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Hey everybody! I hope you have fun answering this question! :)
Guess what!? I need some flirting tips! So go ahead and tell me some, I don't care what they are, just tell me! :P Anything you know about flirting, kissing, etc... in general would be great! 'Cause I need that type of advice right now! Thanks a bunch! :D (link)
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I don't flirt, but some of my friends who are girls do. The one that comes to mind usually introduces herself with a big smile, and a soft handshake, this probably wouldn't help you if you already know the person you want to flirt with. After a while she becomes a little touchy-feely, and occasionally giggles at silly jokes. As far as kissing goes, I suggest just going with the flow. When the situation presents itself, just do what comes naturally. I'm sure a girl can give you better advice on the kissing.
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i am 19. i am in a 5 year relationship and we have a one year old son together. i am going to college to be a nurse. lately there have been a lot of problems between my b/f and i. well i was going to move out, until i found out that i am pregnant. now i have cancelled my new apartment and am staying here for now. i know that we will not be together forever and i do not want to raise two kids alone. i am considering abortion and have an appointment scheduled for next friday. my b/f wants the baby and is excited. everyone in our family already knows that we are expecting again. i am too young to give up my life completely. i do not know what to do. if anyone has any advice i would really appreciate it. by the way, i am 8 weeks pregnant and due on christmas. PLEASE HELP (link)
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One kid can be a handful, if you had another one, they may take up every ounce of your time. But you need to decide what's best for you, and whether or not you can live with getting an abortion. consider your family's and your boyfriend's opinion, but your the one who has to live with it. If you think having another child means you'll have to give up on life, then get the abortion. This coming from someone who is against abortions most of the time. If you and your boyfriend are having problems, and you were going to move out, then maybe you should. If you know you won't be together forever, then you may want to get out now. It will be harder later, especially for your son.
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i have been with my bf for 4 & a half years and we have a baby together. our whole relationship has been a lot of fighting. he gets so jealous and he will rip my clothes, sometimes hit, and he calls me a bitch and a slut when he is pissed off. i am 20 and he is 22. i feel i am too young to deal with all of this, even though we have our good times. i have attempted to leave him several times but am scared of change and i never go through with it. he will also put me down in front of our friends and family to make himself look good. should i finally just give up or should i stick with it for my son? and if i do decide to leave how do i do it? (link)
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You are young and regaurdless of age, no one deserves to be treated that way. It's good to have a son be with his father, but it's not worth it. What if the child, when he grows older, sees his father hit his mother and call her a bitch and a slut? What kind of example would that set. Even if he only hits you sometimes, you still run the chance of being hurt, or your child seeing it. Everyone is afraid of change, but you have to do what's best for the child. If he keeps hitting you, you have to leave him. As to how, I'm not sure? Do you have friends or relatives that would let you stay with them until you get everything together? If you decide to leave, you might not want to give him much notice. The more time he has to think, the angrier he may get. If you do decide to leave, don't let him change your mind.
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My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting married and I am fine with that. I actually can not wait. He is my world. The thing is that I want to get my mom's wedding band and engagement ring. My aunt has both of them because my mom passed away. I live to far from her to ask her in person. So I wrote her a letter asking her for the rings. She promised I would get them when I graduated and well, I graduated 2 years ago. I have let it be until now and i do not think she will give them to me. She knows how I feel about getting them and what not. Do you think that she will send them to me? (link)
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She may have forgotten. Remind her either way. If she still doesn't send them, maybe you should talk to her in person. You live too far away though, so I guess if it comes down to it, decide whether or not the wedding band and engagement ring is worth the trip.
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My husband claims that he was physically and mentally abused by his alcoholic father while growing up. His mother and siblings claim that he is exaggerating, not one of them agree with his version. They say, in fact, that he was the one who got the most attention from the father because he was the star athlete of the family. My husband has turned out to be a very irresponsible adult, making compulsive decisions, always leading to disaster, we are financially ruined because of his get rich quick schemes, his gambling, bad business ventures, running up credit cards and bills he never intended to pay. He acts like a selfish, spoiled child, and often throws "adult" tantrums when he doesnt get his own way. He is selfish with his time, money, and belongings. Thinks of himself before his own kids. Has ignored his kids most of their life, because he would rather sit inside staring at sports games on television. Everything in his life is "all about him" He does not socialize, he has no male friends. He doesnt communicate with his family hardly ever. He has the worst habit of lieing I have ever seen on a grown up, everytime he is caught doing something he shouldnt, he lies and then covers up those lies with more lies, over and over. No matter how many times he is caught lieing, he continues to do it anyway. He lies over money, gambling, his job, situations that happen, its horrible. Does this sound like a man who was abused as a child, or does this fit the description of a man who was spoiled as a child and given privledges he didnt earn or deserve ? Im trying to see who is lieing , him or his family. He has hit rock bottom, as far as financially ruining us, his kids dont speak to him anymore, he doesnt live in our home any longer, he is just now claiming abuse, after 20 years of marriage to this man, he has never once mentioned abuse as a child. He even went as far as to go to the doctor for anti-depressants, they put him on Lexapro which is for severe depression, and he is seeing a phycotherapists. Is this just one big lie he is trying to pull off, or does he shows symptoms of abuse? The medication is making him even more distant and zombie like than he was in the first place. Normally he doesnt talk , he is silent no matter who is in the room or who comes over for parties or families gatherings, he seems incapable of striking up a conversation with anyone, unless it is a joke he heard, or sports related. Other than that, he is silent all the time. Now he's even worse. Im wondering if the medication is back firing, because he never needed it in the first place. Let me know what you think of all this. Thank you. (link)
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I think it's impossible to tell whether or not he was abused as a child. Even if he was, it isn't a decent enough excuse for his actions. Based on what I've heard, it's probably just another lie. If he's going to be depressed about anything, it should be based on this hole he created for his family. If he's acting worse now that he's on medication, he should stop taking it.
