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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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I've been looking at different websites to see if it's good for you. And all of them say it's healthy and good for you. But my question is for girls. One of my ex's didn't like that I did it and was hurt when she found out I would watch porn. I just want to know how other girls feel about it? Do you think it's harmless to your relationship and good for your boyfriend, or do you think it's bad and means he doesn't love or care about you?

I honestly don't mind if my boyfriend were to masturbate when I wasn't around or even if I were. I think the only way it would bother me is if he chose to masturbate over having sex with me. If he replaced sex with masturbating for good, it'd upset me.

I also don't care if my boyfriend watches porn. That is his personal decision and I can't tell him not to.

I think if your girlfriend is overreacting over something as little as masturbating (which is completely healthy & preferred over sex in most cases) then she needs to go. Everyone masturbates and if she can't accept a personal decision that you make then she isn't the one. Besides, you sound like a young kid. Do what you want and don't let any girl tell you that you can't masturbate. Kick her to the curb.

ok look at the messege he sent me yesrterday its propper pathetic

Subject: You can be a real dick without even trying I don't even know why you bothered coming back to wow, you said it yourself its a stupid game so why on earth did you come back? I don't even want to know because at the end of the day you can't make up your mind about anything anymore. You should just quit like you do with everything else that you can't make your mind up about. All I hear from anyone anymore is how your being a complete idiot and that you've changed and its starting to piss me right off. And in truth you have changed. I don't know what shitty idea crawled into your head when you dicided to be a fucking dick but i'll tell you one thing. Everyone is getting pissed off with you and your childish fucking grudge against and i'm the one getting it in the ear. What it all boils down to is your a selfish, arrogant little prick who lives in a world where everyone else is wrong and you don't have to think about your own actions because its clearly everyone elses problem. You should just quit wow all together and forget you ever used to play it becuase we both know the only reason you ever played was because of me, and now your so keen on cutting yourself away from everything to do with me you should hurry up and sell your account. While your at it you can get rid of those items callen gave you because they really came from me, I asked him to give them to you on my behalf. Thats right I was still watching out for you. You can hurry make up your mind about leaving asda too because i've already left home shopping so you wouldn' have to leave. And lets not forget who got you that job in the first place. Well i hope your proud of yourself now. Also just because your out skating everynight thats not going to stop me going out and skating with my friends so if you see me down there with my mates you can expect my mates to stick up for me just like your prick of a mate did to me tonight, which by the way you should of had the guts to do yourself but instead you let a kid handle it. Your a fucking pussy matthew and you should try dealing with your problems rather than ignoring them. I hope you grow some balls and straighten up because if you don't. Your going to find you'll lose a hell of alot more friends than just me. I'm not going to name anyone, but theres quiet a few who are fed up with you. I always watched out for you and this is how you fucking treat me? We were like brothers I would have done anything for you. Your the real low life matthew. Grow the fuck up and get the fuck out of my way. P.s Atlest I have someone who loves me, you haven't even got that.

So he pulls out every wierd point in his stupid wierd mind to say what exactly? lol does it look like he is finnaly going to leave me alone kus to be honest.. this is the most retarded thing i have ever read

Ignore him. If you don't respond to anything he sends you, he'll eventually get tired of talking to himself and stop bothering you.

If you react, he'll only keep on because he know he can get a rise out of you. Ignore him.

This question is for guys:

What do you find sexier; a girl in a lacy bra and thong set or a girl dressed only in one of your tshirts. Just wondering.

If I were to ask my boyfriend right now; he'd say both. However, he's sleeping right now. The good thing is, I don't have to ask because I already know what he'll say.

Anyways, it depends on the guy. Some guys would like both, and some guys either like one or the other.

how do you get the breast bigger naturally,food,exercise

You can't. You have to wait. Your breasts will grow when they are supposed to. There is no way to make them bigger. No exercise you do will make them bigger, and no food you eat will make them bigger.

You have to be patient and wait it out.

So i recently got 2 hamsters...
One of them is up all night doing what she has to do. Yet, my boy one, he's usally asleep. He occasionly comes out to play, run on the wheel, and eat and drink. But yet i'm kind of worried,
Someonehlp? please answer asap!

I have a hamster and my hamster is a mix of your two hamsters. Sometimes she'll nap and be lazy and other times she'll exercise and eat and run around. I was worried about her too, but I called the store and asked and they said it was normal considering the environment they were in before being bought.

It could just be because of the store and how the store was taking care of them, or that's just how they are. I wouldn't be too worried. As long as he isn't sleeping too much and is still eating and stuff, he should be fine. :)

He's okay! :)

How do you take LSD?

We're not going to give advice on how to take illegal drugs.

hey guys this one is for my friend! she says all her friends are really into sports and she doesn't play any at all. she said she cant go through H.S without doing anything active. so she wants to tryout for cheer leading. she has never done anything like it at all. but she wants to tryout. should i tell her to go for it even if she gets upset because she didn't make it?

Yes. Tell her not to get her hopes up too high because there's a chance she may not get a spot on the squad. But, make sure that she believes in herself well enough so that if she does get rejected she's okay.

There are other sports that'll want her as well. She can also try Field Hockey. :)

if i bought something off of forever 21's website, and it didnt fit, would they allow me to send it back and get a new size?

