I havent gone all the way with my boyfriend, but hes given me oral sex. Every time he comes over, we do it!! Im 13 and want to be a virgin. Am I considered a virgin or not?
itsz_JESS answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 11:29 pm: your still a virgin, unless you actaully had sex and his penis went in your vagina. but if all you did with your boyfriend was oral sex, then you are still a virgin [ itsz_JESS's advice column | Ask itsz_JESS A Question ]
caramella answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 6:03 am: ew,your 13 and your getting oral sex?What are you going to do when your older?If you start doing this shit from now,by the time your married,youll have STD's,have gotten pregnant before AND a sucky ass reputation.People are going to consider you as a baby whore like this.I seriously think you should live your age and life.Dont worry youll have sex one day when youre older and when you know more about it.See?Your doing something you know nothing about cuz your here on this website asking!You will really regret this later on,im telling you.Im 16 and i never did that!cuz im living my life and age,i can get screwed when im older. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
orphans answered Monday August 14 2006, 10:44 pm: Your 13 huh? Does your parents know that you have having oral sex with your boyfriend. From my prospective, you are young. I'm 13, turning 14, and I'm no condition to have sex of any type with a boyfriend until I get older. Having any type of sex is very dangerous, especially you are young. You are still a virgin, and I hope you feel good about your self. If you start having sexual intercourse with your boyfriend, DON'T. When you get much older, around 18+, you will be fine. Honey, you are ruining your life, and you have 5 more years to go; live it. Tell your boyfriend to stop, and have a regular relationship until you can handle pregnancy and dangers...Don't scare me! [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
MummuM answered Monday August 14 2006, 6:32 pm: I've heard on TV that if you had oral sex, it is still considered sex. It just depends on the person you ask and what they believe in, since everyone's option on this is different. However, I believe to loose your virginity you need to actually have sex. Personality, I believe you're still a virgin. ♥ [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Monday August 14 2006, 5:53 pm: It depends. I read the article that the person below me read and basically its something you decide for yourself. if you want to be a virgin, then you are a virgin. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
summerGIRL_xo answered Monday August 14 2006, 5:51 pm: i read about this in a magazine article. technically speaking, yes, you are still a virgin (aka you haven't had sexual intercourse yet.) however, morally or personally, it varies from person to person whether you would be considered a virgin or not. some people think only sexual intercourse determines whether you are a virgin or not. others believe oral sex can make you not a virgin. it really depends on the person. [ summerGIRL_xo's advice column | Ask summerGIRL_xo A Question ]
babiigirl answered Monday August 14 2006, 5:48 pm: Your a bit young to be doing that. Technically your considered a virgin until you have Actual sex. if you feel guilty about this STop.
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