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Ok it was our 8th grade promotion dance and I wanted to dance with my ex- boyfriend just as friends. he wouldnt dance with me(i dont know why) the next day at school in the morning he was being a total jerk, then by the afternoon he was being really nice to me. should I still talk to him or should I ignore him?
(I think I like him more than a friend still)
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I wouldn't ignore him. It sounds like he went through a phase, since he's being nice to you, I would talk to him. But if he's mean and distant again, then I would ignore him.
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Hi, right now I'm 14 and my boobs have stopped growing. I wear like an AA30 which is realy small and embarrasing. I was thinking about over the summer I could try some breats enlargement pills. I searched and the best place I could find is Small Breast Solutions.com Do you think I should try these. I'm sure I want to (for myself) so I can feel what it is like to be a girl. (I know I sound stupid.) I asked my mom and she is okay with it. I know the ingreadients and I know I know what I'm doing. I think it is better than plastic surgery (whith all the bad outcomes.) But I'm not sure about my friends and this guy who is my really close friend. (I told them I had stopped growing.) (Guys how would you feel if a girl you knew was using this?)I'm not going to tell anyone. Thank you so much for advice! (link)
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I would definately try that over surgery, but I would still wait a couple of years. There are a lot of late bloomers out there, so your not alone. I'd give it time and see what happens. On the other hand, if you are very worried about it, it's entirely your decision. It's great that your mother respects your decision.
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hi my husband says he loves me when he chats on the computer he likes to see other womens tits and ask hhem to say dirty thing he shows his pics of you know what but we fight about it all the time but he says it doesnt get trun on by other women but hes always looking at porn and stuff makes me feel unwanted what should i do (link)
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It sounds like he's lying. he probably does get turned on by other women, why else would he look at porn. It sounds like he loves you, but doesn't appreciate you. Ask him if other women don't turn him on, what other reason does he have for watching porn.
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I was wondering if I would like to become a girkk do you think my parents would aggry with me or do you think you can get me a really cute bisexual girl friend? Shane Yoho /I am 14 and am a boy. (link)
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Sex changes are expensive, try to look for someone first. Your still young., so surgery could turn out to be a big mistake in the long run
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ok room i have a question i have this idea ,that i know is going to be really big for the hair care business,dealing with african american woemen,well all woemen if you wear big hair or extensions how do i find a backer to back me on this business venture or where do i start to get it off the ground. this is only for people who are business minded... ty (link)
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Usually the best backers are friends. Tell your friends about this idea, see if any of them would be interested. As for it taking off, try to get small businesses to notice your brilliant plan, and move your way up. Starting your own line is costly, so try to get sponsors.
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hi ive been with my common-law husband for 41/2 years now we use to have a computer almost a yrea ago but we got rid of it cuz my husband started doing things on it like cybersex with other women ive cought him and that and he use to jack-off with other women on cam too so we got into a big fight and got rid of the computer well now we have another computer with no cam which im happy for but hes starting to cyber againasking women to see there cam and to show there tits plus sending pictures of his penis and asking if they would suck it things like that and it really bugs me cuz it makes me feel like im nothing ive tryed talking to him about it but i truns into a fight now i dont know what to do im scared im lost im very upset cuz before we ever got a computer we had a great life now that we have one hes always on it at night and our sex life went down hill and so did our life too please give me some advice thank you (link)
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It seems like he's not interested in you. I would keep this in mind as you wonder what to do. He's not being fair to you, so I'd personally say he's not worth it. To put things completely into perspective, ask him to chose between you and cybersex.
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I am a 51 year old divorced woman. I have never had an affair with a married man until a year ago. To make a long story short,,,,,,he professes to love me and I surely love him. However he says he will not leave his marriage until his kids are out of high school. He says he wont do that to them. When I met him he was not even sleeping with his wife and refused to go to counseling. About 6 months ago she found out about us and filed for divorce. Since then my beloved has moved back into bed with his wife and started counseling with her. He says he is pretending until the kids who are 12 and 15 are grown. Advice (link)
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I would get out, at least right now. Try and see someone else for now, and if your feelings are still strong when his children move out, go for it. Right now he could be pretending, but there's a chance he's not. You have to realize that seeing him can ruin his family.
