Question Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 8:07 pm
i need a cuddle buddy at this time of the year..it makes me sad seein all the couples together =( but whenever me and my friends hang out they are so much more outgoing than me that it kind of intimidates me..like if they arent very outgoing then i am but if they are im not..how can i flirt with these guys when they are also flirting with my other friends..sometimes it makes me jealous..cuz i like alot of attention..like looks and stuff from boys..but yeah im sorta shy at first and im not one to just go up and give hugs or sit close to someone unless they start it..how can i help this. because if i flirt with them im scared they will be like what the heck are you doing..get away from me. also what are some good ways to flirt..im not very good at it hahaha it sucks. well thanks!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xOalmaOx answered Sunday December 18 2005, 9:43 am: First of all - seems to me like you don`t need any flirting tips since you said that guuys just give you attention. And I mean I can`t really tell you what to do because I mean it`s best to just go sit with the "crush" or give him hugs. That`s what I do. Usually they won`t reject you, and since you said you get attention I don`t think they will reject you since you`re ovibously pretty. Good luck. And don`t worry about being single for the holidays, I am too. It gives us single ladies time to mingle, LOL !
orphans answered Friday December 16 2005, 6:56 am: *Eye contact
*Casual touches, or what is known in the "fast seduction" community as "kino"
*Smiling suggestively
"Protean" signals, such as touching one's hair
*Sending and receiving notes, poems, mix-tapes, or written music
Friendly teasing
Winking
those are some ways of flirting. the * ones are easy to do, like winking may be harder because that is very obvious. also, play hard to get.
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xGLiTtErEdxEyEsx answered Thursday December 15 2005, 6:58 pm: well...
i mean if you like attention then you have to show people you do! you cant be shy and quiet you have to be loud and fun! and just let them know whose the life of the party! hahahah well yeah and if a boy does start flirting with you then dont turn it down..flirt back!
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