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well,im a pretty easy going person. DO NOT LABEL ME! half my closet is aeroostale and american eagle,half is punk rock clothes. I change every day. I sing/play guitar. i have a bf,brian
E-mail: OhhItsLove@cheergirl.zzn.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA
Occupation: person
Age: 13
AIM: hopeless Lx0xVxE
Member Since: August 3, 2006
Answers: 18
Last Update: August 14, 2006
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I havent gone all the way with my boyfriend, but hes given me oral sex. Every time he comes over, we do it!! Im 13 and want to be a virgin. Am I considered a virgin or not? (link)
your a virgin, but you can get JUST as many stds that way so be careful


well, first of all, im REALLY uncomfortable putting this up, but i need to know.

for some time now, my 'area' has had throbbing 'desires' i should say. it feels gross and wrong. is this just being a teenager with hormones or something else? (link)
COMPLETELY normal. is tarted gettin that when i was 11 or so, which is very young. it just means your horny =-D


14/F
lately i have been so depressed. i dont get along with my mom that much anymore & we were soo close. i just cant stop crying & i like cant stand being around certain people that i used to be so close with. i know your gonna say its growing up but this isnt normal. i have tried talking to my mom about getting me pills or something but she just throws in my face how bad her life is which makes it worse. at this point i hate just about everything about me. i think im fat; ugly; worthless; loney; friendless & i cant do anything right. idk what to do anymore. i used to cut but i dont as much anymore and i dont want to but thats the only thing i can think of doing this point. also im getting quite suicidial. i cant see myself going threw with it but i have been thinking. my best friend is the same as me; same problem & everything. we both have very messed up families. also with me thinking im fat it makes me think of becoming anorexic again. i have been threw that also. im 5'1 - 100 pounds. telling me im not fat makes everything worse. i just dont know what to do anymore with myself. i need happy pills or something but idk what to say to my mom. please help. this is outta hand. (link)
holy crap, you just wrote my life story. Im a little younger and im still goign through it too. I dont know what kinda music you like, but i find slow to be very helpful, or loud rock if your flippin mad. Do you have a bf? if you do, talk to hi about things, he should understand. Or maybe just another male friend you lok up to, even if you dont have a crush on them, they stilll make your heart skip a beat ;-) if you have aol/aim, IM me sometime if you want.

faith x baby07
LxMarie02
Shotgun x2 Wedding

haah eys i have a lot O:-)



oh btw... pills probably wont help because word will get out and then peole will either think your a crazy lunatic and start rumrs about your life. Or try and make you fel better, which we al knows makes it worse becasue them being nice wont change the way you see yourself. ik this from experience :-p



x0 Leigha


im starting to absolutely hate rap, hip hop etc. im starting to like 80`s music, like i've fallen in love with it ever since my dad took my to a poion concert. soo i was wondering what are really great 80's songs/bands


thanks. (link)
Ramones, ACDC, Helter Skelter, Jimmi Hendrix, Rolling Stones, Captain and Tenille, Blondie, Neil diamond, Beasty Boys, The Who. thats all i can think of right off the bat


i'm 13, i don't plan on losing my virginity ANYTIME SOON, i'm going to keep it until i'm married. Most of my friends aren't virgins [ages; 13-16] and they don't regret it, but i know in the future they will . but can you guys just give me an amazing reason on why being a virgin is a precious thing and that giving up your body to some guy that just wants to get in and out makes you seem like a hoe. i really need good reasons so that when the other 1/4 of my friends are going to have a sex i can give them great reasons on why not to [other than STD's and all stuff i need other advice] (link)
just a lil more about std\'s, i went to the silver ring thing and they hsowed this chart about like say you had sex with 4 pepple before u got married, like 12 people would end up getting them. once your married, you have like a 99.9 percent chance that he wont leave you and will love you and the aby forever, and want to have sex ith you not just because hes a horny inconsiderate jerk, because he wants you to be happy.
hope i helped__0x


When you walk/run does it help tone your theighs and stomach or just theighs?? thanks!!! (link)
yea it will help a little,but not as much as thighs


Hi... I really want to lose weight before school starts. It starts August 28th. I really wanna lose weight in my thighs the most. (link)
running is always good, i dont know if your athletic or not, so if you arent-pace yourself and have lots of water. even just stretching and doing splits helps. smaller portions of food, substitute things like capri sun for water. jumping on a trampoline is AMAZINGG help. hope I helped...if you have aol you can IM me or something... hopeless Lx0xVxE..and thats a zero hha


-->xLeigha


I really like the Virgin Mary tattoos. I think they look really good. Problem is, I'm a Christian and as you know, the Virgin Mary, is a Cathelect (sp) thing.

Do you think it would be wronge for me to get one even though I'm a Christian?


P.S;; I'm 26 and have other tattoos. So please, don't lecture me about them or anything.

Thanks. =] (link)
catholic is still a branch o fchristianity


I have an extremley low self esteem...really low. But people tell me that I'm pretty...I can't believe it...So every time I go somewhere I am upset and thinking that I'm hideous and my self confidence is seriously so low...I don't know...what should I do...

www.myspace.com/rockstolemysoul

That's me...

