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Graduation dance
Ok it was our 8th grade promotion dance and I wanted to dance with my ex- boyfriend just as friends. he wouldnt dance with me(i dont know why) the next day at school in the morning he was being a total jerk, then by the afternoon he was being really nice to me. should I still talk to him or should I ignore him?
(I think I like him more than a friend still)
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you should stay away from him. if he is going to be the type of person who only respects you sometimes, you don't need that! make sure that you don't let him control you!!
your best friend,
~Jessica~
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personally I would explain to this person how he's not helping me get anywhere and maybe, at the extreme, distance myself completely from this person. You are only in eigth grade, I couldn't help but notice, your relationships at this age are merely for learning experience. Don't take them very seriously, they most likely won't last.
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If i were you, i would ignore him... he deserves it! He was being a jerk and then nice??? Make him say sorry by ignoring him. He'll feel like he definately did something wrong and probably apoligize.
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Well writer,
first of all, it's never good to ignore someone. Even though a person has been a jerk to you, they're probably being that way to tick you off, and if you are, then they have won. As a fellow 8th grader, I would say let him chase you. He could be just being a jerk to get your attention. If that's the case, he will tone it down if you let him know how you feel, instead of just not talking to him. Remember, communication is the best solution. Good luck!
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If he doesn't have the decency to treat you kind and like a lady then he isn't worth your time. Besides he is your ex-boyfriend, stop trying to hold onto an old flame. I wouldn't completely ignore him, that's kinda childish. But I wouldn't go pursue a conversation with him either. If he wants to talk and be nice let him come to you.
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Seems to me, that he still likes you. But, he's not comfortable with being "just friends" yet.
Give him a bit to take it all in.
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I wouldn't ignore him. It sounds like he went through a phase, since he's being nice to you, I would talk to him. But if he's mean and distant again, then I would ignore him.
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