What do I do when my mom tells me that I'm the cause of all of her problems?
ignore her.. If you do something wrong and you know you do then maybe straighten the way you act.. &heart; Dez
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How do you make like a layout or add a background to your advice column?
You can find backgrounds on photobucket.com,myspace.com or xanga.. Or you can use the ones they offer on this site go to column settings and at the bottom there is a link for backgrounds click on it and look through them.. There is a Htlm code to enter when you choose one.. ♥ Dez
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This is for the guys. What technique do guys like when a girl grinds on them?
Moving your butt real close to there yupp.. and moving your ass up and down.. Doin it slow or fast *move to the beat of the music.. umm Sit him down and maybe dance to a slow song and rub your body on him.. mainly your lower parts of your body.. ♥ Dez
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what does gut mean?
like... " gut from the side"
Stabb.. Cut.. Shank.. ♥ Dez
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For my art project, I have to draw a big game board, and as the title implies, I'm doing a Pink Floyd version of Monopoly. I'm not sure on what do label the street names like: Park Place, Boardwalk, New York Ave., etc. For anyone that knows of the band, any ideas? All I have so far is in the corner for the jail, a clock that reads Time [get it?]. Thanks in advance, will rate.
Name the places after songs they sing.. or the name of the guys in the band.. ♥ Dez
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how do i make my tummy flatter and get skinnier thighs? please help. what can i do?
Running for your thighs and lift weights.. squats would help your thighs too.. do crunches for your tummy.. ♥ Dez
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I haven't started my period, but wanna ask 2 questions for when it comes:
1) Do you bleed all the time or is it like discharge, and comes out everyonce and a while.
2) It says you supposed to stay very clean when you have it. Itake baths cause my shower doesn't work. When I take a bath would thewater get all blooding during my period.
If you have any other info about it;;please tell me =) I'll ate 5 for good answers
1..You have your period once a month..*your suppose to on a regular cycle but that could be a while til its regualr* and you discharge before your period.. usually a year before you atart you`ll discharge alot maybe non stop..
2..Yes blood would get in your bath water.. So thats not really healthy so if possible try to get your shower fixed.. ♥ Dez
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I'm going to a surprise birthday party on Saturday. I was told I have to bring food or snacks. Do you guys have ANY ideas on what to bring? Recipes would be helpful. Thanks:)
Cookies
brownies
chips
pretzels
punch
pop
♥ Dez
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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend?
No! of course not.. You can say i love you to who ever or what ever you want.. I mean people say i love you to dogs and stuff so why should it matter.. You might not be *IN* love but your not too young to care for this guy and have feelings you get that for anything..Parents,pets,family,friends and BOYFRIENDS!! ♥ Dez
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Hey, me and my boyfriend have just started making out and having dry sex. I think he gets more out of dry sex than I do, and I would like to know how to make it better for me. Also, how do you make kissing more fun, and feel a lot better?
Hey!
Well how about kissing his neck and messing with his ears.. my boyfriend likes it alot.. Umm I`ve never done dry sex but you could try like gettin him to rub on you down there or somethng.. if your comfortable with him fingering you then you could have him do that or feel you up.. Maybe be playful also while kissing like bite his lip *NOT HARD of course* or suck on his ears/neck.. Maybe kiss his stomach and other parts of his body and get him to feel comfortable enough to do the same.. ♥ Dez
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ok. well im a girl. im 14. and i wanna know how do you know when your bi, because...i think i am. cause i like girls and guys. but i dont know. cause i like guys a lil more. but im craving to make out with a girl. cause i never have. and anyways. please help me!!
This doesn`t mean your bi cuz you want to experiment with a girl.. But if you want more then making out and everything then yes hun your bisexual.. Nothin wrong with it tho.. ♥ Dez
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if my period wasnt late at all and its only just started and not really really heavy does that mean that im pregnant?
NO!! ♥ Dez
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I am married, and want to know that during pregnancy when we stop sex, or during pregnancy when it is not safe to intercourse.
I also want to know that in 12th week of pregnancy is intercourse is suitable?