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How can i tell if my man has a yeast infection??? I had one a while back like say 6 months ago, and we tried to have sex well i had it without a condom he just slipped it in there but it hurt to much so he pulled out, could he have a yeast infection??? And he really wants me to give him oral sex but im scared becase of the yeast infec thing, could i get it in my mouth??? what does it look like if i get it in my mouth?? I dont wanna say to him "what if you have a yeast infection?" cause then that will jsut embarass him... also his penis always smells bad when i go to give him oral, it always smells really nasty, how do i tell him that i cant do it cauase it smells bad???? PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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Trust me, you don't want to give him oral right now. Make him go to a doctor.
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If there are no stupid questions, then what kind of questions do stupid people ask? Do they get smart just in time to ask questions? (link)
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There are stupid questions, but what decides this is the seriousness of the question being asked.
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I did it with my dog last week. He's good at it, but can I get pregnant from doing it with a dog? Could my babies be deformed? Could I get sick from doing this? (link)
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No you can't, but if you could they'd definately be deformed.
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i'm 14 and i've had sex 15 times with 16 different people(threesome) and 13 of them are members of my family(aunts, uncles, cousins, mom, dad, sister, brother, dog, etc.) and now i might be pregnant and i don't know who the father is(obviously not girls) what if it's like half dog? is that possible? HELP ASAP
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write back asap (link)
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When it comes to different species engaging in intercourse, the odds of reproduction are slim when the species are similar (Chimpanzees and humans), and absolutely impossible when they're completely different (Dog and human). Anyway, where the hell do you live. And how is this possible. I'd say it's a joke right, because the chances of 13 members of your family; including both of your parents, your sister, and your brother; wanting to gave sex with you are pretty slim. I apologize if it's not. But it definately will be all human, and it probably will be deformed in some way. Watch the movie "Bleeders", it shows what inbred people eventually turn into.
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ok... new question... it kinda the same... im 14 in 8th grade and i like a dude my freind gave his sn and we talk on im ( a lot) but i also have a crush on a dude in my third hour... ive been crushing on him for a while now... but im scared to say nething cuz im afraid he might not wanna be my friend nemore.. and thats happened to me b4... so im just kinda scared to talk to him! what do i do? (link)
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If he's your friend, I wouldn't risk it. I'm completely speaking from experience here. Make sure of his feelings first. Relax and try to talk to him.
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Ok...i'm 14 and i have a huge problem with my friend. you see, he likes this gurl amber but she hates him (she thinks he's a stalker), he was just calling her a slut and other things like that a week ago and last night he got online and started yelling at me for saying mean stuff about her (i never liked her!) so he got all mad at me and is telling what i think of her. including her. i talked to her today and she is kool with me (well kinda, it's the type of thing where we hate each other and we both know it). but my friend is being such a pain about the whole thing and everyone thinks it's my fault! what should i do? (link)
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Well, he shouldn't have blown up in your face.
I would just dodge your friend for a while (until he cools off) and ignore the people who think it's your fault. People like that are too simple-minded to associate with. If I were you, I would rub the fact that she hates him in his face, but you probably shouldn't do that.
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I need some help. I am going downhill in school because I am very lonely and i can't concentrate on my school work. The problem is that I desparately want a girlfriend and watching other people besides me dating makes it worse. There is no body special that I am attracted to in school, and even if I was i dont think i would know what to do (i am quite shy when it comes to starting conversations with girls and i dont know what to say.) Please if anyone can help me with my problems; how i can learn to be less shy around women, where i can find the girl for me, and what it will cost me to have a girlfriend. Thank you so much. (link)
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Well, start off with a simple hi. Awkward silence is common anywhere, so don't let that stop you, unless she doesn't want to talk. Just talk about something interesting that happened recently, see if she's interested in what you have to say. Eventually move on to likes and dislikes, if you have a lot in common, you got yourself a friend whose a girl. Eventually they'll see that you're easy to talk to, if you're not now, you'll learn how to be. After which you'll see if there's anything there beyond friendship. But don't wait to long to look, sometimes girls feel awkward dating friends. All it will cost is maybe a little self-esteem at first, but I'm sure after a while you'll get used to talking to girls. I used to have the same problem.
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Well i have just started to date this guy we have been together for almost two months. Now me and him get along great the sex is great and we have alot in common. What i want advice on is that i am a very intellectual person and enjoy the arts and what not anyway im a dork he on the other hand is a skateborder who did not graduate high school. He is not a bum has a good job and i know he loves me alot as i do him. Do u think that ill get bored in the future if he does not stimulate me mentally? (i am a 19yr Female) (link)
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Chances are you'll get bored in just about any relationship. So I advise you to find other forms of stimulation. You can always view the arts with a friend.
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