and i bet your so called friend is a nerd that you met at the library reading a book about rosie oldanald you fat ass lezbain!!!! OKAY look here stop trying to make some friends over the enternet by taking sexy pics on "my space" and trying to get GIRLS to notice you since guys and girls don notice you...OKAY
who cares about ur birthday...i mean....they will at least know what month you were born dumb ass...
i know i helped
xoxox i luv you even if you are a lezbo
CoOkiiE*


when i was in 6 grade i went to a skool called AG...and then in 7 grade i switched skools....its hard for me but ive made a few friends...but friends arent the problem....in 6 grade i played violin for the AG orchestra...and at my new skool im on the orchestra also...but at AG i had a lot of friends in the orchestra and there was a bout 30 people in the class... but at my new skool...the orchestra only has 12 people and guess what...theyre geeks....its making me not like playing the violin because the class is full of geeks and its making me feel like a geek...but i wanna keep playing violin...what do i do

signed,
~confused girl~

ps....please help me...i dont know what to do...im begging you...i need your help (link)
OKay looky here little miss. im uslaly mean about this stuff but im giving you a break and im ganna cut u some slack about being a nerd and all but im only feel sorry for you. now..you can either continue playing the violin with the kids and not like it or you can try to be friends with the kids and keep playing..or you can quit and play the voloin at home...maybe even get some lessons after school or at a music place instead of being in that class i mean your still playing the volin just with out those kids.....or you could stop thinking about the other people in that class and just focus on playing ur volin...OKAY
i know i helped
xoxoxo nerd face ;) luvv yaaa so fricken much babe
CoOkiiE*


Everytime i have made a myspace account it never works! I'll try to login and it will say that i entered the password wrong or somthing! Only i enter it right! I dont know whats going on but i really want a myspace! Has this ever happend to anyone else?


~melissa~ (link)
my spaces are completely dumb... are you dumb...? actually dont answer that i think you are...no i know you are... okay stop thinking aout a stupid myspace when you need to go study since your failing every f-en class and have no friends...okay and i bet your going on the comp and trying to make some friends from over the enternet by taking "sexy pics" on my space so some guys will give you attention. okay go have some friends and stuff and stop trying to be cool because i dont think u are.
i KNOW i helped
xoxox luvvvv yaaa so fricken much my bitchy poser!!!


does anybody have any good workouts for abbs butt and love handles?? i really need to start working out! but i dont know any work outs that work.... (link)
OMG I KNOW GREAT ONES:
cruthes sit up RUNNING dance gymnastics push ups weights and the gym
i know i helped
xoxox
CoOkiiE*


okay
so i did something
and now im getting liek these sores in my mouth
like open sores kinda and they hurt
could it be an std ?
(link)
I dont know but to be on the safe side go to the doctors and get them checked.
cookiie*


ok this is my friends account cuz i dont have time to make my own right now...

ya know how everybody thinks that guys just wanna get down your pants and all they think about is sex? well is it normal for a girl to be like that?

and also i have this weird stretchmark things on my boobs, is this normal? (link)
yes its normal i would know from the sex part
i know i helped cookiiie


i REALLY need help on this 1!!! im new at this advice thingy and i want to give great advice! how do i give good/great advice????
PLZ help me!!!! *i will rate high on good answers! :)*
from,
stuck in it! (link)
resurch things.....help them knowing from your own experences think of what there going through and stuff like that
i know i helped
cookiie


I really wanna do a cute style with my hair for school.. can you help me find out one..

I have Brown Straight hair and i can do basically ANYTHING with it.

Please help!! (link)
ok...here you go:
curls: up in a pony tail or bun or down
straight: down, up in pony tail or bun or flipped to the side
i know i helped
cookiie*


16/f
i've noticed that my face has been getting a lil chubby. like uhder my chin and my checks.
i was woundering what causes it and if there is a way for me not to get a chubby face?
thanks. i will rate.
if you need more infor or what not. just ask and i'll tell you.
thanks (link)
okay frist of all....its either babby fat or your getting a little....well...fat... what you need to do you faty is go work your scrawney ass off and lose some weight ...you willl find progress...
i KNOW i helped
CoOkiiE*


My boyfriend and I were having sex, same as normal. We put the condom on correctly, but it still broke in the middle of us having sex. He hadn't cum yet so we just stopped there and finished in ways other then sex. My boyfriend said he didn't pre-cum, but I'm not sure that he knows exactly what that means, and I'm pretty sure you can't control that kind of thing. Is there a good chance that I could still get pregnant or anything I could do?

