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Ok well the only reason I am writing this is because Im hoping that if I write everything on mind down it will make me feel better...so If you dont want to read it don't...Ok well I feel like I am the NICE girl! Has anyone read the Ode to the nice girl I read it on a website but I dont remember which but if you have u know what I am talking about... I feel I can never be more than just afriend with the guy I like... We are serioulsy becomming like best friends in my oppion like i can tell him anything! I mean anything except that I like him... Its just way to weird for me to be like you know what I like you! So yes I am so mad I mean ok He told me one time that he doesnt talk to his exs cause its way to awkward for him and i dont want to end up like that... he also told me today that he found out that so many girls like him and there proabably hecka pretty... But really i am so confused I found out taht he went through depression for like a year...And liek we talked cause he was saying that he was feeling down and stuff so I was trying to cheer him up but i mean see how good of friends we are! He tells me so much and im really starting to like him but I am like really being the nice girl! I dont want to be just nice! I want to be more! I dont know why i am feeling down at the moment I just want to be here for him, I wanna be happy for him, I want to be happy for us... I am like ugh! anyways i dunno I just want to be happy... anyone wanna make me laugh or something... well anyways thanks for reading this... Bye...
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Yea I have read what you are talking about. (I have the site it if want it). I have been in your shoes myself and it’s always a hard thing to deal with. Trying to drop hints is good but most guys don't get hints you have to come out and say it. I mean you can try putting things into hypostatical situations and stuff and asking him if he would ever consider you in that way. You can have a friend ask him like who he likes and stuff. But really just be friends with him. If you stay close enough to him and share enough with him eventually he will start to wonder about you. I've had that happen as well unfortunately it was to late I didn't like him anymore. But finding great guys is hard so when you find one don't let go. And if being friends is all that you can be for now take it. I know that you wouldn't want to mess up your friend ship of you did go out and it didn't work. But how do you know it won't work if you do go out with him? You have to take some chances in life. This might as well be one of them.
I hope I helped you think about this. If you have any questions or want to talk through an instant message I'll be more than happy to talk to you. :)
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I don't know what to tell you. I am still friends with most of my exs too. He could change and it seems like you have a pretty close relationship. You don't want that ruined because of a crush. I know that you really want to be with him so maybe you could try and drop little hints. But sometimes relationships can ruin really good friendships and I don't think you want this relationship ruined.
Sorry...
Carolyn
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