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friend develops erection
I'm a 14-year-old girl. As I was leaving school the other day, I was walking with a casual male friend. As we were talking, he developed a
very large, very obvious erection. I was so embarrassed for him! I pretended not to notice, and didn't say anything, but he seemed
mortified, and left in a hurry. What should I have done?
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Nothing.
You handled the situation normally.
He's a teenage boy. It happens.
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you shoulda started hitting on him or talking dirty. that woulda made it hilarious! but seriously, unless you want to see it, don't talk to a dude about the wood he's sporting.
-gunner
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You were right to not acknowledge it. You would have made him 100 times more embarrassed if you would have said something to him about it.
-Laura (17-f)
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I think you're okay. You did what you were supposed to.
I wouldn't say anything to him next time you hang out. Just act as normal and he'll get over it. :)
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You did the right thing. There really is nothing you could have said that would have made matters better.
Though I must admit that would have been perfect timing for a "is that a flashlight in your pocket..." type of comment :) Just kidding at his age it might just have scarred him for life.
No, you did well. When you see him again just act totally normally and it will pass.
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iv got to say you dont type like a 14 year old due to vocabulary and such but oh well.
If you pretended not to notice im sure that would have been ok, in that situation you cant really do anything these things happen and the come and go its just a part of growing up.. think of it as his body taking it out for a test drive haha
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Just acted like yourself and pretend nothing happened. Thats about all you could have done. Hope I helped
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Well, you couldn't have done anything. I mean, staring at something is like freaking normal! If he was mortified then like let him be, but like I guess you may say sorry for looking or whatever.
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Laugh at him, jk, no but really do, if he cant keep his snake in his cage , then its funny
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You did the right thing, just to ignore it. He was embarrassed enough already, without you saying anything. Just pretend to not notice. Its part of life.
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All guysget boners...and some of them come at unwanted times..and sometime for noe reason at all...all of my guy friends have had that happen...just pretend you didnt notice it and it would probly make him feel alot better about it.
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You couldn't really have done anything. But I don't think you should bring it up in a conversation until a few more years to where he can laugh about it. If you don't, then you might make him feel emabrrassed and shy around you!
♥ Always,
Maria
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Nothing. I think you did the right thing by not mentioning it.It is a perfectly normal thing for boys that age and can be embarrassing for them.Just go on next time you see him as if nothing happened.
Don't mention it to others either.
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exactly what you did. Or go HEY NICE BONER and totally dug it. His face would turn red and you could laugh as he ran his ass off trying to get away from you cuz hes really embarassed.
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poked it. no, prodded it.
its not like its his fault. at least you know its big.
-hitler
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Its perfectly natural! If he seems to kind of seem mores hy now around you, just explain to him that you know that it happens so freakishly at random times ( I'd know <_< ) and that there's nothing wrong with it! If he tihnk you'll blahblah about it, assure him that you won't do that either. That would be mean. ;3 But yes, just talk to him if he seems kind of quiet now. ^^ <3 EJ
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I think you did everything right! You made him not feel embarassed at all, and that's really good! Next time you see him, just ask him why he ran off in such a hurry, that way he'll think you didn't notice, and everyone is happy in the end! LOL! I hope I helped!
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It's perfectly natural for him to have acted that way, it was an embarassing situation for him. You acted in exactly the right way, you didn't make a fuss or make fun of him, just pretended not to notice and that was good. If it happens again, act the same way and hopefully he wont get so embarassed.
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you should probobly just keep it kool and ask him why he ran off(pretend) so he'll think you didnt notice
~natt~
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The best thing to do would have been to whisper in his ear and say something about it but then don't make a big deal about it. But maybe you did do the right thing who knows. Whats done is done. I really do wish there was a 'delete' key in life and a 'rewind' button.
X♥X♥
Charmed-Cherry21
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