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I am going into the 8th grade this month, and next year I'll be a freshman. I really want to try out for highskool (freshman) poms becuase i LOVE to dance, but I'm not sure what exactly you have to be able to do. (flips, splits, turns, ect.) could someone tell me?

at my school, the dance team is VERY skilled. the tryouts are in april and they practice all summer. they do pom, kick & hip hop so maybe its more challenging? anyway, a lot of people try out but it's hard to get in. you basically have to have your technique down, good jumps, really flexible (splits in every direction), 4 turns, and flips are a plus. Sooo it really depends on the team. ask someone that has been on that school's team before. it will help to know someone on it too.

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do push-up bras make your boobs look bigger, even if you wear like a high shirt and dont show any cleavage?

yes beacause most of them have like a lot of padding so it will make it bigger, even with tshirts.

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i think i have started my period. I have told my mum and i have now got some pads of my own. But, Now blood isnt coming out alot and brown marks/stains are coming out on the pads. Im very worried about it so please help me. thanx X

It normal... when you are first starting its barely enough to get on the pad. in a couple days it might but if it doesn't, don't worry about it.

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when you have an eyelash curler and you also use mascara, do you put your mascara on then use the eyelash curler? or use the eyelash curler than put your mascara on?

i use the curler, put on mascara then use it again. i've heard it's actually bad for your eyelashes tho but it works for me.

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ok so there is this guy he is my bf i been going out with him for 10 months now..and i gave him head and drank the sperm will i get pregnant?..

there's no possible way that you can get pregnant from that.

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I havent gone all the way with my boyfriend, but hes given me oral sex. Every time he comes over, we do it!! Im 13 and want to be a virgin. Am I considered a virgin or not?

It depends. I read the article that the person below me read and basically its something you decide for yourself. if you want to be a virgin, then you are a virgin.

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im not relly sure if this goes in this category..
okay so i would like to buy a punching bag.

does anyone know any cheap ones that i can get?

and

i cant hang it from the celing so i would need either one with a stand or a free standing one.

and also what would i fill the bag with cause some have just bags that you have to fill yourself.


thanks ♥

At my old taekwondo place they had some that stand and they filled the base part with water.

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How old were you when you got your first kiss?

15 & I'm glad I waited for it to be special & not one of those silly 12 year old pecks.

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what are some cute styles of backpacks? pink is perferrable (sp?)! website would be nicee :) thanks

There's a pink one that i love from northface. it's cute and a good size. www.thenorthface.com

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My boyfriend and i have been dating for like 2 months and almost 3 months. And he's been acting kinda different from the last month. Last month i was his everything, he was perfect. This month he's different, it's like he's kinda careless now. I'm so sad, and worried, i cried 4 times 2 days ago, and cried one time this morning cause i waited for him to wake up online until 5 in the morning. But then i gave up and i signed off.. and then he signed on.. and i talked to him on the phone later that day and he said he woke up after i signed off and that he did not sign off on me and etc. and he said he was sorry.
but my friends arent really helpful my BESTfriend and i are fading apart since she moved to another city.. and my other bestfriend and i are in a fight and all i have is this site and my other bestfriend. Hopefully things wont get worse.. im scared of losing all of 'em especially my boyfriend.
should i worry or should i not? is he losing feelings for me?

Well i don't really know him but if you are really that worried about the relationship maybe you shouldn't be in it. it's not fun to cry over a guy especially when you don't know if he likes you or not still. i'm sorry you have to go through this alone basically. talk to your one friend you are still close to and see if she can guess this guy's feelings. just talk to him.. call him sometime because the whole waiting online thing isn't really working out or put up an away saying call me [insert name]. I'm a worry wart too but i say don't worry until you know for sure this is over. have fun in the mean time so you don't regret it.

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Hello.
My boyfriend recently graduated so I'm going to strip for him when we go on vacation to the beach.
The thing is I don't know which song to stripdance to!
We both like alternative and rock but pop is okay.
I need a song that I can dance to in stilettos, seductive/sultry songs are preferred, but with enough of an update beat to dance to

Thanks!!!

My love is like wo by Mya
Dip it low by christina milian

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do girls go for guys with piercings? if they are good looking that is, and do girls get attracted to guys with piercings,like let's say nose rings?and if they do, can you specify which part of the face or body you find most attractive for a piercing on a guy and how much piercings should your ideal guy have?thanks

I personally don't like guys with piercings. One in the ear is fine but other than that, i think it's weird.

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I've never been to a bloc party.
What exactly do you do there.
My boyfriend always goes to them. Do people hook up there or what?

i dont know what his are like but over here it's just a neighborhood thing.. like the peole that live on your "bloc" and the adults drink and talk and the other people do whatever or play cornhole and stuff.