I need a real answer, so please, no 13 year olds that are just guessing. (link)
Okay look... GOOD GOING YOU HAD SEX WITH THE GUY!!! your awsome okay. your my bitch friend. girl im so proud of ya bang him more. okay but look if your pregnet what you need to do is take the test...if it comes out posative then well...you can have an abortion or have the child now having the child is ganna be hard...while ur home with the kid your friends will be out partying and things.. and its not alot of money....you still have a chance of having a child just like if you were having sex with no condom
i KNOW i helped
CoOkiiE*


okay well theres this guy i like alot and i mean alot !! he is like perfect.. anyways.. is four years alot or distance or no? i rate high !!! easy 5's guys! (link)
if your in a grade higher that 6th than its fine (6th not included) but if its not i dont think i would because thats a BIG difference there


I am a tomboy and all the boys i kno dont like me. They just think i am one of them, a Boy. But i not i am a girl that likes boy things what do i do to get boys to think of me as a girl not a dude.

signed,
...... (link)
well you can't change who you are and what you like, but if you want them to think of you as a girl, not a boy, then talk about clothes and the mall and makeup around them, and dress kinda gurly.
sorry if this didn't help much!


What's the best kinds of women's deordorant that smells good? And don't say Lady Speed Stick, because I hateee that. Thanks. (link)
Try Ban..get the "Sweet Surrender" scent cause it smells the best. Ban really works well and works so much better than any other deodorant. I read somewhere that it keeps you 143% fresher than Lady Speed Stick. No joke.
I hope I helped.


Hey.I love food, i cant get enough of it. But, my question is...how do i stop eating every second, and only eat during meal times.




XOX,
FOOD-LOVER (link)
maybe you just start eating because you're bored. a lot of people do that. just chew gum often. it's ok to have a small snak after school, because that's probably when you're most hungry, just eat a really small healthy snak. as you start eating less and less, your body get's used to it, and you're blatter starts getting smaller and smaller, so then you start getting full more easily. just get into the habit of eating a small snak after school, and then you'll get used to it.
hope i helped!!


hey i'm not really thin and i have glasses and brown/blonde hair and i was wondering if someone could tell me some make up tips for people with glasses and brown/blonde hair and what types of cloth would look good basically what'll make me look hot!? (link)
ask your parents if you can get contacts instead of glasses. if they say no, then try getting a diff color or diff frame for your glasses. if they say yes, then wear contacts. also, maybe if you get color contacts, and try on diff colors, then maybe you'll find a color that you really like and think goes good on you. and for your hair, if it's really short, then grow it out so that it's like 5 inches past your shoulders. if your hair is curly, then try making it straight with a hair straightener. try diff hair styles with your hair. see if it looks better down, or up. for the makeup, dont put a lot on. just put some lip gloss on, eyeliner, and mascara. for clothes, there are a lota good places to shop at: abercrombie, hollister, american eagle, aropostale, and a lot more. get a pair of jeans that are long and flare out towards the bottom. abercrombie has great jeans. also, you can go to hollister for a mini skirt or something.
hope i helped!!


this past summer i went to an over night camp.. im 15 1/2 and this 19 year old kid was there.. he was a couciler and i was a camper. i knew him previously because he's worked with my team during reg. season. this summer, however, i really fell for him.. and i think he has a thing for me too? even though hes WAY old but he would constantly flirt with me.. and he has a gf.. on MY TEAM thats 17 or 18.. he isnt from the u.s.. so hes not here now. but i talk to him all the time.. and he always wants to know why i like him or if only i was older.. and he hints little things like that.. once he even told me he loved me.. out of no where. of course i wanna believe he rly likes me.. but part of me has a feeling he just wants me to keep liking him.. like hes playing hard to get or something when i KNOWW hes out of any ideas at this time. i really have no idea whats going on. and im friends with his g/f. HeLp!!!!!! (link)
he probably likes you, but you shouldn't let it just get to your head. he's probably in a strong relashionship with his girlfriend, and you don't want to be the one to brake that relationship up. ESPECIALLY if you're friends with his girlfriend. he's also alot older than you too, and since he's not from the u.s, you won't be able to see him that much anyway. if he brakes up with his girlfriend, then you can go for it, but if he's still going out with her, then you shouldn't try to brake them up.
hope i helped!!!




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