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My Best Friend Amber is moving in 2 weeks back to Michigan (I live in Ky) sso you can imagine how far that is away. We Chose to write each other. But MY problem is, is that I can't stop crying. What Can I do To Stop!? And Also. What Could Be a Good going Away gift or something?? Thanks 13/f
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Neika,
This is Saylor, I know I'm not you most favorite person in the world but I will advise you as best as I can, here goes...
1.) If it's alright with her parents have her come down over summer.
2.) Contact her as much as you can.
3.) Write letters and NEVER forget each other.
4.) Spend as much time as you possibly can with her right now.
Ways to get over it!
Make new friends
Go to a party
Have a party
Spend time with McKendrek (you know what i mean)
This is one you prolly wont do but hane out with me and Alesha! :)
Gifts!
Stationary Kit (to write letters)
Scrapbook of you pictures
Framed picture of you
Im sorry Neika I tried to help as best as I possibly could!
Hope you feel better!
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Our school is having an after school Christmas dance and I have no idea what to wear! I want to look cute and sexy, but also Christmas-y.
I will rate 5's to a good answer. (link)
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I'd wear a black tank top and a skirt.. with heeled boots, kind of like the ones in Mean Girls when they do that dance:P haha. That would be cute. And also wear a santa hat. Some stores even sell santa hats that say "naughty" or whatever. I saw this really cute one once and it had mistletoe on it or something and it said "kiss me". haha I hope I helped:)
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i need some new stuff to listen to. i like fall out boy, dashboard confessional, kelly clarkson, gwen steffani, good charlotte, ect... plz give me some suggestions of this type of music. (link)
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for suggestions, i dont know what you mean. for other artists you may like?
so some others you may like are kanye west, shakira, ashlee simpson, beyonce, black eyed peas, mariah carey, ciara, green day, all american rejects
Alicia
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OK, my mom holds out napkins in this bowl but (i dunno how to explain it) it's like instead of being a full "bowl" it just like clay that was rolled into a cyliner and was formed into a bowl I'm really sorry i just don't know how to explain it but does anyone know where i can find something like that or a cool bowl to hold napkins in thanks...sry that i didn't make sence (link)
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I know what your talking about.
&& Id try target,wal,art, search a mall.
Depends on your price range.
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ok im goin out with my bf tonight and i wanna do something with my hair but i have no clue what!!! my straightner is officially broken and my hair doesnt hold if its scrunched.. im thinkin bout curling it but how??? and another question any cute make-up tips?
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you should make your hair lightly curled. for makeup, where something flirty, like subtle pink eyeshadow, or glitter. and mascara.
***IF your hair doesnt look too good, then if you wear a cute top, big earings, and well-applied makeup, then it will take away attention from your hair
Alicia && ♥
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There's this girl who I have been best friends with since kindergarden and now im in 7th grade. She is really gross and picks at her nails when she's bored. She eats lunch with me this year and it's so annoying because she's really CLINGY!!! She takes Ritalin which doesn't make you hungry, so the whole time during lunch she sits there and picks at her disgusting 2 inch long nails! She like makes me sit next to her, and when I get up to go to the bathroom or buy something she comes with me. She's nice and all but CLINGY!! I'm going on a cruise with her family in April for her Bat Mitzvah so...i can't stop being friends with her...its booked already!!! i don't know what to do! I'm like her only friend, and i am not being a good friend to her at ALL!!! I thought that ignoring her would make her realize that she is being clingy, but NO! I can't talk to her about it because she just ws in a huge fight with her good friend (now their not friends anymore) and will automatically think "SO NOW EVERYONE HATES ME!!" What should I do?? I'm stuck in a terrible situation. (link)
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i know so many clingy peope that are like obsessed with me!! i dont really ignore them, but when they talk to me, i do sound less enthusiastic. this way, they'll eventually begin to not hang around with you as much. in a while, you can tell someone to "accidentally" tell her that you dont like her, but only after a while, so she wont think everyone hates her. you dont want her to develope an eating disorder or anything, so either be nice for a while, or be boring (which has always worked great for me)
ALicia ♥
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OK, my mom holds out napkins in this bowl but (i dunno how to explain it) it's like instead of being a full "bowl" it just like clay that was rolled into a cyliner and was formed into a bowl I'm really sorry i just don't know how to explain it but does anyone know where i can find something like that or a cool bowl to hold napkins in thanks...sry that i didn't make sence (link)
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http://www.artinstituteshop.org
it has some REALLY nice bowls, that are handpainted. they are a little expensive, but would be good for the holiday season.
my fave is:
http://www.artinstituteshop.org/item.asp?catID=4&productID=1915
it comes in a set, and is only $45, but comes with five bowls, and they are absolutely BEAUTIFUL!