Please give more details about intercourse during pregnancy.
asif_jah@hotmail.com
Yes you can still have sex with her.. As long as she is comfortable and she`s having a healthy pregnancy then you should be fine.. ♥ Dez
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hi my boyfriend(male19)of 2 1/2 year and me(female 17)are ready to move forward sexualy up to this point we are both virgins. oh yea we r getting married! k anyways what do i do with all that hair down there? its all black and i m blonde. so do i wax shave hair remover or leave it alone. I REALLY REALLY NEED ALL THE HELP I CAN GET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOVE ALL OF UR HELP THANKS
Yay happy to hear your getting married..!
Well its your decison on whether to shave/wax or whatever.. Waxing will be painful,I`d recommend Nair or Shaving.. Its your decison on how much to get rid of just ask him what he`d like.. He might just want you to trim that area..
Nair~Well it has directions on it so if you decide to do that you`ll know how.. Might burn a little tho.. Just take your time..
Shaving~Well Heres some tips!
1..Shave with shaving cream/soap or even conditonor.. i recommend conditonor!
2..Shave with a different razor then you use for your legs/underarms..*brand new
3..Shave the way the hair grows so you don`t get ingrown hairs or razor burn..OUCH!
4..Afterwards use a non scented lotion so it stays smooth and stuff..*baby lotion/baby oil
5..Take your time..
Waxing~Never had it done cuz i got my eyebrosws waxed and that was a bitch..
Trimming~Just makin the hair a shorter length and less bushy.. ♥ Dez
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i thought my real dad was in prison but the other day this man came to the door saying he was my dad had my birth certificate and everything im just confuse he said do i want to come out with him to get to know each other. But why has he waited al dis time to come see me im 16 now so do u think i should go and wat would i say to him
This is your decision.. If you trust him enough to go out with him and you want to know your father then thats your decision.. But if you aren`t comfortable going somewhere with him get like you mom or a family member to go with you.. I would go get to know him but thats just the kind of person i am.. So i could ask why he just now is walking into my life and what ever else was on my mind.. ♥ Dez
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hey everyone. i was wondering if you can flush condoms downt he toilet? thanks
Yes but sometimes it can clog a toilet up and then the damn thing will be on the floor or something.. Umm how about just throwing it away.. ♥ Dez
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Well, I was just wondering about this because I was just thinking about it randomly, but in the state of Minnesota, would it be illegal, as an example of ages 'for a 14 y/o to do sexual things with an 11 y/o, and they both agree on it'???
You both have to be sixteen hun.. Sorry its illegal.. ♥ Dez
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i'm 13yrs.old and a girl. is it bad to feel.... well happy if a guy makes comments about your boobs and butt or touches it?
This really isn`t good.. Of course you like it your thirteen and your gettin attention from a guy that you like so of course you aren`t going to tell him to stop.. But i`d be tryin to hook up with this guy before lettin him touch me like that.. And if you let every guy you like do this to you then most likely you aren`t going to be gettin a good rep.. ♥ Dez
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is it true that deoderant can give you breast cancer? especially if you put it on after you shave?
NO!! that sounds so retarded! ♥ Dez
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someone, anyone tell me what this guy thinks. i love him, and i can read what he says. but im wondering if theres somthing 'inbetween the lines'? help, ill rate & all that jazzzz < 33
me: will you go out w. me?
him: no
me: whatt, why?
him: complicatedd
me: just dime
him: i hate you. END
me: what
him: that was SUCH a joke
him: tard
me: but..
me: but i like love you
him: so suck it
him: bye
him signed off at 5:51:56 PM.
him signed on at 5:53:27 PM.
him: so to set this straight, benny dared me, i dont like you, i like jenna, ask anyone, get out of my face and stopo being such a clingy little 4 year old
him: so stop following me, and stop obsessing over me, just stop, youre WEIRD.
me: what
just too radical: want me to spell it? W-E-I-R-D
me: fine w.e
him: i know you care
him: youre crying arent you
me: s what if i am
him: thats so sad
me: really?
him: i mean sad as in loser as in, pathetic puppy
me: as in suck it
him signed off at 5:56:57 PM.
HMMM! sounds to me he doesn`t like you.. Leave this boy alone! ♥ Dez
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