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okay well one of my good friends likes this lil hottie! and yeah ive never met him b4 but ive seen him around and shes told me alot about him. now i want to help her try and get him..what can i do? because she is wayyy to shy to go up and talk to him you know..even tho she talks to him in school i guess? im afraid that if i meet him or my friend wants me to talk to him or something that maybe he will start flirting with me..then what do i do?! im soo bad at like just blowing off hot guys..well not blowing off just not flirting back. because i would LOVE to flirt back but i DO NOT want to hurt my friend at all..what do i do!?
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well just talk to him liek a normal guy, i mean your freind already likes him & it wouldnt be to like freindly if you went & started like flirting with him & stuff but just talk to him about her & if you relize that he dosent like her & likes you then go for it , !
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Well if you are afraid you`ll flirt with him then tell your friend that. If she wants this guy she should get her courage up and do it herself because the guy might think she`s <b>too</b> shy for anything. That sounds kinda confusing but whatever,lol. That`s all you can really do is stay away from the guy if you know you can`t control yourself, but if you are a real friend you wouldn`t do something like take the guy she likes away from her.
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If someone flirts with you, that you don't like; then don't flirt. But if he flirts with you & you like him, then flirt back. :] Maybe go up to him & ask him if he likes her, or get her to write him a note or something. She may be shy but she just has to get it out that she fancys this guy. You should flirt if you want, you can't help your feelings whether or not you like this guy. So hopefully all turns out for the best.
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if you want to flirt with him, then encourage your friend to flirt wiht him. if she doesnt, or is too shy, tell her she has to get over it, and if she still doesnt, you can go for him!
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well i mean you could talk to him for her..and tell him all the good things about her and if he starts to flirt with you then you should be HONEST and be like ok well i think your cute in all but i dont want to hurt my friend because i know how much she likes you and so on and so forth and if you cant get them together then i mean you tried and you cant blame yourself ...
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AHH. Tough situation.
Yeah, I've been in that situation before. It's hard.
Well, maybe have your friend go up with you while you guys all talk.
Get a conversation started with them, like something you think they'll have in commen (try asking her what his interests are and stuff) and once they realize they have stuff in commen, be like "Hey I'll be right back!" and let them be and let them talk and flirt and stuff.
But, let your friend know you'll be doing that so she doesn't freak out and tell her to flirt with him, so that way it looks like she's interested.. you know?
Well, I hope this helps and good luck for you friend!! If you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox.
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Woah, that's hard! Lol. Well you just have to fight back from flirting back. Because then you might lose your friend. Tell her to talk to him a little bit more, and tell her to flirt more with him. Then you can talk to him for her. Just be like "Soo do you know _____?" And just go from there. Just keep talking about your friend a little. Not too much because then he'll probably get annoyed. Mostly you just have to back off a little if he flirts with you, because your friend likes him and you don't want to lose your friend. Just tell your friend to flirt with him more and to be confident. Lol.
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Just talk to this guy and talk about her. Now, if he doesn't like her then don't force him to talk to her or anything because guys hate that. If he flirts with you then don't flirt back if you don't want to hurt her feelings.
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