The site has it listed:

http://www.forever21.com/customerservice/customerservice.asp?content=returns

Hey I'm 15 years old... my bff started to be like bff with my ex boyfriend...but that was normal and she talked with me about everything he did with her ex girlfriend (the one after me)... but lately she's been acting really weird... like texting with him (I know it's him cuz I saw once a message), and in her b.day they were acting like bf and gf!! I told her abour that and she said to me that he wasn't her type at all and that she would never date her bff ex boyfriend... but yesterday I found a conversation of them in my computer and they said to each other I love You too much for my likeness... and this week like two days she's been I don't know where because she doesn't want to tell anyone... and the other they she called ME to go to her house URGENTLY... and when I arrived there with another friend he was with her in her house totally alone...I didn't like it at all... and today she ditched us because she was somewhere she didn't tell us (my friends and I and a friend that came from England who is friens with her since preschool!!) all of us are soo pissed with her... but I don't know if I'm more pissed with her because of her dating him even when she told me she would never date her best friend's (me) boyfriend or because she hadn't tell me and it's hiding it from me... :S I'm so confused...xoxo Claire

In my opinion, you're overreacting. Your best friend can date whoever she wants and you can't tell her who she can & cannot date. You can say someone isn't right for her because you have her best interest at heart, but to tell her flat out not to date someone because it makes you unhappy is selfish. What about your friend's happiness?

I can see why you'd be mad, and I think you should be mad that she's hiding something from you, but you can't be mad at her for liking someone. You also can't be mad that it's your ex. I understand she said dating him just wouldn't happen, but feelings develop and things change & you have to understand that.

Another thing, you don't own her, and you don't own him. If they want to date each other then let them. You're not their mother so if they want to date, then that's their problem, not yours. You're making something so tiny into something so huge. She doesn't have to tell you anything if she doesn't want to and if she wants to keep something to herself for once, then she can. You have the right to do the same thing. So if you'd like to date someone, you don't have to tell her, and if you wanna keep something to yourself, then again, you don't have to tell her.

Nobody has to tell anyone anything. It's their business and if they want to tell you, then they will but you can't be pissed because they leave you out of a few things. You shouldn't be going through her phone either. I assume you were snooping because if you hadn't been, you'd had never known about this whole thing. Her relationship with other people is none of your business so stop snooping and stop being nosy. You're not being a good friend to her. Acting the way you're acting is unfair and being mad doesn't justify it either.

Grow up. There's other guys out there for you. And there's guys out there for her. Let her date whoever she wants because I'm sure she lets you do the same. You're causing drama for no reason.

is there anywhere i can buy clothes that are no longer available in stores? like last season items

(for example past items from forever 21):
where do the leftover clothing they sell go? they change their clothes every month!

besides ebay, ross, tj maxx, marshall's

Try going to Plato's Closet. It's a thrift/trade store and they usually have clothes from a bunch of different stores.

i accidently washed my ipod in the washer and heard it clanking in the drier. is there any way it will work again?

More then likely not. :(

what happens when YOu love this boy ... but YOu think he doesnt love YOu?? and you ahve tried talking to him about it.. and YOu have tried talking to his friends.. wht do YOu do??

Leave him alone. If he doesn't love you then he doesn't love you. You can't do anything to make anyone love you.

this is going to sound stupid, but i'm a 14 year old girland i want to find love. i think i have a picture in my mind of the boy i want and i think my standards might be too high because everytime i find something that might have a shot, i push the boy away. should i wait for the right boy and stop looking or the other way around?

Stop looking. Wait for someone to come to you.

help me! this person in my class is threating to kill me! he keeps saying dont tell any parents or he really will kill me, and when i try telling them they dont believe me! what should i do?

You need to tell a teacher. Write down everytime he says he'll kill you. Someone has to take you seriously because this is a very serious matter and you cannot keep letting him threaten you.

Tell an adult. You can never take something like this lightly.

When someone says they got folded, what does that mean?

It means they got drunk or wasted.

Okay so im almost 18 and i still suck my thumb! I only do when im in my room or going to sleep i would love to quit this childish habit but i have tried before and it just puts me in a bad mood if i dont do it ... Any suggestions?

There are lots of ways you can stop sucking your thumb.

I think if you get the urge to suck your thumb, pop a piece of gum in your mouth. Even though you'll be chewing gum & not sucking, it could help.

There's also nail polish that is said to taste really horrible. It can be used to stop thumb sucking or nail biting.

Another thing I would do is put hot sauce on your thumbs so you're not tempted to suck them.

So I REALLY REALLY like this guy, but he REALLY REALLY likes this other girl, which is my best friend. I tryy really hard for him to like me, and i talk a lot to him, but nothing works. what can i do?
from,
exotic emus.

You can't do anything. If he likes your friend, then he likes your friend and you have to accept that. There's nothing you can do to make him like you.

Move on. There are other guys out there.

How do I give good head?

I really like this guy and he says he likes me too, I 've been with him a couple times before, but havent gone all the way. He asked me if I could help him out, I said how, He wants to nut, what does that mean? How can I help him?

It means he would like to cum or orgasm.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=nut

I'm a 14-year-old girl. As I was leaving school the other day, I was walking with a casual male friend. As we were talking, he developed a
very large, very obvious erection. I was so embarrassed for him! I pretended not to notice, and didn't say anything, but he seemed
mortified, and left in a hurry. What should I have done?

I think you're okay. You did what you were supposed to.

I wouldn't say anything to him next time you hang out. Just act as normal and he'll get over it. :)

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