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I was wondering how long it takes for marijuana to get out of your system. I didn't do it!, but someone I know did. And I am concerned about them. My school does random drug tests too by taking a little tiny piece of your hair. So does anyone know how long? Please actual facts not just guesses. Thanks!

hair is harder to get out... like 6 months. blood/urine can be out in 2 weeks if its a one time thing and they drink tons of water.

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My boyfriends wants me to send him a picture of my pussy to his phone. I don't really want to. How can I tell him I'm not going to without making it seem like I don't love him?

oh don't do that. this one girl at my school sent it to a guy and he sent them to everyone he knew! she was known as the biggest slut ever i felt so bad for her!!

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how do you put eyeliner on your top lid?

i just put it as close to my eyelashes as possible.

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I absolutely love the fact that the skinny jeans of the 1980's are back in style. My question is, where can I find a good and INEXPENSIVE pair? Thanks in advance!!

kohls!

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I saw this bulletin posted on Myspace titled "do you like polos???" and it said, "Hey! I have a friend who works at Lacoste and she just told me about a new promotion they're having!!! They're trying to gain popularity with the MySpace audience so they're giving away two free polos to MySpace users at their site! Just fill out some quick stuff... and enjoy their famous polos!" Is this REAL or do you have to actually buy the polos? Is there a catch and is it safe to do?

that's a virus, don't click it.

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I feel like I don't want to live anymore. I did NOTHING this summer and I hate myself for wasting my summer. I lost alot of my friends almost all of them. My boyfriend and I just broke up. My 9 year old sister gets treated like a princess by my parents and my parents ground me for everything that happens when my sister always does the bad stuff. My sister gets to go to my neighbors beach house every weekend and sleeps over EVERY weekend while my mom makes me stay with my grandma who hates me while my mom and dad go to expensive restaurants having the best time. I used to be the smartest person in school with straight A's but now my grades are slipping so much I almost had to stay back. I'm so lazy and never get anything done. I've gotten soo much acne and I've went to almost every dermatologist in the state and my pimples are still there and my face hurts because its irritated. My hair always looks unhealthy. My eyes are too small. My nose is too big and is covered in zits. My hair is dead and I use the best shampoo. And today I got so mad because my parents pissed me off so much I cut my hair with scissors and I just cut a HUGE chunk of the front of my hair so now thats screwed up. My hair won't curl no matter what I use. If you had to live that bad, wouldn't you feel like wanting to die? Everything about me and my life is screwed up. I'm so sad lately and no body and nothing can cheer me up. If I could feel good about my appearence and friends and life then I would enjoy living. I used to. But this summer everything is falling apart. I don't know what to do. It's probably just hormones I'm 13 and I don't have depression I'm usually really happy. I don't know what I can do so that I feel better about myself. Help?!

Wow sounds like you're having a bad day!
*I'll bet you anything that a lot of people also "wasted" their summer. at 13, it's normal. there's always next summer and you can mek the most out of weekends too.
*parents are like that. you're just gonna have to get used to it, really. siblings are too. my bro was 9 when i was 13 so i really know what you mean. it sucks but eventually you'll come to an understanding, i promise.
* get back on track and do your work. reward yourself with awesome weekend plans for doing good on your work all week.
*you might just be overreacting about the acne. try another derm... it might just be hormonal and zits are normal.
*eat healthy so your hair looks healthy. it wont always be shiney with it's healthy, it will be soft. i'm sure it looks fine.
* you're going to have to learn to love you eyes. it's a fact of life. you can use eyeliner and mascara to change them up a bit but later someone might just fall in love with your eyes because they are unique.
*go to great clips and have them work on your bad hair cut. it's pretty cheap and it will get the job done.
*not everyone's hair curls. it's not a bad thing. i know girls that fry their hair so it looks straight so count your blessings.
*i'm sorry about you and your bf. you're not the only person with this going on tho.. it happens, it sucks a lot, life goes on.
yes, 13 is a rough age and that's whats happening. you just have to stay positive. look at the happy things. you didnt mention anything about the great friends you have or any sports achievements or anything. there has to be something going right. you're healthy, you have a family... keep yourself busy. I had a horrible breakup recently. i can honestly say he was the only thing going right but i brought myself out of wallowing by staying busy... i cleaned/organized my room and most of the house and then went out with friends. try it. learn to love yourself. you're stuck with yourself forever and life is about being happy. you'll never get the chance to be this age again. lemme know if you need anything.

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Why do like 96% of the people on this site spell the word "lose" as "loose"?

Well, I'm glad I wasn't the only one that noticed.

Maybe it's because 96% of the people on here are underage?

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