Alicia && hoped it helped
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ok i never herd this word before and i wanna know wat it is i probaly know wat it is jist use another word for it dont think im a big weirdo its jist that i never this word befo and i use anotha thing for it heres the word "pre-marital sex" what the heck does that mean
P.s. I know wat sex is DUH!!!!!!!! but not "pre- Martial" (link)
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sex before marriage.
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Ok, i think i have a yeast infection, but how can i tell for sure if i do? Like i discharge alot and its white and kinda chunky and it smells really bad.. (link)
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a yeast infection if when your itchy.
You may just being around that time of the month.
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Snow is a whole new conception to me, so does anyone have any tips at all about jogging during the winter through the snow, ice, and slush?
Or, is it as simple as "carefully", or "don't"? (link)
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Dont go out when the snow is going REAL hard down.
But when its easy going down or not coming at all, and just left over from whenever..
You can still jog. Id wear a nice warm coat, ear muffs, a scarf. Your nose you just gottas warm up yourself, Its real easy, once you start jogging you will be fine.
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I have two 1 year (and maybe older) cats. One's a Boy and another is a Girl. They Fight everytime they see each other. So we have to separate them. Like one Will Be In one room with the door closed and another will be in another room! What Can I Do to Make Them Stop!?!? (link)
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the best thing i think you should do is put them in seperate rooms, WHERE THEY CAN SEE AND SMELL each other. then they will get used to each other. this has worked for many people, and if not you, you should talk to a vet.
Alicia ♥
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I am looking for Laguna Beach backgrounds for my computer and I cannot find them anywhere. I am talking about Mtv's Laguna Beach. Please help! Thanks. I will rate! (link)
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http://www.fan-sites.org/laguna-beach/gallery/ this has pictures of laguna beach
you might find one you like
Hope it helped!
aliiCiA ♥
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We were having a Xmas party at my school today. In one of my classes, we were having a mock debate game. The teacher would call up four of us and give us a topic. One of the topics was 'it Santa Claus real or not"? Two people had to debate for the positive, that he was real, and the other two had to debate that he wasnt.
Well when my turn came up, the topic was: does Santa spend his summer in mexico or the North Pole? I was on the negative team, so I had to debate that Santa did NOT spend his Xmas in Mexico.
Well when I started talking I was really on a role. I said that I had been to Mexico 3 times and never once had a seen a fat, pasty looking man with a long white beard tanning on the beach. Then I added "who would want to see that? It's DISGUSTING!! I also talked about how Santa never has a tan, and that if he spent a whole summer in Mexico he would still be a bit bronn at Xmas time. I also added that he had to compile his naughty and nice list and get his elves in order, and that the summer is only 4 months away from Xmas so he would definatley have to spend his Xmas in the North Pole.
Well I got a couple of chuckles during my speech, and me and my partner won a prize for best debate!!
The only thing I'm worried about is now some of the guys in the class are avoiding me, and not being as friendly to me after I made my speech. I thought of two things: maybe some guys don't like girls to be funny and outspoken, that's what guys do, and 2, maybe they were offended by me saying that seeing Santa tanning on the beach was digusting.
Does anyone have any ideas?
PS, not everyone reacted this way. The teacher came up to me afterwords and told me I was hilarious. (link)
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okkk. we have debates in my class, and there is this popular girl inh the class, and she constantly says funny things, and participates ALOT. if they are avoiding you, it could be for different reasons, or they could have thought you were too enthusiatic, and maybe wierd, because yeah, i do NOt see where you came up with those ideas (in a postive way hun =])
alIcIa♥
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okay..well i kind of like this kid i dont even kno if i like him its just that im really attracted to him!!..he doesnt know yet tho..i dont know if he even knows me? maybe what i look like! haha anywaysss he likes to do stuff with girls i guess. or he has "gotten stuff" if ya kno what i mean. this makes me jealous because i know that he thinks other girls are hott! and that makes me really jealous..even tho i havent really even talked to this kid before but he is just hilarious and just a lil cutie! what do i do?! i really wanna makeout with him =0 thats a problem tho since i havent actually met him yet and i wont see him for AT LEAST about another 2 weeks..bummmer! but yeah and then when i see him its only for like 2 hrs and hes always talkin to other people..blahh! what do i doo? im really shy so that doesnt help..well when i first meet someone i am lol but i LOVE to flirt..just not right when i meet someone..well i do but yeah i dont knwo if you get it? and lately this guy is all i can think about seriously.. and i havent even met him i dont even think he knows i exist! but yeah .. when i go to bed i think about him every night before i go to sleep..like us bein together DREAMIN heheh.. maybe sounds obsessed? i dont know.. ahhh..got any ideas for me to get this guy!!
haha thank you dear
xoxox (link)
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okayy. have a friend whos friends with him, introduce you guys, or casually walk up if hes in a group of people. if he is nice, and not a jerk, he wont reject you, and if he does, go for someone else!
