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Moving Away Over Christmas Break...:'(
My Best Friend Amber is moving in 2 weeks back to Michigan (I live in Ky) sso you can imagine how far that is away. We Chose to write each other. But MY problem is, is that I can't stop crying. What Can I do To Stop!? And Also. What Could Be a Good going Away gift or something?? Thanks 13/f
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i have a friend ;like that and she never stays in the same place she moves every 2 years and im feeling sad b/c i cant go on with out her so she hasnt gone yet just make greater memories and enjoy the time you have left with her. get her going away gift based on her personality or something that reminds her of you something oringal hope i helped rate me.
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Neika,
This is Saylor, I know I'm not you most favorite person in the world but I will advise you as best as I can, here goes...
1.) If it's alright with her parents have her come down over summer.
2.) Contact her as much as you can.
3.) Write letters and NEVER forget each other.
4.) Spend as much time as you possibly can with her right now.
Ways to get over it!
Make new friends
Go to a party
Have a party
Spend time with McKendrek (you know what i mean)
This is one you prolly wont do but hane out with me and Alesha! :)
Gifts!
Stationary Kit (to write letters)
Scrapbook of you pictures
Framed picture of you
Im sorry Neika I tried to help as best as I possibly could!
Hope you feel better!
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The hard part of life sometimes it that you have to let the things you love go. I moved around about 9 times in my life and had to leave a lot of friends behind. And being as young as you are you don't have the option to just go out and see her whenever you want to. So I know that it's hard.
Just spend as much time with her as you can before she leaves. Make some new great memories, and cherish the ones you already have. I think the best going away present would be pictures of things that the two of you love, or she loves, or pictures of the two of you together. That ways she'll always be able to look at them and remember the things you did and loved and she'll be thinking of you.
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1st of all I feel sooo bad for you!!!but I think to stop crying you should just tell her how you feel(if you didn't do so already)and when she moves you guys can visit each other every now and then(if it's ok with your parents).For a gift you should make a scrap book of pictures of you guys together and give it to her.
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you know I know just how you feel becuz i moved from dc all the way out to silverspring maryland and yea i can call my friends but still it would be good to see them again. so a good goodbye gift would be something that you've cherished for a long time hopin that your friend will remember you every time they look at it and to help yourself stop crying don't stop crying, crying is just another way of letting your feelings out not in words but in little tears that fall out of your eyes onto the ground they leave your system is what i'm tryin to say so don't stop cryin when you do stop then you'll be cured.
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Just think of how hard it is for her. You may be hurting, but think of how she must feel, leaving all of her friends and starting a new school and having to make new friends. Don't be upset, and don't show her that you are. You don't want to make her even more upset. When I moved away from my friends, I thought I'd die living where I live now, but seriously. Life goes on, I made new friends. As much as you'd like to tell yourself you aren't going make new friends, you will & so will she. I'm not even friends with the people I used to be friends with.
Buy her a stationary kit, or something of that sort so she can write to you. Or, make her a scrapbook with all of the pics of you & her, and all your friends in it. And then put your signatures in the back. (that's what my friends did for me, and i absolutely adored it more then life.)
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find some new friends. go shopping. have a party. invite some girls over. go get a massage or your nails done. anything to keep your mind off it. a good going away gift could be a framed picture of you two or a scrapbook filled with memories and pictures.
cheer up. = )
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