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cybersex


Question Posted Thursday May 13 2004, 3:41 pm

hi ive been with my common-law husband for 41/2 years now we use to have a computer almost a yrea ago but we got rid of it cuz my husband started doing things on it like cybersex with other women ive cought him and that and he use to jack-off with other women on cam too so we got into a big fight and got rid of the computer well now we have another computer with no cam which im happy for but hes starting to cyber againasking women to see there cam and to show there tits plus sending pictures of his penis and asking if they would suck it things like that and it really bugs me cuz it makes me feel like im nothing ive tryed talking to him about it but i truns into a fight now i dont know what to do im scared im lost im very upset cuz before we ever got a computer we had a great life now that we have one hes always on it at night and our sex life went down hill and so did our life too please give me some advice thank you

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girlygirl answered Friday January 7 2005, 2:25 pm:
He is blatantly cheating on you, in your own home. Sometimes, people are initially fascinated with seeing porn etc., but anything that he can't say/type in front of you, shouldn't be said at all! and besides the fact that cybersex is just wierd - typing to someone and getting off on it? You need to leave him immediately. It'll be tough, but spend some time alone, grieve and then let it go. He will never change.

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beautiful007 answered Friday May 21 2004, 10:25 am:
leave him he is know good 4 u

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Courtney answered Friday May 14 2004, 7:41 am:
No more talking . Its time for action . A marriageis personal and only between married people . Your husband is not respecting you and the vowes he made to you on the day you were married because, he's going around and is showing his penis to other women THAT ARE NOT MARRIED TO HIM . You said that you've given him chances and I think he's cheating on you b/c , that camcorder is just the same as cheatin . Its up to you . What do you want out of this relationship ? Do you want to watch your husband for the next ten years sending a picture of his penis to other women . If you do, then that's up to you . But I think that he hasn't really committed himself to you and that by doing this, he clearly doesn't respect you . Oh, if you culd , please rate my advice . Talk to him again .

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storageanddisposal answered Thursday May 13 2004, 4:45 pm:
It seems like he's not interested in you. I would keep this in mind as you wonder what to do. He's not being fair to you, so I'd personally say he's not worth it. To put things completely into perspective, ask him to chose between you and cybersex.

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