Alicia ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
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okay well one of my good friends likes this lil hottie! and yeah ive never met him b4 but ive seen him around and shes told me alot about him. now i want to help her try and get him..what can i do? because she is wayyy to shy to go up and talk to him you know..even tho she talks to him in school i guess? im afraid that if i meet him or my friend wants me to talk to him or something that maybe he will start flirting with me..then what do i do?! im soo bad at like just blowing off hot guys..well not blowing off just not flirting back. because i would LOVE to flirt back but i DO NOT want to hurt my friend at all..what do i do!? (link)
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if you want to flirt with him, then encourage your friend to flirt wiht him. if she doesnt, or is too shy, tell her she has to get over it, and if she still doesnt, you can go for him!
Alicia ♥
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Yes i have kinda of a problem...
so theres this cutie in one of my classes and like usually he "flirts" with me.or i think its flirting? but the kind of flirting he does is aggressive..like pushin you around and stuff..ist that considered flirting or considered "i dont like you get away from me" and then today like jokingly every time i walked my him he would like push me around and be like ya lil BiaTch! and then i would say somethin back..ad then do you think he does this to flirt or does it because he doesnt like me?! hope ya can help!
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hes either very shy about his flirting, or doesnt know how to do it. flirt with him, and see if he flirts with you, but like non-agressively
Alicia ♥
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i need a cuddle buddy at this time of the year..it makes me sad seein all the couples together =( but whenever me and my friends hang out they are so much more outgoing than me that it kind of intimidates me..like if they arent very outgoing then i am but if they are im not..how can i flirt with these guys when they are also flirting with my other friends..sometimes it makes me jealous..cuz i like alot of attention..like looks and stuff from boys..but yeah im sorta shy at first and im not one to just go up and give hugs or sit close to someone unless they start it..how can i help this. because if i flirt with them im scared they will be like what the heck are you doing..get away from me. also what are some good ways to flirt..im not very good at it hahaha it sucks. well thanks! (link)
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*Eye contact
*Casual touches, or what is known in the "fast seduction" community as "kino"
*Smiling suggestively
"Protean" signals, such as touching one's hair
*Sending and receiving notes, poems, mix-tapes, or written music
Friendly teasing
Winking
those are some ways of flirting. the * ones are easy to do, like winking may be harder because that is very obvious. also, play hard to get.
Alicia ♥
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whats somethin cute to wear sledding..like i dont wanna really wear snowpants?! embarassing?! lol but i dont really have that many cute things for outside! and i dont even think i have boots..haha but i dont wanna go buy any! DRAGGGGG!! lol i dont have anything cute..anything that i could put together that might look cute?! because if we see guys i still wanna look cute :) thanks babe (link)
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okay
wear some pants (not jeans, but soffes, or sweatpants), but so you wont get cold, you can wear some shorts(s) under it, and many knee socks.
for boots, you wont want to wear something like uggs, but rain boots. delias has some really nice patterns (http://delias.com/item.do?categoryID=&itemID=44850&sizeFilter=&brandFilter= is my favorite)
then wear a flirty scarf, and a cute hat, like a beanie (http://store.alloy.com/itemSearchProcess.do?commTrack=itemSearch&SKW=hats&x=13&y=8 here are some cute hats)
Alicia
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I'm 15/f and really shy. I can't phone people, answer the door, buy things from shops, talk to people I don't know well.. and basically stuff like that. Everyone else can do normal things like that easily but I can't.. my hands start shaking and my stomach goes all tight, I blush and I just wanna run away when that happens. I think I'm scared of people judging me or something. I know people won't really care if I make mistakes but I worry about things so much anyway that I can't talk to people.
I can't even apply for college because you have to have an interview! I probably won't ever get married or get a job and I'll be a huge failure just because I'm shy! I don't know if I can get counselling because how would they be able to help me when I can't even speak to them? It's ruining my life. People just say 'snap out of it' or 'get some confidence'.. well it's not that easy, you can't buy confidence. My dad calls me a coward because I hate walking past people in the street.. which I suppose I am, but he thinks I'm pretending to be shy or something.
How can I get over it without seeing a counsellor? Are there medicines that work? Thanks xx (link)
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Be brave and start off by joining a a group or club from school. Everybody judges ist normal, and if you just give them time to show them the real you they wont jugde you.
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hi. can u please tell me wat butt buddys are??? (link)
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i think it is gay(men) porn
alicia ♥
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