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Is he losing feelings for me?
My boyfriend and i have been dating for like 2 months and almost 3 months. And he's been acting kinda different from the last month. Last month i was his everything, he was perfect. This month he's different, it's like he's kinda careless now. I'm so sad, and worried, i cried 4 times 2 days ago, and cried one time this morning cause i waited for him to wake up online until 5 in the morning. But then i gave up and i signed off.. and then he signed on.. and i talked to him on the phone later that day and he said he woke up after i signed off and that he did not sign off on me and etc. and he said he was sorry.
but my friends arent really helpful my BESTfriend and i are fading apart since she moved to another city.. and my other bestfriend and i are in a fight and all i have is this site and my other bestfriend. Hopefully things wont get worse.. im scared of losing all of 'em especially my boyfriend.
should i worry or should i not? is he losing feelings for me?
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don't worry. tell him how your feeling and hear what he's feeling. Maybe you're just not on the same page, talk and you will. Hope I helped!
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Well i don't really know him but if you are really that worried about the relationship maybe you shouldn't be in it. it's not fun to cry over a guy especially when you don't know if he likes you or not still. i'm sorry you have to go through this alone basically. talk to your one friend you are still close to and see if she can guess this guy's feelings. just talk to him.. call him sometime because the whole waiting online thing isn't really working out or put up an away saying call me [insert name]. I'm a worry wart too but i say don't worry until you know for sure this is over. have fun in the mean time so you don't regret it. <3
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Hey,
I don't want you to worry, and i don't want you to think that he is losing interest in you. Because at the beginning of every relationship, both sides( boyfreind and girlfriend), feel really excited about this whole new experience, and they are crazy about each other and keep talking for hours and hours and never seem to stop. But then after exactly 3 months, it starts to seem normal and its like ,your his girlfriend and he's your boyfreind, and the excitement just fades away, that doesn't mean that he stopped loving you or losing interest in you.
But you have to know this, that when a person starts a whole new thing, he's very excited at the beginning, then things fall into place and its just seems pretty normal. Besides, he apologized to you, he probably didn't mean it. Don't worry, i know how much you like him ,and that you are afraid if he stops loving you or something, but that won't happen.
About your freind that moved to another city, ofcourse things won't be the same between you and her, because you are in different places. But that won't stop you from talking online, calling each other , sending photos and fwds and emails, and webcaming while chatting and i am sure that she would come to visit maybe sometimes in the holidays. There are alot of ways to keep in touch daily, so don't worry about that either.
And about your other freind who you had a fight with ,let me tell you something, every single fight or problem in his world has a solution and their are ways to fix it and make things better.
So i don't really know what kind of fight is it, but for now, i can just tell you to have some courage and sit with your friend and talk things over, and see whose wrong in this situation and fix things together. Because there is no fight that can ruin a great friendship like the one between you and her, and you can tell her that.
And if you want to send me a personal message and tell me about the problem, i promise i would help you with it.
So anyways, i know exactly what you are going through, and i know that sometimes things could fall apart and we would feel all depressed and think that its the end of the world, but if we try to act cool and natural, and take things easily , things will be just fine.
Goodluck:) and if there is anything else that you need, please be free to contact me.
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Well all relationships have that inital bang that starts it off, and it usually fades away once you two are more comfortable and settled with eachother, but it doesn't necessarily mean he's lost his feelings. Don't be too clingy and waiting for him all the time, have your own social life as well. Honestly, the best thing you can do is be honest and upfront and talk to him about this, since you are so upset about it. Hope it all works out.
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I honestly think he might be.You need to talk to him and ask him why hes been so different lately.Youll never know whats wrong till youve asked.Mabey hes stressed out these days.You also need to fix things with your bbest freind that your in a fight with.If the fight was because of you then call and apologize,if it was cuz of her and she KNOWS she was wrong and didnt call to explain,then dont bother calling her and apologizing.You got dignity dont you?
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