Question Posted Saturday September 3 2005, 10:57 pm
okay well there is this guy at school named travis.. well me and him always talk and we hang out at school as much as we can.. i can talk to him about anything.. and he calls me all the time and we talk for hours. he likes me.. i know because he told me and i know i like him but some of the things he does i dont like.. he gets in trouble at school alot and one day he came to school "high" and he started flirting with me and he kept sayin stuff to me that i know he would never say when hes not high.. and i always ask him about it and he doesnt remember.. and he comes to school drunk and i dont like any of that at all and he wont stop.. but i dont know how to get him to stop.. and on weekends he gets soo drunk that he pukes his guts out and i tell him not to do it but he wont listen to me and also i dont like his friends at all! they are all to old for him and they do really bad stuff and then he tries to be like them and does it too.. and he wanted to come over to my house and i would have let him but he was with his friends so i told him not to bother and im really upset and i dont know what to do.. so could some one please help me and tell me what i should do.. thanks i rate 5's
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Monday September 5 2005, 12:21 am: okay first of all the big question is :
he flirted with...YOU? wow thats a first
no but really tell some one whos an adult maybe like your mom or his parents or if hes not ganna listen and hes ganna keep doing things like that then warn him and say you need to stop or im shutting you out of my life....and talk with him in person and have a long conversation and if that doesnt work dont be involved with him...tell him that you dont want to be sitting waiting for the call that hes in the hospital bed dying of achole over buse or something
i know i helped
xoxoxo luvvvvvv ya soo fricken much bitch!!!! :*
(P.S. to tell you more info i might want a better physical discription of the the guy and a pic too and maybe an e-mail adress to...it will..help me give you better advice)
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ChOcOLoLo answered Saturday September 3 2005, 11:13 pm: hey there! because he likes you, and you like him too, tell him directly alone that you can't accept what he's doing to himself and the friends he hangs out with. just be honest. tell him that if he doesn't change or stop what he is doing to himself, you may have to reconsider the relationship when the time comes when you both go out. tell him just straight up. if he doesn't listen, or is not willing to change for you, then he isn't worth it, because if he really liked you and cared about how you felt about what he was doing to himself, then he would truly change for the better. i give you props for your concern for this guy. take care always, and remember to just be honest about how you feel. <3, normie [ ChOcOLoLo's advice column | Ask ChOcOLoLo A Question ]
andhearts answered Saturday September 3 2005, 11:10 pm: hey girl! okay well, i kind of had the same situation. i liked a guy who smoked pot. well, you seem to really like him and it seems he really likes you. i think you should seiorusly talk to him. and be like "im not going to keep hanging out with you if you keep getting high and drunk" i know you cant just say stop...but i think he will mellow down a bit...if he really likes you and wants to do whats best. and make sure you tell him it really bothers you when hes high.you really should tell him. i think you should give him a second chance, and tell him what your doing. and if you think he's improoving in the getting high and drunk section...make sure you tell him that you are seeing him get better and you really like it. well i have to go to bed now...ill get back to you later if you send one to the inbox. kay, GOOD LUCK. hope i helped abit. much love, erica [ andhearts's advice column | Ask andhearts A Question ]
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