I don't understand why I have such a low self image...but what should I do about it? (link)
your very pretty, nice job whatever you did editing pics or w/e to add words and stuff =-]


hey everyone.. ok well i went in my friend's myspace... and the first time i got in her account she didn't care... but then the 2nd time i did it she got mad at me... && my brother found out because i forgot to sign out.. so yeah && my parents also know... but they think i asked her but i didn't and now she's mad at me and i called her and apologized like a million times... && she said that she can't trust me anymore and she doensn't want me calling her anymore or talk 2 me ever again so what should i do? (link)
you didnt really do anything. if she didnt want you to do it agian,she should have spoken up.


im 14/f, 5'6 and 102lbs. im really thin and i want to know how to gain weight. i have a really fast metabolism so i eat constantly. i dont really have access to a gym so weight gaining with muscle really isnt an option. i'd love to be 110lbs or even 115. i really dont mind gaining fat. so if anyone has had the same problem and found a way to gain weight please help. i've heard peanut butter works but i can only stand so much of it. (link)
load up on the fast food =-D supersize everything


15.f

Okay so last night i stayed at my boyfriends house.. I didn't sleep in the same room as him.. i was in his sisters room.. anyways..
We was watching a movie in the lounge and we started kissing and then we was touching each other like.. had our hands down each others trousers and underwear etc.. He got an erection.. and then he layed on top of me, still fully clothed and we kissed some more..
I am worrying that i could be pregnant even though we were fully clothed.. Because i no you can get pregnant through clothes etc..

But what is the possibility of me getting pregnant through his jeans and boxers AND my combats and thong? Like.. is this likely?
I dont know whether he came or not or anything.. and i didnt notice or feel anything wet\sticky on my combats.. But when i went to the toilet i noticed a tiny, tiny little stain, mark type thing kinda just above my private area but i dont think it went through.. infact it may of been something i spilt on there?

What do you think?
Also..
When i came home today i noticed my urine is a really dark colour and very warm to pass.. and i have been discharging a bit aswell.. My period isnt due for another week at MINIMUM.. and i am not or never have been sexually active

Any suggestions? i just really need to stop worrying or have some kind of reassurence or to know the truth about if this is possible because otherwise it might delay my period and i'll think the worst!
Sorry its long!
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there is absolutely nooooo chance your pregnant. sometimes when your sick or healthy, urine will change color and temperature,or even if you have been holding it for awhile,haha. no need to worry


Well, before the "in" thing was prep. Right? Well, now everyone is like be "original." Now, Original is becoming UnOriginal. I really don`t know what to do. Because I meen I want to be myself, and stand out. Before I was PREPPREPPREPPREP. & then I decided I wanted to become original because I got sick of everything. But, now, everyone wants to be Original, and its like a new trend. Original is suppose to be original!! not a TREND. I really dont know what to do anymore. I just want to be myself. 14/f.


ps im a REALLY bad speller (link)
ik how you feel. Well if Original is UNoriginal now, stay Preppy an dyoull be the most original person =-]


Hey, I was just wondering if anyone knew some good like.. love/heartbreak songs. Anything you know of? It can be any type.. cliche/or not.
Thanksss! :] (link)
hopeless love-daphne loves derby
whats up lonely-kelly clarkson
what hurts the most-rascal flatts


heyy what's promiscuous mean?? and how do you spell it lol
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basically it means ur a hoe=-]you give it away for free haha


whats the song called where the main chorus is like "i like big butts and i can not lie, all the.. can not deny.." or something like that, and how does the main chorus go?? (link)
its baby got back. gr8 song. me and my friend r singin it 4 karaoke at a party tomorrow haha


I'm 15 and I'm completley new to makeup. Shocking, right? I don't really need it all that much but I kind of wanted to step up my look a little bit. Can somebody help me with colors to choose or something?

Hair color: Light Brown
Eye Color: Green Blue (hazel)
Skin Color: Light with a few freckles

I'd appreciate it so much :) (link)
some light purple eyeshadow or shimmer would look nice with your hair color. i wouldnt suggest blush unless it was put on veryyyy lightly. i also wouldnt use any eye popping lip colors... a subtle pink should work. oh an duhm,brown mascara instead of black.


hope i helped, Leigha


ok so i went out with this guy for like 2 days. then he broke up with me and my best friend told me to go ask him out for her. i really regret asking him cuz theyve been going out for 2 months now. i still really like him and he said that if him and my bff broke up he would probably go out with me again. but my best friend said that if i ever go out with him again she would hate me. im afraid that if i go out with him again that he'll break up with me again and break my heart in pieces. i dont know if i should go out with him again.
please help!!
thanks in advance. =) (link)
Well it doesnt sound like your friend is being a very GOOD friend. she should understand that you still like him,especially that shes the reason you broke up in the first place! I fshes really your frind,you need to talk to her and she'd understand. Hope i helped

x0h Leigha 0hX




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