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In love with a married man
I am a 51 year old divorced woman. I have never had an affair with a married man until a year ago. To make a long story short,,,,,,he professes to love me and I surely love him. However he says he will not leave his marriage until his kids are out of high school. He says he wont do that to them. When I met him he was not even sleeping with his wife and refused to go to counseling. About 6 months ago she found out about us and filed for divorce. Since then my beloved has moved back into bed with his wife and started counseling with her. He says he is pretending until the kids who are 12 and 15 are grown. Advice
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In short leave him its not fair to you his wife or the kids is it going ot hurt more when they find out he is lying and theystart blaming you or when you just leave and say enough is enough
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It sounds like he wants it both ways, to stay married and to have you on the side. It is up to you if you want to put up with it, but I wouldn't. Besides, if he did leave his wife for you, he has a high risk of doing it again... looking for someone on the side when he is with you.
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I would get out, at least right now. Try and see someone else for now, and if your feelings are still strong when his children move out, go for it. Right now he could be pretending, but there's a chance he's not. You have to realize that seeing him can ruin his family.
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